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Reverend reported to anti-terror unit Prevent for telling pupils in a sermon they're allowed to disagree with LGBT teaching

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SuperShe · 09/05/2021 03:58

Just read this in the daily mail, about a Reverend who was sacked and reported to Prevent (counter terrorism and radicalisation agency) for a sermon he gave to pupils: (parts extracted from article)

“You should no more be told you have to accept LGBT ideology than you should be told you must be in favour of Brexit, or must be Muslim – to both of which I’m sure most of you would quite rightly object.

So I want to say to everyone, but especially to those who have been troubled, that you are not obliged to accept someone else’s ideology. You are perfectly at liberty to hear ideas out, and then think, ‘No, not for me’.

You are entitled, if you wish, to look at some of the claims made about gender identity and think that it is incoherent to say that, for example, gender is quite independent of any biological factor, but that a person’s physiology should be changed to match his or her claimed gender; or incoherent to say that gender identity is both a matter of individual determination and social conditioning at the same time, or incoherent to make claims about being non-binary or gender-fluid by both affirming and denying the gender stereotypes which exist in wider society.

Now when ideologies compete, we should not descend into abuse, we should respect the beliefs of others, even where we disagree. Above all, we need to treat each other with respect, not personal attacks – that’s what loving your neighbour as yourself means.

By all means discuss, have a reasoned debate about beliefs, but while it’s OK to try and persuade each other, no one should be told they must accept an ideology. Love the person, even where you profoundly dislike the ideas. Don’t denigrate a person simply for having opinions and beliefs which you don’t share.”

Here’s a link to the full article. www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9557845/School-reports-chaplain-telling-pupils-theyre-allowed-disagree-LGBT-teaching.html

I wholeheartedly agreed with everything the Reverend said and I am not even a Christian. I cannot believe how he was treated when he said nothing discriminatory or illegal. Yet it’s perfectly acceptable for LGBT activists and school teachers to chant “Smash heteronormativity" in the school.

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 10/05/2021 15:22

If we really want them to think critically and be emboldened to disagree, they might disagree about the things we don't like. That is, I thnk, at the root of all of this.

Kids are taught that critical thinking is thinking and criticising what has gone before - dissectingit, disagreing with it. Take Grea Thunberg as an example. She has a good point, many of them, and should be a great role model for other young teens explaoring their wider environment.

Instead something happened and she/her 'side' became attached to being right and dismissed alternative perspectives. And it all became polarised and not a tad entrenched. Truths became hardened, many people cling to one piece of data and refuse to allow any other data in - so there can be no proper critical thinking!

I think many conspiracy theorists have the same issue.

I know that the OP here has presented us with an example of extreme prejudice - and it is not the Christian one. Sadly the speaker has obscured the message. Some react to the man, his faith, clothing, and not his message. He did after all iinvite his audience to diasgree with his own beliefs too!

But his message, of tolerance even in disagreement, isn't what TRAs want, nor what many of the younger generation are used to being encouraged to do. These days there seems to be a need to pick a side, and to defend it to the death!

Nobody who starts off thinking that this man was radicalising kids will ever have the kind of self awakening that makes for fully rounded adults!

SmokedDuck · 10/05/2021 15:08

@CuriousaboutSamphire

Great! A man of faith stands up and says we should all be allowed to question the faith and ideology of others but should still remain respectful of the person and some here want to quibble that he has fucking personal faith.

He was reported as a terrorist and you want to moan about his being a Christian, not every Christian?

Madness!

Yeah.

It's not just the trans stuff that has largely become something that people can't talk about without being considered bigots by people who consider themselves progressives. I think this is the main reason the T attached itself to the LGB - because that had come to be the main social response to controversies or disagreements around homosexuality, and how to think about it either in the abstract or in terms of policy.

The Christian (and lots of other groups too) view of sexuality overall is pretty different than the modern approach, but it's historically been common and it's still the view of the Catholic and Orthodox churches which make up a the majority of Christians worldwide.

It should be possible to engage with people with different views rationally and respectfully.

And for kids at school - if we want to teach them they can disagree with the public consensus, or what is trendy, that is going to apply to everything. If we really want them to think critically and be emboldened to disagree, they might disagree about the things we don't like.

This is what has caused problems with Muslim parents in some schools. They, understandably, don't really like sending their kids to a state run school supposedly a pretty secular one, that pushes a view on their kids that isn't secular but instead represents a clear set of values, just not one based on religion. Because secular is not really the same as non-religious in that sense.

People need to decide what kind of society they actually want.

RoyalCorgi · 10/05/2021 14:28

“Barnes wrongly informed staff that gender identity is a protected characteristic under the Equality Act, and therefore must be legally recognised as a statutory requirement at the school”.

Why is there never any comeback for these lobby groups who repeatedly lie about the law?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/05/2021 14:19

This particular one has been deleted sharpish from at least one other thread today, I think I noticed.

ConfusedAdultFemale · 10/05/2021 14:16

And we’re supposed to believe that it’s not at all cult like?

CuriousaboutSamphire · 10/05/2021 14:16

@AskingQuestionsAllTheTime

Is this another of the pron-bots that were all over the place during the weekend?
Yes! It is/was Smile
AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/05/2021 14:14

Is this another of the pron-bots that were all over the place during the weekend?

Jannetra17 · 10/05/2021 11:29

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 10/05/2021 09:16

It's just so depressing. We are teaching kids that being capable of critical thinking is some kind of crime, is cruel and hurtful and needs to be stopped.

And all under the guise of being the nicest of nice!

R0wantrees · 10/05/2021 09:02

from Times,

(extract)
Randall claims that during her course “Barnes wrongly informed staff that gender identity is a protected characteristic under the Equality Act, and therefore must be legally recognised as a statutory requirement at the school”.

Randall said that he raised concerns and was assured by the head teacher that he would be consulted over whether the school would implement a wider policy. He claims that without consultation an “LGBT inclusive curriculum [was] implemented, even for the nursery provision at the school”. (continues)

current thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4236668-britain-s-youngest-trans-child

ErrolTheDragon · 10/05/2021 08:55

It's reported in the Times today. Same story, may be interesting to see the comments later

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/school-reported-chaplain-to-terror-watchdog-after-sermon-on-sexuality-pdt3hj5tb?shareToken=923879bc0644a84bb259f4a054d48f88

R0wantrees · 09/05/2021 22:28

from article in OP
"Dr Randall’s sermon, delivered in the school chapel on June 21, 2019, was prompted, he says, by concerns from pupils about an organisation called Educate & Celebrate, run by Dr Elly Barnes, which was invited to ‘embed gender, gender identity and sexual orientation into the fabric’ of the school. "

R0wantrees · 09/05/2021 22:26

Dr Ellie Barnes
-the only advice I give is don't send a letter home or have a parents evening-

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 09/05/2021 21:34

He's clearly a bigot: he said "remember that religious belief is just as protected in law as sexual orientation", having pointed out earlier that "some ... will happily lie about gender identity being a legally protected characteristic (which it isn’t)" (the process of transitioning from one gender to another is what is protected in law).

Or maybe it's just that he unforgiveably knows what the law actually says, which is not actually bigoted of him at all.

Tibtom · 09/05/2021 21:34

@LibertyMole

‘The CofE explicitly states that its members hold a range of views on the issue of sexuality and marriage, and that its clergy are allowed to argue for any position within that spectrum.’

Well exactly. So why would he start trying to represent the views of every Christian everywhere rather than the view of Christian tradition he believes in as a priest?

It is ironic that he mentions No Outsiders as that was also developed as a Prevent strategy!

He is not trying to represent the views of everyone who claims they are Christian. He believes that gay marriage is not compatable with Christianity. Therefore to him this is the Christian view. There will be other things others who claim to be Christian will also believe that he also wouldn't teach because he would believe them contrary to Christianity. He wouldn't say 'some Christians believe in polygamy' (Mormons) because he would consider this contrary to Christianity.
Iootraw1 · 09/05/2021 21:27

Nothing wrong with that sermon in my opinion - it’s refreshing actually. God knows children need some balancing viewpoints.
Just another example of freedom of speech being too much for lefty people to bear these days.

MrGHardy · 09/05/2021 20:58

We truly live under humane fascism.

And I only say humane because getting fired is not quite the same as being killed, tortured, or sent to a labor camp. But otherwise, it is quite clear that dissenting opinions are not tolerated.

mustlovegin · 09/05/2021 20:25

The Secular Society is campaigning to get religion out of schools (a view I sympathized with) but now the spreading of fundamentalist dogma is coming from LBGT activists who have free rein and are given the same status as holy men and prophets

^This. A zillion times

Either you allow everyone to come and express their views and foster tolerance, or you keep all ideologies out, remain truly secular and stick to maths, geography, etc. It's madness

mustlovegin · 09/05/2021 20:22

I feel for Reverend Randal. These intimidating guerrilla tactics are appalling.

I wonder whether parents who pay hefty fees for their children to attend (and board!) at this school are aware of what's going on?

LibertyMole · 09/05/2021 20:16

‘The CofE explicitly states that its members hold a range of views on the issue of sexuality and marriage, and that its clergy are allowed to argue for any position within that spectrum.’

Well exactly. So why would he start trying to represent the views of every Christian everywhere rather than the view of Christian tradition he believes in as a priest?

It is ironic that he mentions No Outsiders as that was also developed as a Prevent strategy!

Forgotthebins · 09/05/2021 19:47

I had the same thought Justawoman. That bit of his sermon about gay marriage law really set my teeth on edge and doesn’t reflect the reality in the CofE where views at all levels are very diverse. Lots of vicars tweet on LGBT issues for example. But I did like what he said about respecting the person even when you disagree with the views, and that people have more in common than divides them. I can imagine boarding schools are pressure cooker environments but reporting him to Prevent is cloud cuckoo land stuff and sounds like harassment. The whole story is just weird and puts the school in a bad light. Can any teachers here tell us if they have ever had to go to another training session where they have to learn chants? That doesn’t sound like encouraging empathy and engaging problem-solving processes, more like drilling a squadron.

justawoman · 09/05/2021 16:21

The CofE explicitly states that its members hold a range of views on the issue of sexuality and marriage, and that its clergy are allowed to argue for any position within that spectrum.

LibertyMole · 09/05/2021 15:50

‘I agree with what ppl have said, that he has failed to note that the opinion on gay marriage is not held by all Christians or all c of e members.’

It isn’t a democracy though; it is a denomination and an established church. He isn’t there to represent all Christians or make up church teaching based on what members of the congregation believe.

lifeissweet · 09/05/2021 15:38

I agree that I read the bit about gay marriage and sex before marriage with a slight cringe, but it is a view held by some for religious purposes and it should be allowed to be said.

The measure and call for tolerance of all views was loud and clear, though. In contrast with the description of the training received by staff (rainbow badges for right-thinking, anyone? Chanting?), it was far more open and accepting of different views.

It certainly wasn't extremist.

I was thinking back to my last school's no-platform policy which was referred to in a complaint by a vegan parent when the milk marketing board came to do a talk. I just read the wording again - and the part that jumps out is where it says something on the line of: 'no speaker should be permitted to promote one particular political ideology'. I think the LGBTQ+ programme at this school would fall foul of that. The balance of views was being upheld by just this one man - however you may disagree with some of what he expressed.

What do we want schools to be like? Do we want to engage in critical thinking and plurality of thought? I know I want that for my children.
It is just plain dangerous to have 'right-think' on a subject that is controversial and where there are legitimate alternative views.

I hope this man is vindicated and hasn't suffered too much emotionally about this horrible situation. Imagine being reported to Prevent?!