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Solidarity in Aldi today!

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JaneyHenderson · 13/02/2021 18:08

This is my first thread in a very long time but I wanted to share the uplifting and fabulous experience I had today in Aldi😂

I reached 'peak' during the last lockdown and lurk regularly on here while trying to make sense of the madness.
DH is supportive to a degree but very nervous of me being vocal about my GC views as we are both teachers. I am a middle leader in a secondary school and he worries about me getting sackedConfused
So I can't discuss this much IRL.

Anyway, queing outside Aldi today and saw a woman a few people ahead of me with a 'Woman
Noun
adult human female' tote bag. I was thrilled and as soon as there was an opportunity (by the fruit and vegWink) I told her I liked her bag and that I knew what it meant.
She said I had made her day; I replied I she had made mine. Then she said 'Solidarity sister and see you on the next march'
We went on our separate ways but bloody hell it was brilliant. To vocalise it and be recognised. Felt a bit emotional and even now re-writing it, am a bit teary.

Just wanted to share. It was wonderful.

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chestnutSquash · 14/02/2021 17:47

Thank you @Daughterofmabel.

LimpLettice · 14/02/2021 17:38

I recognised and connected with Maya Forstater coz of her AHF hoodie. So heartening to see them out and about. I've seen a few TW have a penis stickers not planted by me, too, which made my week Smile

jesuissweary · 14/02/2021 17:36

I feel like I should bring my AHF t-shirt and hoodie out of retirement. I live somewhere very T friendly so have had some dodgy looks (though no dodgy comments) when wearing it out and about in the past and got a bit scribbly about it. I’m inspired by JaneyHenderson to start being bold again. I probably should finally buy the tote bag for myself rather than as a gift for others.

I still sometimes wear the fuck kind shirt, more so since I stopped wearing a cross body bag that would cover the asterisk and make it look like fuck was there in full Grin - much as I am incredibly Sweary in real life I actually disapprove slightly of swear words written on clothing.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 14/02/2021 17:28

@Daughterofmabel

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz Sorry to you as well! Please see my latest post. These are re womens rights in Scotland but theres no reason why they cant be used outwith for womens rights in England etc
Perfect thank you Wink
Daughterofmabel · 14/02/2021 17:26

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn
Good plan!

Daughterofmabel · 14/02/2021 17:25

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz
Sorry to you as well! Please see my latest post. These are re womens rights in Scotland but theres no reason why they cant be used outwith for womens rights in England etc

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 14/02/2021 17:17

@Daughterofmabel

gardenbird48 I find wearing a mask and baseball cap works really well! 'Peel,palm,place'
I just go for the boring middle aged woman look, neutral colours, usually with a hood or hat, & I’m instantly invisible Grin
Daughterofmabel · 14/02/2021 17:17

ChestnutSquash
Sorry just seen this. There are many, all about what Scotgov are doing to womens rights and with website Forwomen.scot to find out more The one I posted says 'Scotgov believes that people with penises should be allowed to shower and change with teenage girls Do you?'

Whatthechicken · 14/02/2021 17:08

Also got the Andrea Dworkin ‘not the fun kind’ vest from 4W

SunsetBeetch · 14/02/2021 17:07

Thank you!

Whatthechicken · 14/02/2021 17:07

Resistance was red bubble. Magdalen was 4W shop.4w.pub/products/be-brave-short-sleeve-t-shirt

Daughterofmabel · 14/02/2021 17:06

gardenbird48
I find wearing a mask and baseball cap works really well! 'Peel,palm,place'

TofuDelights · 14/02/2021 17:05

Off the back of OP's cheering Aldi encounter I've just bought a tote and a Thought Criminal t-shirt! Thanks for this thread, OP.

SunsetBeetch · 14/02/2021 17:03

@Whatthechicken

I wear my Magdalen t shirts quite a lot...but haven’t noticed any one else noticing yet. I wear my resistance t shirt a lot too, would love someone to give me the nod.
Where did you get those from, What?
SunsetBeetch · 14/02/2021 17:02

@picklemewalnuts

For the posters less familiar with some of the terms who are finding some answers a bit sharp, bear in mind that faux naive questions and demands to explain are a frequent tool of people who are trying to derail gender critical conversations. Women's discussions brought to a halt under constant 'what about', 'but I don't understand' and general sea lioning etc.

Women get fed up spending time and energy patiently explaining the same stuff to disingenuous people who'd argue black was white if they could divert attention away from gender critical feminism.

Additionally, it's a big subject with a big history. Hang around, read around, and you'll pick it up as you go along. There are bits I don't get- so I'm watching and waiting for the penny to drop.

Some threads that should hopefully help newbies:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4165041-Q-A-thread-for-New-Posters

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3335962-Frequently-Asked-Questions-FAQs-I-have-noticed-here

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3348290-It-will-never-happen-resource-thread

Whatthechicken · 14/02/2021 17:00

I wear my Magdalen t shirts quite a lot...but haven’t noticed any one else noticing yet. I wear my resistance t shirt a lot too, would love someone to give me the nod.

Solidarity in Aldi today!
Solidarity in Aldi today!
Winesalot · 14/02/2021 16:51

RagzReturnsRebooted

Sorry Ragz. My post was pointing out that the term (which I hate) is generally used by activists to discredit women, to silence them and to shame them. The irony is the poster who used it has limits of their own to the extend of agreeing with self iD yet spends their time trying to shame women discussing their own limits and how it impacts them.

You will see ‘dog whistle’ used by activists who simply want people to shut the fuck up and they will not engage because they feel using the term discredits the argument already.

Bluesername · 14/02/2021 16:51

Thank you. I had assumed it referred to something like clapping seals, i.e. agreeing with the OP without adding anything else, so am glad it's a different explanation CakeWine

picklemewalnuts · 14/02/2021 16:46

For the posters less familiar with some of the terms who are finding some answers a bit sharp, bear in mind that faux naive questions and demands to explain are a frequent tool of people who are trying to derail gender critical conversations. Women's discussions brought to a halt under constant 'what about', 'but I don't understand' and general sea lioning etc.

Women get fed up spending time and energy patiently explaining the same stuff to disingenuous people who'd argue black was white if they could divert attention away from gender critical feminism.

Additionally, it's a big subject with a big history. Hang around, read around, and you'll pick it up as you go along. There are bits I don't get- so I'm watching and waiting for the penny to drop.

KitchenFairy · 14/02/2021 16:45

@YetAnotherSpartacus my T-shirt is 100% cotton, it’s a Fruit of the Loom T-shirt, the v neck is more fitted than a standard T-shirt, I’m wearing a S, I’m usually a size 8-10. It’s washed well and been tumble dried lots, it’s kept its shape and the foil print is still perfect, no sign of it wearing off.

SunsetBeetch · 14/02/2021 16:38

@Bluesername

Sea lions? Hmm
Assuming you're not taking the piss:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning#:~:text=Sealioning%20(also%20spelled%20sea-lioning,invitations%20to%20engage%20in%20debate".

Bluesername · 14/02/2021 16:36

Sea lions? Hmm

RoyalCorgi · 14/02/2021 16:09

I skipped most of this thread when the sea lions started appearing but I just wanted to say well done to the OP for making the connection and agree with the poster who said "I’m picturing June (OfFred) whispering to another resistance Handmaid in the grocery store". It also reminded me of regime dissidents making contact with each other in Eastern Europe and passing round Samizdat.

The idea that believing in biological reality is now a subversive belief that could lose you your job would be funny if it wasn't so depressing.

Wigglegiggle0520 · 14/02/2021 16:09

@Highwind

Love this! It shows that we are out there, even if some of us can’t afford to be as openly visible as others.

There are so many of us. The tide will turn soon, I just know it.

Solidarity sisters. X

Absolutely this.

Brilliant thread OP and another investing in a bag.

ArabellaScott · 14/02/2021 16:03

'dog whistle' is used widely outwith Mumsnet, though. Particularly in leftwing politics. It actually really irritates me, as it's often used to imply hidden/secret nefarious intent. As in ''women's rights' is a bigoted dogwhistle'.

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