And why the Navy think this is part of their remit is beyond me.
Published guide for parents by MOD LGBT+ Network, ShOUT
'Guide for Parents of LGBT+ Children'
(extract)
Transgender Children
Generally, resources for transgender children are even more scarce than for lesbian, gay and bisexual.
There are unique differences and steps you can take to ensure your transgender child feels as supported as possible
Learn About Gender
Gender and sex are not the same thing. Sex is generally defined as the binary characteristic assigned at birth – male or female. Gender is more complex, as it is a spectrum from masculine to feminine, and there are people that feel they fit in anywhere in between the two or with neither. Gender is about which set of characteristics you identify with the most, and can change easily
Follow Your Child’s Lead
Transgender means many things to many people. Don’t assume that your child will want to transition, wear a certain type of clothing, or change their hobbies. Listen to your child about what being transgender means to them, and know that there’s no right way to be transgender.
Use Your Child’s Preferred Name and Pronouns
It can take time to get used to calling your child by a different
name and using different gender pronouns, and it’s okay to
make mistakes. Using preferred names and pronouns can go a
long way to make your child feel fully supported by the family
Interview with Sergeant Major Mark Hill MBE
"Mark Hill is a Youth Engagement Officer within 4th Infantry Brigade in North Yorkshire. He and his wife have a transgender daughter, now
coming to the end of her 6-month assessment period at the Gender Identity clinic" (continues)
What advice would you give to others in the same situation?
If any other parents have any thought that their child might be transgender, ask for a referral to the Gender Identity clinic as soon as possible – a GP can make this referral!
Let your child know that you are there to help and support them and you love them regardless of how they identify.
Never question the child as to whether what they are feeling may just be a phase. They should always know that their feelings are valid whatever the outcome.
Support is out there but it is often difficult to find it – Mermaids UK, a charity for transgender children and teenagers, were very helpful and we had a lot of support from them." (continues)
Transgender-Specific
Resources
(signposts to:
Mermaids UK, Gendered Intelligence & NCH)
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