Telegraph reports schools face legal action

it's nice to get a real time demo of the lack of care for the feelings of female people some have though innit? (I say nice. I mean instructive and terrifying in equal measure of course)

really makes things clear

It's about wanting to use female people

^ This.

Think too about which part of female people is being used.

Because your mind, emotions, feelings, lived experience, beliefs - can all just fuck off, none of that is relevant. Only one bit is essential.

Oddly enough the exact same bit of female people that's been exploited since the beginning of time, and is the whole reason for sex based rights. Plus ca change.

Looking at a current thread on AIBU there seems to be a huge problem in some secondary schools in terms of access to toilets generally, whether sex-segregated or not.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3808579-to-think-this-school-policy-is-really-odd?

This is not just the school mentioned in the OP as other parents and teachers are reporting similar issues, ie.

• toilets being locked either during lesson times or during break times and lunch time;

• pupils only being allowed to go to the toilet during lesson times if they have a medical condition;

• pupils having to be accompanied by a member of staff to use the toilet during lesson time (by the Head Teacher at times!)

• only being allowed 2 minutes to use the toilet as standard.

In the OP post school, other posters have worked out that at lunch time there are only 4 toilets available for 600 girls. (I think similar for boys.)

Another poster worked out that the restrictions on access outside of lesson periods and the ratio of toilets to pupils means that if you only allowed 1 minute per toilet visit that 2/3 pupils would not have access to toilets at all during the day.

The reasons for supervised access to toilets mentioned on that thread by teachers include: vandalism, bullying, knife crime, drug taking, "prostitution", sexual assaults.

There is a bit of discussion about gender neutral toilets (both for and against) but the main issue is severely restricted access and that, although bad for both, that this is affecting girls more than boys.

I did not see anyone on that thread sharing the information on standards and legislation that has been brought to this thread.

It might therefore be that it is only when issues of sex-segregation are raised, as in this thread, that problems with access to toilets generally in a school are brought to light and dealt with properly. Along with attention to the worrying issues that are leading to restricted access??

It's about wanting to use female people, no matter what they call themselves, no matter how they identify. We are the living targets. Whichever room the people with real female bodies are in - that's the target.

Excellent post Barracker. It's exactly this. Colonisation.

Choosing/deciding to identify as a different gender does not change a young person's sex, so how does that affect sex segregated facilities?

This confusion isn't helped by the law being hopelessly confused about the distinction between sex and gender.

This is from the GRA2004. Obviously this doesn't apply to school children, who can't get a GRC, but the terminology implies that sex and gender are the same.

9 General
(1)Where a full gender recognition certificate is issued to a person, the person’s gender becomes for all purposes the acquired gender (so that, if the acquired gender is the male gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a man and, if it is the female gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a woman).

As I said in my post last night, we need clear definitions of 'gender' and gender-related terms such as gender Identity, gender role and gender presentation.

They seem to be arguing that the intention for toilets has always really been gender segregation, not sex segregation. I think this is fed by the idea that now science has taught us all sex isn't really clearly definable anyway.

Is this because female loos often have a picture of a human figure wearing a dress & male loos the same human figure wearing trousers?

The protected characteristics cited in the Equality Act are as follows, this is a cut and paste quote from www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/part/2:

The following characteristics are protected characteristics—
age;
disability;
gender reassignment;
marriage and civil partnership;
pregnancy and maternity;
race;
religion or belief;
sex;
sexual orientation.

Crucially, though - having any one of those protected characteristics - DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE ACCESS TO ALL THE OTHERS TOO!!!!"

Sorry for shouting, there.

But.... are disabled males automatically allowed into women's spaces, because they - disabled males - too have a protected characteristic - the protected characteristic of disability? No, they are not.

Are elderly men being automatically allowed into women's spaces, because they too have a protected characteristic - the protected characteristic of age? No, they are not.

Similarly - having the protected characteristic of "gender reassingment" does not automatically confer the rights and attributes of "ALL" the other protected characteristics, or even any of them.

I must admit I don't quite see how the human rights of transgender people entitle them to use the facilities of the opposite sex.

They seem to be arguing that the intention for toilets has always really been gender segregation, not sex segregation. I think this is fed by the idea that now science has taught us all sex isn't really clearly definable anyway.

Paintedlady my MP would be totally up for that, sadly.
Can someone unlock this statement for me please - So schools must have sex-segregated facilities, but trans students must be allowed to use the facilities for their acquired gender Choosing/deciding to identify as a different gender does not change a young person's sex, so how does that affect sex segregated facilities?

God, I really can’t believe anyone’s seriously coming on here arguing that teenage girls should be forced, under equalities law, to be naked in front of boys and men.

But then, what would I know? I’ve just spent the last 27 years being a lawyer, and a mother, reading the law and advising on it and doing boring mother things.

It’s pretty basic: if you want your teenage daughter to be forced to undress in front of males, support stonewall. They’re the movement for you!

If you think girls should have the freedom to choose who they get naked in front of, write to your MP and explain you’re terrified and angered by the way in which trans activists are trampling over the privacy and dignity of women and girls. Say you’re frightened by the CPS guidance. Say girls should have privacy from male bodied people. Say no female should be bullied by the law into undressing in front of a man. Ever. In any circumstances.

It doesn’t have to be a long letter/email. I’ve worked in a political context, and believe me MPs really do care about their post bags. They notice. You can easily find your MP’s email address on Parliament’s website. If you care about the privacy and dignity and safety of girls, please write.

Males don’t belong in our teenage daughters’ changing rooms.

It's infuriating.
Men and boys are not just expecting heaping servings of validation in the form of names, pronouns and the like. It's not enough that a boy can use a private room separate from the other boys and tell himself this is my special girl room. Hell's teeth, it wouldn't be enough even if the extra special private room had a neon lighted sign above it declaring 'girly sparkle girl only room for girls right here'
No.
The only validation that will properly serve, is the enforced validation of actual girls, demonstrated by the forced presence of their actually female bodies, and the compelled utterance of false words from female mouths.

This is about USING other PEOPLE, female people as living props.

We all know that even if every girl chose to evacuate to a room entitled "room for smelly hairy boys", that a boy seeking validation would choose THAT room over his own sparkly private girl room in a heartbeat.

Because it isn't actually about wanting to use a "female changing room". It's not about wanting to use a "female name" or have "female status" recorded.
No.
It's about wanting to use female people, no matter what they call themselves, no matter how they identify. We are the living targets. Whichever room the people with real female bodies are in - that's the target.

This sense of entitlement is a demanded entitlement not to names, pronouns or status.

It's a demanded entitlement to other people.

I've got a question for our visiting barrister. We are talking about legislation and guidance on the law. We need clear definitions of the terms being used. Could you define these terms?
Gender
Gender Identity
Gender role
Gender presentation
These have all been mentioned in this thread and it would help the discussion to have them clearly defined.

Michelle, that is so freaky, I was just thinking about that when I wrote my post!

I was remembering an old thread on here (AIBU I think) where loads of women shared their experiences of communal showering in PE a few decades ago, having to run through them naked, and then walk to get your towel, all sorts of horror stories. And other indignities.

I was thinking "this could end up being this next generation's version of that - girls being forced to undress in front of the opposite sex, and risking a hate crime accusation if they say anything!"

this cannot be in the interests of our school children.

Is it in the interests of a teenaged girl to be humiliated and afraid to show her distress while being forced to undress in the presence of a male, for the benefit of that male's wellbeing?

It's that straightforward.

I think of my generation's humiliation and awful memories of being made to share a communal shower with other girls under the eye of a female PE teacher. Every girl hated it. Those awful memories are powerful 30 years later.

These will be much worse.

I just can't tell you how uncomfortable I am about Stonewall and the NASUWT creating policy that tells my daughter she has to get changed with children of the opposite sex.

My DDs school (a private school, incidentally) have already told her that, but in addition, the CPS seems to be saying that:

1. her school could be sued if they don't allow this.

2. if she says anything, a slip of the tongue, a naive mistake, that is perceived as hurtful, she could be guilty of hate crime - according to the new CPS hate crime guidance for schools.

So - when a few months ago, a MTF trans child (wearing boys uniform) came into her changing room, her and friends said "this is the girls'" - and were told by the trans child's class mates - and I quote - "no, he is a girl" - I'm wondering if those girls naively questioning this, would be guilty of a hate crime? It's not much different to the Aspergers lad saying "is it a boy or a girl" to a PCSO.

These policies, and the CPS and Stonewall interfering in our schools, and threatening to sue schools, and threatening to criminalise children for hate crime - this cannot be in the interests of our school children. It cannot be good for education, for critical thinking, for freedom of expression and discussion.

I agree there's been a massive overreach. BUT is the welfare and safety of girls (in fact all children) important enough? Will parents speak out? Will MPs finally find their courage (instead of whimpering in corners to journalists about how awful this all is) and stand up to protect children?

Women and their children have been bullied into submission and, I suspect, been hampered by female socialisation. Natal men in female changing rooms affects women so mainly women have been complaining. The push back has been from women, hence TERFs etc.

But moves like these will engage father. The sexual protectiveness of fathers towards daughters is another issue all on its own, but if their daughters will be distressed by it, so will they. TRAs don’t seem to bully men in quite the same way - I wonder why?

nolongersurprised
I agree there's been a massive overreach. BUT is the welfare and safety of girls (in fact all children) important enough? Will parents speak out? Will MPs finally find their courage (instead of whimpering in corners to journalists about how awful this all is) and stand up to protect children?

I'm no longer sure. Don't underestimate the exceptional levels of intimidation and bullying that this ideology encourages. When organisations can actively threaten young girls that they must accept naked males who self identify as the opposite sex in their changing rooms or be charged with a hate crime I'm not sure how much lower society can sink.

What will happen is that girls will learn early that their own feelings of discomfort and unease around wanting privacy are wrong if what a girl wants is different to what a male expects of her.

Precisely.

A female's right to say no must depend first on whether or not the male she is saying no to finds it offensive. Or upsetting.

Well those are noble questions. I'll predict you'll either get no answer or a lot of probably quite patronising and pompous waffle, but the root of it is that women have been patiently asking these questions and explaining to the TRA political lobby for years. It isn't that they don't know. It's just that they don't care.

But this is why I think there’s been an overreach. Girls don’t want this and, more importantly, parents, irrespective of their religious and political affiliations don’t want it for their children.

But with the help of the CPS and their firendly teaching materials, she will be brainwashed indoctrinated educated to understand that some girls have willies and she needs to get over it.

What will happen is that girls will learn early that their own feelings of discomfort and unease around wanting privacy are wrong if what a girl wants is different to what a male expects of her.

To her, it’s inconceivable that girls should change alongside boys.

But with the help of the CPS and their firendly teaching materials, she will be brainwashed indoctrinated educated to understand that some girls have willies and she needs to get over it.

So the 13 year old changing for swimming (an act that usually involves stripping naked) is forced to undress in front of any adolescent boy who self identifies as a girl -

One of the schools near us were going to change to unisex toilets but then changed their mind, due to protests. I talked to my 13 year old daughter about it and she was horrified about the idea, saying, “But how would they get changed?!”

To her, it’s inconceivable that girls should change alongside boys. I think some girls just wouldn’t do it with punishments and disengagement from sport as a consequences.

Apparently it's not a problem if disability is shameful, but that shame shouldn't extend to a non-disabled child, so we need to rename the facilities in question if trans children are to use them

I find the same thinking about mental illness. TRAs get furious if it is suggesting that gender dysphoria is a mental illness, which leads me to think that they believe that mental illness only refers to utter madness.

Why is there no care or empathy for children in all this?

My view? It's deliberate.

The people pushing it do are not interested in the safety or best interests of any children - including trans children.

At best, they want their political agenda pushed no matter the cost to children. At worst, I can't say because I'd be deleted but we ALL KNOW who benefits most from weakening of safeguarding of kids.

Just because a policy says something doesn't mean it's lawful.

Exactly.
Should Mr Bob Jones the Geography teacher turn up to an evening PTA social fundraising event cross-dressed & introducing himself as Gloria there is no law which requires that his colleagues, parents of pupils or governors to use female pronouns or call him Miss for the evening whilst discussing his forthcoming trip for the VI form to Berlin. Nor is it required or appropriate that he expect to use the women's staff loos for the evening.

For the NASUWT to supply such guidance to SLTs begs many questions.