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Lunette (menstrual cups) policing our language.

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littlecabbage · 16/12/2019 12:04

I was interested in the MN sponsored thread about Lunette menstrual cups, and so had a look at the Lunette website. Unfortunately, there is an entire page dedicated to discussing “cis-women” and multiple “genders”, and lecturing us all on “how feminine-only language hurts” and how they would like to police our language for us.

I will therefore not be buying this product.

uk.lunette.com/blogs/news/gender-and-period-care-products

What to Say Instead

So, it’s pretty clear that the use of female-centric words needs to cease in the menstruation industry. This begs the question of what to say instead.

Depending on the context, you can try to avoid naming groups of people. For example, instead of saying “Some people who menstruate prefer Lunette” you could say “Lunette is a preferred menstrual care product”

We’ve changed racist labels. We’ve changed sexist labels. Now, let’s change cisexist ones. Periods are not inherently feminine. Periods are a biological phenomenon that impacts the lives of people who are born with a uterus. We have the power to grow toward inclusion of all people who menstruate, and now is the time for that shift. All people deserve to feel comfortable taking care of themselves during their time of the month. Period.

Here is the MN thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_product_tests/3741592-Find-out-what-MN-testers-thought-of-the-Lunette-menstrual-cup

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RealityNotEssentialism · 16/12/2019 12:11

Periods are a biological phenomenon that impacts the lives of people who are born with a uterus.

Yup and we used to call such a person born with a uterus a woman. However now it’s offensive because people born with a penis feel that being a woman simply means someone who has a feminine identity. At the end of the day, it still just affects one group of people, no matter what we call them. We can distort our language all we want. It still comes back to the fact that menstruation exists and that it is only experienced by the half of the population who have a uterus (apart from the small number who have a medical condition that means they have no uterus or do not menstruate).