As a middle class woman I’m fairly reassured by the fact I can at least side step some of the impact that self ID bill causes. I don’t have to be at work and use unisex toilets along side a man, I have a long term stable marriage where I’ve never had a reason to think I’d need to use a woman’s refuge or homelessness shelter along side a man who could pose a risk to me, i have never been to prison nor do I expect I ever will, so I don’t need to worry about rapists in the same cell as me. If my nhs services refuse access to a female hcp then I can pay enough for a smear if necessary (although no garentee either but at least money can have influence). I can vote with my money and go and join the ballentine gym where the owner says he will ensure men don’t get access to the woman only floor/change rooms/toilets. I can afford the petrol to get there if my local gym goes unisex. I am already stuck home educating one child, if I have to do so with my other girl when she gets to secondary ages because boys are allowed in girls toilets then I will do. I’m also educated enough to advocate for my daughters, and to put in carefully worded complaints letters (using links here and fpfw etc) to gps and so on as needed. I have a partner who supports me and understands these issues and how they will effect our daughters. We probably only count as lower middle class, but we are most definitely mc enough for me to avoid the worse effects of the self ID law on safety. If it effects my daughters sports at school we can pay for sports classes outside school where we can choose ones that are likely to be girls only, or where I can pick up and take them home to shower or pay from private sports like horse riding or private swimming lessons. I can vet any tutors I pay to come into our home, so I know our daughters aren’t hearing twaw bs and I know the common views of many of our home Ed network and who I’d happily trade child care and education with, and who I won’t.
The erasure of women as an identifiable class effects me massively, as ‘women’s’ vote will now contain men’s views, and the whole thing is terrifying on so many levels, but personally I will be fine I’m sure. Poorer women who need mh hospitals, dv refuges, homeless shelters, prisons and so on are the most vulnerable group. Women who need to work all hours and can’t opt out of using unisex toilets and change rooms are more vulnerable.
My daughters have multiple disabilities (as do I) and the concern for how little support they will get long term is huge, the erasure of women's safety will impact them much more than me personally. As all austerity, nhs cuts, education cuts effect my daughters much more than me. The idea that self ID is a middle class issue is ridiculous. Prisons and homeless shelters are not filled with mc class women, mh facilities are much more likely to be filled by poorer women, and while dv effects all classes equally i at least know if this was to become as issue after 20 yrs + of a very safe relationship I own another property I can use and have my own money in my own accounts, as well as access to our joint one. I’m aware that’s not true of all mc women, but for myself personally I know I can escape some of the risks self ID bill brings in.
Erasing sex based protections by making ‘women’ something any man can opt into by signing a form effects all women, and will forever once it’s in.