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Spoilt votes - post them here so that the parties/papers can see them

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MrsFogi · 09/12/2019 22:51

I know there is a split of opinion about spoiling ballots vs voting for the least bad option.

If you do decide to spoil your ballot it feel free to post a photo of it here (be careful not to include any information that identifies you and in particular not to include the ballot's unique identification number) in case any of our loitering journalists wish to pick up the story or in the hope of giving the parties/candidates some pause for thought.

In case it is of interest (and you want a place to post your views for/against spoiling ballots), there have been a number of threads about spoiling ballots, a few links below:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3751902-Spoiling-my-ballot?pg=2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3749890-Can-we-talk-spoiling-ballots-again-sorry
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3743237-advice-on-spoiling-ballot
Advice on Spoiling your vote

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tava63 · 18/12/2019 09:18

Consultation process is open in Scotland blogs.gov.scot/fairer-scotland/2019/12/17/gra-consultation/

jamrollyolly · 14/12/2019 17:38

I spoilt my ballot too. I crossed all the boxes and wrote 'women don't have penises.' ( Except I was so nervous I misspelled penises. To be fair, not a word you generally think of in the plural!)

MrsFogi · 14/12/2019 15:58

@Raindrops17 - yes do contact your MP (regularly).

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MoleSmokes · 14/12/2019 14:37

"SEX NOT GENDER"

"REPEAL THE GRA"

"NONE"

My constituency is just as safe as it was before the election so this was one way I could make my vote count. Even if only a couple of tellers saw it and wondered what it was all about, I count that as a Result.

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HandsOffMyRights · 14/12/2019 09:49

A slight derail, but Trewster has started a thread with a sharetoken to Janice Turner's piece in today's Times.

While this is about Labour, it does talk a little about the social media crowd not 'representing' the majority of people - and gets a nice dig in at little OJ and Ash.

It's relevant because it's 'everyday women' (have I just invented a new category for Sal Brinton to compare with TW?) will suffer at the hands of self ID and all parties are ignoring women.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3768289-Corbyn-is-clueless-about-the-working-class-Janice-Turner-in-The-Times-today

slimeandfear · 13/12/2019 23:00

The screencap at the top of page 17 (assuming default 50 messages per page) is from www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3767644-spoilt-ballot-not-counted

Raindrops17 · 13/12/2019 22:28

SDTG, that's a fantastic letter. I wish I could articulate my thoughts that clearly.

So I'm wondering if I could have a bit of advice on next steps.. I spoilt my paper and the labour MP only just held his seat. He didn't reply to my email prior to the election so I am not sure what his stance is on self ID. What should be my next steps? Email again to tell him he didn't get my vote because of the issues laid out in my email? Is he even going to care when he kept his seat anyway?

Also I want to ensure conservatives deliver what they have promised (Brexit aside). Will he support that if he is a labour MP or still try to push forward labour pledges? Basically I want to be more engaged with my local MP but not too sure how to go about it.

OnlyTheTitOfTheIceberg · 13/12/2019 21:14

Fantastic letter SDTG.

mcduffy · 13/12/2019 21:12

Thanks MsMc
When I spoiled my ballot last night, I popped it in the box and then turned and saw a suffragette project on the wall in purple and green (I voted in a primary school). Didn't see it on the way in as it was above the door Grin

BovaryX · 13/12/2019 20:12

MrsMc

That’s excellent news. I think the post mortem on Swinson will include this issue. I am really hoping it makes it to the media. There has been a political entitlement and a complacency about Northern voters and female voters and which party they should support. This election has upended that complacency. I hope this lobby and its influence are displaced as a result

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/12/2019 20:02

Thank you. I hope someone in the LibDems listens.

ChristmassySpice · 13/12/2019 20:02

Given the fact that Jo Swinson got it horribly wrong in this latest election, as did Jeremy Corbyn and the Labour party, I do hope people / politicians take note. Sadly for other reasons, a misogynist arsehole is in power with a majority. I despair. But I have hope for the future. I have to. I have an impressionable 8 year old daughter.

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 13/12/2019 19:55

Excellent letter SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius Star

Oh wow MsMc thanks for sharing that- feeling hopeful!

MrsFogi · 13/12/2019 19:42

Thanks posting that MsMcWibble - that’s is really heartening. Maybe some local councillors will give this some thought before the next local elections....

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MsMcWibble · 13/12/2019 19:05

Great letter SDTG
Just saw this on twitter - I believe it is on another thread here. Don't know if it has been posted on this one.

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MrsFogi · 13/12/2019 18:53

That is a fantastic message SDTG

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Bowednotbroken · 13/12/2019 15:23

I too spoiled my vote yesterday- first time ever. Like many pp I couldn't bring myself to vote for anyone (and we did have a Monster Raving Loony candidate...). Wrote in pencil why too, but wish I'd read this thread beforehand - prepared stickers in green and purple would have felt more meaningful. Now we have a new Tory male MP - so I need to start emailing over again (not that it did any good at all emailing the previous incumbent (female, labour, woke). So (pulls big girl knickers up tight) - here we go.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/12/2019 13:27

I have just sent this to the LibDems:

"This is a message for Jo Swinson, and for the Liberal Democrat party as a whole.

Whilst I voted LibDem yesterday, this was only because you were the least worst option in my constituency, and were marginally better than spoiling my ballot.

I was raised a socialist, but have always tended towards the centre ground - making me a natural Liberal Democrat supporter. However, if your party continues with its policy on allowing self-ID for trans people, I will no longer be able to support you.

Women have fought long and hard for our sex-based protections and rights, and it sickens me to see that these matter so little to you. Biology matters. Women have been - and still are - oppressed, discriminated against, attacked and sidelined due to our biological identity, NOT our gender identity. The two are very different.

Self-ID has already led to women being attacked in prison. It has led to biological women losing out on women in business awards to someone who says he is a woman some days and a man others. It has led to women losing sporting events to people who were born and raised male and therefore have all the physical advantages in terms of strength, stamina, bone density and muscle power.

It has led to women who work as beauticians offering female waxing services being sued because they cannot and will not wax a penis and scrotum, just because the owner of these says they are a woman. The same person is now going after gynaecologists for not offering them medical services when they do not have any female genitalia or reproductive organs. The same person has also pictured themselves in the Ladies loos, with young girls in the background, and has speculated about whether they could offer to help a young girl (who is a total stranger to them) insert her first tampon.

If someone has a penis, they should NOT be in women's sex segregated spaces, where women and girls may be in a vulnerable state.

Trans activism is based on toxic and outdated gender stereotypes - they are the diametric opposite of progressive. The progressive way would be to build a society where a person can wear what they want, play with whatever toys they choose, follow sports, pursue hobbies, like or dislike colours etc WITHOUT their choices being used to nail them into a narrowly stereotyped box marked Male or Female.

It is also horrifying that children as young as 5 are being told they are trans, and that pre teens are being prescribed puberty blockers. No-one knows the effects of taking these long term - there is no guarantee that, if a child decides to detransition, and comes off the puberty blockers, they will go through a proper puberty and will not be left sterile, and with underdeveloped genitalia. Cross sex hormones, which are being given to underage children, can cause osteoporosis, and can even stunt brain development - surely a risk that no-one ought to be taking, during a child's secondary school years, which are their most important, educationally.

I believe that Jo Swinson's loss of her seat is the price she has paid for parroting the mantra that 'trans women are women' during the campaign.

No-one can change sex. At the most basic level, your sex is defined by your chromosomes, and these do not change, whatever medical and surgical procedures you undergo. Some people can and do 'pass' as the opposite sex, but it is scientifically IMPOSSIBLE to change sex. So trans women are trans women.

I am 100% sure that you will dismiss me as old fashioned, out of touch and trans phobic. I am not. I am furious at the way women and girls are considered acceptable damage in the trans activist policy.

It is horrific to dismiss the possibility of predatory MEN using self-ID to gain access to women's and girls' sex-segregated spaces, in order to prey on them, as an acceptable 'loophole' rather than something that should STOP this policy, or at least be cause for further consideration.

You have said, very clearly, that women and girls do not matter to you. I hope you can manage without the support of the women of the UK."

OnlyTheTitOfTheIceberg · 13/12/2019 13:24

Woman: Adult Human Female With A Vote bloody brilliant! We need updated stickers!

Having reflected on this, while I love it in the context of Jo Swinson losing her seat, I wouldn't want anyone thinking I was taking credit for the Tory win, as that's not my political leaning.

LangCleg · 13/12/2019 12:50

It's like the perfect analogy for Momentum. Honestly. I would assume they were bots if it weren't so depressingly likely that they just have not learned anything at all from this.

Yep.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/12/2019 12:41

I ended up voting LibDem. As I said earlier, I only had Labour, Tory, LibDem and SNP to choose from. Tory and SNP were out of the question, and I agonised over the choice between the two that were left. In the end, I felt that Labour had gone too far to the left for me - I have been saying for ages that, to be electable, they need to be a broad church, and represent all of the left, including the centrist types like me - but I felt completely alienated by the current Labour party and its leaders.

In the end, LibDem felt like the least worst option - and I will be writing to them to express my dismay at their policy on self-ID, and how they are throwing biological women under the bus.

And I am not sad that Jo Swinson lost her seat.

MsMcWibble · 13/12/2019 12:31

Yup. Labour (and the lib dems) let us down, it's not our duty to vote for anyone who is kicking us in the teeth.

MrsFogi · 13/12/2019 12:13

Woman: Adult Human Female With A Vote bloody brilliant! We need updated stickers!

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VMisaMarshmallow · 13/12/2019 12:12

They act really horrified at the suggestion the rtft and don’t expect us to do their work for them. Clearly they know how to ‘women’ better than us and expect us to fall into line and perform their expectations of womanhood. It’s almost like it’s the same phrases every page or so with a different user name. Or different people rehashing the same illogical, inflexible points without any depth of thought, just like well brainwashed cult members.

ShesDressedInBlackAgain · 13/12/2019 12:05

Do they look at any of the thread before they plop in to tell us off? Like even a couple of comments?

It's like the perfect analogy for Momentum. Honestly. I would assume they were bots if it weren't so depressingly likely that they just have not learned anything at all from this.

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