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Devious Aberdeen sex offender replaced toilets sign with unisex sticker to trick women

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RoyalCorgi · 22/11/2019 09:58

This never happens, obviously.

www.eveningexpress.co.uk/fp/news/local/court/devious-aberdeen-sex-offender-replaced-toilets-sign-with-unisex-sticker-trick-women/

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Gingerkittykat · 25/11/2019 02:34

I wonder if they were mixed sex toilets as he had images of both men and women.

Gingerkittykat · 22/11/2019 22:09

The anxiety/ LD will be used to try and get him a lesser sentence.

Realistically when Katie Dolatowski can enter female toilets and assault children twice and get a non custodial order then this guy will also face no real consequences.

Beamur · 22/11/2019 18:28

The more stories about this kind of behaviour that come out the better. There has been a collective amnesia around why single sex facilities are provided.
This proves precisely the point as to why.

AnyFucker · 22/11/2019 18:21

Be vigilant ?

Any woman raising the alarm about a bloke being in the women's toilets is more likely to get her collar felt these days for committing a "hate crime"

SarahTancredi · 22/11/2019 17:24

Vigilant by women going to the loo in pairs? In groups? With a security guard standing in there? By avoiding using public loos at all costs?

I wish some one would just have the guts now to tell us all to stay home like good little girls . It would be the most honest thing anyones said in a long.

Men are laughing. They get to do wtf they like to us and blame us for it happening.
Why were we out that late. What were we wearing. Why did you walk home- get a taxi, why did you get in a taxi with a strange man-wall home, why did you leave your drink unattended- I didnt I took it with me to the toilets but now.men can follow you in there.

Just fucking be honest already. We dont even deserve that anymore though do we

HepzibahGreen · 22/11/2019 17:22

Not asked. Told.

Michelleoftheresistance · 22/11/2019 17:18

Be vigilant how? Any male in female facilities now only needs to say the magic words regardless of how they present or how many red flags they present, and there's nothing anyone can do until a woman actually has been harmed. (And very little will happen once they're harmed either.)

Vigilant by women going to the loo in pairs? In groups? With a security guard standing in there? By avoiding using public loos at all costs? Women are just being asked to submit to this quietly and deal with the fall out.

LikeothersIamjustme · 22/11/2019 16:24

I think the main thing this highlights is that "An ASV member of staff was also in the toilets and noticed someone was stood in a cubicle but not making use of the facilities.She waited outside and noticed a man come out.After the incident, ASV sent an email to staff urging them to be vigilant."
If everywhere is either mixed sex/gender neutral/wherever pervs feel comfortable it will be impossible to be vigilant and further exposes women and girls to risk.

Majorcollywobble · 22/11/2019 16:19

@Eckhart
It’s only relevant in that it is part of his personality and diagnosis .
But it has no bearing on his sexual predelictions .
Like you I find it irritating as it presents as part justification for his anti social actions. Must make those with LD / anxiety disorders who stay within the law feel even more irritated and marginalized .

Michelleoftheresistance · 22/11/2019 15:44

Which makes the woke blokes racist. I've had that argument with a well intentioned gay male who hadn't thought it through.

We're past the 'please be aware of the potential risk in doing this' territory and into the 'risk has now been created by sex offenders happily exploiting half assed rules enabling mixed sex provision'. Would the authorities kindly get a grip and in the mean time licence women to carry mace.

Clymene · 22/11/2019 14:52

I'm not sure if we're supposed to feel sorry for him or if it's the same argument used by some woke blokes that single sex toilets are vital to women and girls in the developing world but not in the first world

Eckhart · 22/11/2019 14:37

Does anybody else find the info about his anxiety/LD irrelevant and irritating? Are we meant to feel sorry for him?

GrinitchSpinach · 22/11/2019 14:35

Things like this also collected here:

www.reddit.com/r/thisneverhappens/

SquishySquirmy · 22/11/2019 14:33

I know that sports village. It is used by a lot of young women/children as well as adults. Often young kids around too.
What a sicko.

ErrolTheDragon · 22/11/2019 14:28

Eckhart - I mean that whoever made that order realised this bloke shouldn't be allowed in women's loos, or unisex loos either because they're used by women.

AnyFucker · 22/11/2019 14:27

Move along, nothing to see here...

Datun · 22/11/2019 14:21

There's also this one, by the women on here, popcorn

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3348290-It-will-never-happen-resource-thread

Eckhart · 22/11/2019 14:20

Errol didn't they realise that Stewart Murray was no good? In the same way that if someone got stabbed in Sainsbury's, we wouldn't say Sainsbury's was no good, but we'd arrest the stabber?

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 22/11/2019 14:17

Thank you @Datun.

BadgertheBodger · 22/11/2019 13:50

Don’t worry lassies, just pop your sturdiest pyjamas on and prepare your loudest tut Hmm

ErrolTheDragon · 22/11/2019 13:48

Stewart Murray was convicted of an offence in November 2016 and was ordered by the court to stay away from female or unisex toilets.

Someone realised then that unisex facilities are no good.

Datun · 22/11/2019 13:39

JustHereWithMyPopcorn

Here you go.

www.facebook.com/groups/1722756661380462/?ref=share

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 22/11/2019 13:11

Please tell me someone is keeping a data base of all these never happens cases?

NonnyMouse1337 · 22/11/2019 13:07

Pah! Just scaremongering. People never have any bad intentions.... Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. Hmm