It’s in conflict—when even the healthiest among us becomes defensive and self-protective—that the narcissist reveals him or herself in fullness. They fully expose their lack of empathy—the cornerstone of the narcissist—because when the narcissist feels threatened, winning or succeeding to protect him or herself is all that matters, not consequences. A narcissist’s focus and determination to win at any cost underscore the shallow nature of their emotional connections—to you and to all others.
What kind of conflict shows the narcissist’s true stripes? The answer is all and any, ranging from the petty tiff to divorce court. If it’s the latter, abandon all hope of a reasonable negotiation or mediation; the true narcissist does neither. To borrow a term from the military, the narcissist’s policy is scorched earth, destroying everything and leaving nothing behind as he or she advances or withdraws—not a shred of connection or memory, respect for past connections, relationships, or the welfare of others involved in the conflict. The narcissist’s willingness to lie is nothing short of extraordinary and he or she will be completely unconcerned whether someone finds those lies out or not. It’s lack of empathy on steroids or, to put it better, aggrandized and entitled. The motto of the narcissist? “What you think of me is none of my business,” and he or she really means it.
These people, the trans activists leading their war, are frightening because they do not think and behave like you'd expect people to think and behave.
As they lose their grip - and Aimee is a big deal for them in terms of power - they won't back off, or agree to disagree, or attempt to talk things through, or acknowledge mistakes. They will instead explode as much as they can on the way out. This destruction is going to get worse and worse the more they perceive they are 'losing'. It is their last tactic - the one that says you have to let me stay or I will destroy everything you care about.
If that fails, they will turn to if I can't have it, noone can. These people should never have been given any legitimacy, influence or power.
Scorched earth. Destroying that little girl is a tactic to them, an object they will easily threaten or damage to get their way.
She needs protection. So does every other woman or child they have any access to or information about.