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Dr Julia Long has just been brilliant on LBC

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ToeToToe · 21/08/2018 09:23

www.lbc.co.uk/london/radio/player/

You should be able to listen again here. 9am. There's a discussion going on now.

Talking about the penis stickers, and single sex spaces.

The trans-activist they on says that we should make space for all kinds of women: including "angry" women.

Yes, now there are women, angry women and trans women.

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FloralBunting · 21/08/2018 11:20

I particularly enjoyed Vicky's sad story about their disabled relative, who is frankly just grateful to get any care at all, never mind being able to decide the sex of who gives that care.

And Ferrari's response that this was sad, but didn't address the reality of women (and men!) being allowed to decide the sex of their HCP or person giving intimate care.

What was happening there was a trans person attempting to use an oppression hierarchy, and doing the usual piggy backing on someone else's issue.

Is it wrong that disabled people struggle to get the care they need? Yes. Does it have anything to do with women being forced to accept people with penises providing intimate care? None at all.

What our trans contributor was attempting to do was say "Women should shut up and be grateful for whatever they can get and not assert their rights and personal comfort preferences" and Ferrari wasn't having a bar of it.

I'm really grateful for Dr Julia Long's stellar performance there, but I wanted to highlight the way Vicky was trying to interact with the male presenter - the tactics are fascinating and it was great to have someone see right through it.

YesSirCowBoy · 21/08/2018 11:20

Julia and certainly has a radio voice, I suggest other feminists - if approached - pass on radio to Julia.

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 21/08/2018 11:16

I think she is amazing. The warm sense of humour in the tone of her voice works wonders to disarm people, but as you say, vaginafetishist, she keeps the focus on women and girls, doesn't concede or compromise and knows her stuff so she can listen properly and deliver key facts at just the right moment.
Masterful stuff right there.

YesSirCowBoy · 21/08/2018 11:11

Why is Julia so effective in exposing tra rhetoric and tactics? She doesn't start by apologetically stating that she supports trans rights and the ability of everyone to identify as they wish.

She keeps the focus on women, their rights and reality as we all understand it.

Julia speaks calmly with humour, not the angry woman the TRA club promoter wants the feminist to sound like.

silentcrow · 21/08/2018 11:09

If anyone's having trouble with the "listen again" link, Anne Ruzylo has put it on SoundCloud here: m.soundcloud.com/anne-ruzylo/julia-long-on-lbc-21-08-18

Julia was great - clear, articulate, and relentlessly centring women. Are you listening, Womens Hour? This is what we need you to do to stand up for ACTUAL WOMEN.

vaginafetishist · 21/08/2018 11:06

More Julia, she explains things in a way everyone will understand.

vaginafetishist · 21/08/2018 11:05

Why is Julia so effective in exposing tra rhetoric and tactics? She doesn't start by apologetically stating that she supports trans rights and the ability of everyone to identify as they wish.

She keeps the focus on women, their rights and reality as we all understand it.

natriumarm · 21/08/2018 11:00

So good you were Julia Long! Thank you for speaking sanity to this obsession to protect men's feelings. Poor men. They lose.

YesSirCowBoy · 21/08/2018 10:55

What time does the relevant dialogue happen the second time?

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 21/08/2018 10:53

After much arsing around with the LBC player I finally got to hear it.

Brava Julia Long!

So satisfying to hear it. Going back in to hear from the callers.

YesSirCowBoy · 21/08/2018 10:53

I hope TRAs use the club promoter more, they will peak the nation.

R0wantrees · 21/08/2018 10:51

I haven't listened yet, but it seems there's been a reiteration of the different types of women argument eg royal women, poor women, trans women but all women though different life experiences?

cf Jane Fae on Jeremy Vine May 2018 ('the Queen and a poor women have nothing in common'):
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3256772-Guess-how-I-got-suspended-from-the-Labour-Party

also Sue Pascoe (Channel 4 inclusion advisor) who describes herself as a "woman with a trans past"
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3331095-Channel-4-appoints-a-new-advisor-on-inclusion

Emily Brothers a 'woman with trans experience' Radio 4 Today with Lucy Masood March 2018
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3200310-Radio-4-now

safetycomes1st · 21/08/2018 10:36

"Snakes will be snakes" sigh

R0wantrees · 21/08/2018 10:32

Incident reported last week (Scotland) two girls aged 10 & 12 were sexually assaulted in women's supermarket toilets by 17yr old who seems likely male & does not identify as a man:

It raises serious safeguarding concerns for young girls:

www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/news/local/fife/702003/fife-teen-on-sex-offenders-register-after-supermarket-child-attacks/

The article linked above describes how two young girls (aged 10 & 12) were sexually assaulted by a 17yr old in women's toilets in supermarkets. The article uses gender neutral desciptors and pronoun for the attacker. It also records direct speech describing them as looking and sounding 'male/man'

It seems likely that the attacker was male-born but does not identify as a man. As they are 17, they could not have a GRC.

The father of one girl had waited outside (as is common)

There has only been (I think) this one article and the court is adjourned pending pre-sentence reports.

Additionally the attacker had social care involvement and had gone to the supermarket with a carer.

Its a really serious and significant case & as social care are involved there will likely be a serious case review :
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www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3329936-teen-films-girl-in-toilet

ToeToToe · 21/08/2018 10:26

www.lbc.co.uk/london/radio/aod/?episodeId=1d5f412d-7283-46b3-826f-103e23567dc1

Here you go fidgetspinner - fast forward to 2:05 ish.

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AncientLights · 21/08/2018 10:25

Every time transwomen open their mouths they prove they are male. Like telling us what we can/can't talk about. And these 'types' of women: they've just broadened it out from the old dichotomy of good girls & bad girls, virgin & whore.

ToeToToe · 21/08/2018 10:22

Absolutely, safeycomes1st Thanks

This is a safety, privacy and dignity issue. Women are at risk from men, we know this from our own experiences, growing up, going out - we all know it. It's been a very basic right of ours for my whole life - up until the time when penis-bearers decided they should be allowed in too.

Single sex spaces are the single most secure way to ensure women's safety in toilets, changing rooms, hospital wards etc.

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SonicVersusGynaephobia · 21/08/2018 10:20

Placemarking to listen to this later.

Thanks!

Melamin · 21/08/2018 10:19

This is dangerous. I have been accosted twice in toilets by a man. Once when I was 10 and again when I was 25. Although I didn't realise it at the time people responses - shouting, chasing the man, checking I was ok were validating that I had been in danger and was right to be terrified. Now if men are allowed in women's toilets then the response could be "it's no big deal..just stop making a fuss and get on with it.." That was how they were teaching the young orang-utans to be scared of snakes on orangutan school, the other day Grin. It is effective Grin Maybe that is what they don't like Hmm

Melamin · 21/08/2018 10:17

After the 9am news

MsMcWoodle · 21/08/2018 10:17

Our gym teacher was in the shower room constantly. She would check that we all had showers - in the massive open shower with no curtains. There might be a bit more dignity today, but I still wouldn't want a coach who was a biological man in the changing rooms.
Julia was fantastic. So were most of the callers. Nice to see men 'getting it'.

fidgetspinner555 · 21/08/2018 10:15

Where in the show was Julia speaking? I can't find it.

R0wantrees · 21/08/2018 10:14

I think the 'angry wimmin' calls to an old stereotype eg Viz's Milly Tant

safetycomes1st · 21/08/2018 10:11

This is dangerous. I have been accosted twice in toilets by a man. Once when I was 10 and again when I was 25. Although I didn't realise it at the time people responses - shouting, chasing the man, checking I was ok were validating that I had been in danger and was right to be terrified. Now if men are allowed in women's toilets then the response could be "it's no big deal..just stop making a fuss and get on with it.."

Melamin · 21/08/2018 10:09

Claiming to be a male woman opens up access to speaking roles,,advisory positions, media appearances etc.as well as female spaces and opportunities designed to boost female representation

In a world where women (50% + of the population) are underrepresented in so many areas, it is an open goal.