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Artistic Director of Queer Up North speaks out on trans activism, Stonewall and women's rights

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SanctimoniousMorph · 16/08/2018 09:30

medium.com/@JonnnyBest/the-story-of-my-first-brush-with-trans-activism-and-what-i-learned-3ef13e31fd37

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GColdtimer · 20/08/2018 23:07

@JonnyBest just replying to your question, sadly it didn't help with my friend. We shared some messages, which I thought were constructive, he said he read your article but told me trans women were women and that was that and then unfriended and blocked me. So I feel a bit sad but there you go. I think k he couldn't bare putting stonewall under a microscope. I linked to this thread but he said he didn't trust MN so he probably isn't reading. On a more positive note I have shared your article and had some really positive feedback so thank you. And a drag queen friend of mine wrote to me and said he totally agreed but he didn't feel able to say so publicly. .

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:57

LangCleg great stuff thanks. I'll file 'dicksplash' away for future use...I'm sure I'll write for something disreputable enough to allow it at some point...

Toetoetoe Sandy Draws Badly is a highlight of twitter for me.

BraveAndStunning Don't get me started on Owen Jones...I can't read him. It just makes me want to smash my laptop.

BraveAndStunning · 20/08/2018 22:50

Here is the very chap

twitter.com/greenrd/status/951948874331099137

LangCleg · 20/08/2018 22:49

I agree and see the class side of this a lot. I think your analysis is totally right.

Dog is always right!

You know, I really don't give a toss about being called unfuckable, transphobic, bigot and all the rest of the misogynistic stuff that gets thrown at us. But I do get seriously pissed off at being called a right winger by proponents of an overwhelmingly bourgeois, hyper-individualist, ultra-capitalist ideology. Grinds my gears. The current "left" is a travesty.

ToeToToe · 20/08/2018 22:45

He's on twitter right now asking about lesbians finding other women "hot". Or something.

twitter.com/greenrd/status/1031653741760573455

I think he might be a school boy. Confused

LangCleg · 20/08/2018 22:41

LangCleg we have to find that quote. It is too, too good.

Ask and ye shall receive! Screenshot on page 1 of the following thread. Robin Green is an utter, utter dicksplash (which epithet I like almost as much as cockwomble but imagine is equally unacceptable to the Speccie).

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3139168--Transwomen-are-women

(I'm being as encyclopaedic as R0wantrees tonight!)

ToeToToe · 20/08/2018 22:40

Here: twitter.com/SandyDrawsBadly/status/980499992258449409

BraveAndStunning · 20/08/2018 22:32

There's another one though, someone will have it

BraveAndStunning · 20/08/2018 22:29

twitter.com/OwenJones84/status/569136903829786624

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:28

LangCleg
Thanks for the silencing thread - superb. I will not have much space in the Spec but will write a longer form essay with much more in it afterwards. this info is invaluable.

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:27

littlbrowndog

I agree and see the class side of this a lot. I think your analysis is totally right.

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:23

Damn emoticon function!

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:23

I wish I could write 'cockwomble' in the Speccie [Sad]

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 22:22

LangCleg we have to find that quote. It is too, too good.

LangCleg · 20/08/2018 22:20

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3341433-Examples-of-Silencing-in-trans-debate?pg=3

There you go, Little Dog - I put the whole thing, and the Feminist Current article, on page 3.

littlbrowndog · 20/08/2018 22:14

Lols smh. Can someone find the deptford linkie pls

littlbrowndog · 20/08/2018 22:13

Hey Jonny

Not the most articulate off the poster# here but is the best plac3 ever for learning abou5 what this will mean for all the women’s and girls.

Ther3 was a a post about what the goldsmiths wokey dudes did to a great community in deptford

The6 took i5 over and destroyed it

Can someone find the post pls as I can’t find it..?

For me it struck a chord in how thevwokey dude bros completely killed a working class group with their intsanistin that inclusiveness was what it was all about

The6 didn’t care that ppl were just struggling to ge5 by and survive

Seem like sometime# this is jus5 a posh boy thing where they have th3 time an£ the mone6 to spend time on Twitter

Rambling now 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂

OhtheHillsareAlive · 20/08/2018 22:11

And ditto gay men - would they have [penetrative] sex with a transman?

LangCleg · 20/08/2018 22:10

Owen Jones famously has dodged the question of whether he'd have sex cunnilingus - can we say that here? with a transman who'd not had sex-reassignment surgery

Poor lil Sanctimonious Morph. He did not enjoy the Cunnlingus Challenge, did he?

LangCleg · 20/08/2018 22:08

Who was the cockwomble who spent days and days on Twitter lambasting GC women (and the lovely Shoeless Joe, who is much missed) and after endless tweets and obnoxious misogyny, ending up saying this about TW:

"I see them as women except for relationship purposes."

Someone-something Green, was it?

JonnyBest · 20/08/2018 21:41

OhTheHillsAreAlive
I agree trans women should not have to read abuse - twitter is not an all-purpose platform. This question is not suited to twitter, I would argue. And challenging people you don't know is different from challenging people you do know.

But in conversation with a straight man one knows, the question is a valid one I think - if trans women are women, would you have sex with a trans woman? It forces a man to connect his woke speech with his actual sexual desire and actions.

OhtheHillsareAlive · 20/08/2018 21:34

it sounds like something which might have the capacity to wake straight men up a bit

It is a bit brutal; & distasteful - I've seen the question asked of straight blokes on Twitter and there were some really transphobic responses from straight men (actual hatred & violent language towards transwomen). As much as the transactivists are appalling, normal ordinary transwomen don't deserve that sort of abuse, nor should they have to read it.

YesSirCowBoy · 20/08/2018 21:29

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3341694-Gender-neutral-disabled-toilets?pg=2&order=

Maybe for another time, abilism of space from selfish TRAs also service providers and there is also the Autistic angle.

AsAProfessionalFekko · 20/08/2018 21:28

My battery is about to die so I scanread the first chunk. Interesting how he doesn't mention his gender/sexuality a million times (I assume he is gay and I don't really care anyway) like some people. He actually has a job that isn't 'being professionally gay/trans/whatever'.

MaybeDoctor · 20/08/2018 21:24

That article is brilliant and beautifully written.

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