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Janni01 · 05/08/2018 17:56

Don't know if these has been discussed, but was watching a soy documentary on the fight between trans and feminists and it actually said 72% of females support transwomen using female facilities and services and 65% of men support transmen using male services and facilities.

Anyone have any clue why so many seem to support this?

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Sarahconnor1 · 06/08/2018 17:14

The thing is cassie I don't care about mannerisms or whether someone has long hair or wears make up it's utterly irrelevant.

It's biological sex that matters as well as the fact that in UK 80% of trans women retain fully intact male genitalia.

ZuttZeVootEeVro · 06/08/2018 16:59

This is the strange thing about it. The House of Commons is supposed to represent our views, but on this particular issue it just seems so way out. All MPs bar a couple are full of TWAW - how is it that they are so out of kilter, or so it would seem, with the populace.

I don't think many MPs have given it a second thought. The relevant ministers and mps will be bombarded by pressure groups and all other MPs will just follow the party line.

That's why the coverage in the times is good, it's a newspaper read by MPs.

CassieBrighter · 06/08/2018 16:50

It pretty much is what it means nowadays.
The thing I would add, is that the general understanding is that trans women are in fact women. (I realize that's not what most people on this board believe.)
Science pretty much agrees nowadays that there's a difference between biological sex and gender. Gender being in somebody's brain.
Trans women are the unfortunate ones whose gender and biological sex is out of alignment.
But yes, trans women are those who want to live in the world as women.
Now, some women wear makeup, some don't, right?
Also, you catch a trans woman early him her transition and she doesn't look very passable (might have short hair still, might not have her mannerisms just right).
You catch her five years down the line and she would look passable probably.
But her essence, feelings, mind, heart have not changed.
Just the way she carries herself and the way she looks to you will have changed.

AngryAttackKittens · 06/08/2018 16:33

I'm not sure that they realize that they are out of kilter with the populace, though some of them may well be starting to realize that Twitter does not equal the general public now.

BirthCanal · 06/08/2018 16:30

This is the strange thing about it. The House of Commons is supposed to represent our views, but on this particular issue it just seems so way out. All MPs bar a couple are full of TWAW - how is it that they are so out of kilter, or so it would seem, with the populace.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 06/08/2018 15:58

Ucantarguewistupid I raised the issue with some very unconventional friends a few months ago. They thought transgender meant full surgery and hormones, as is true of the very dysphoric transwoman we all know.

When provided with the facts I had a problem convincing them that I was telling the truth. They were incredulous at the idea that it was now considered bigoted to object to fully male bodied individuals in women's changing rooms, etc.

Hardly anyone has the slightest notion what's being campaigned for, or the victories the trans lobby has already won.

Ucantarguewistupid · 06/08/2018 14:46

Well inspired by the assertion that we are doing many a disservice by claiming many do not understand what is going on, I plucked up the courage to talk to people whilst queuing at various places today. Tesco, Starbucks, boots, M&S and a sports shop. A very unBritish thing to do but when I decide to prove a point...... spoke to twenty people in all age range from young twenties to maybe late 40's, mostly women, a few men. Not one of them knew the issues involved. Most initially were of the as long as it's not harming anyone, we must be tolerant. When pressed they believed they were talking about people who had had surgery or were about to. When given the info on here ALL said no! One man was very vocal about the idea of being labelled transphobic if he were to ever refuse to have sex with someone who has a lady penis. All men were almost aggressive in their language when explaining that their teenage (either real or imagined) daughter should have to share dorm and showers with a penis owning person. The women were as aghast and angry and scared at the suggestions. None were impressed at the attempts to shut down debate and bomb threats.

So thanks to whoevernon here suggested we were labelling women stupid by assuming, I found the nerve to educate 20 random strangers. With help from some of the threads on here. The Jess Bradley, lesbian and prison rapes one had the biggest impact- not the comments from those of us critical of self ID but the posts by the aggressive TRAs..... They really are doing our work for us ....

R0wantrees · 06/08/2018 13:05

Dotteierichardson
It is the same study but I would stongly encourage people to go to the original source.
In any summary, the nuance of the questions and data is often lost or obscured. ( as per always!)

www.bsa.natcen.ac.uk/media/39147/bsa34_moral_issues_final.pdf

Dottierichardson · 06/08/2018 11:47

Thanks, was that the same one in which 64% of men objected, and the commentary stated that the positive surface results became less so once follow up questions were given? The one that found for example that only around 4 in 10 thought transgender people should serve in the police force or be teachers?

"...these findings suggest the majority of Britons have supportive attitudes towards transgender people. When probed deeper, some of that support becomes more qualified as you explore practical examples.

The most positive attitudes towards trans people tend to be observed among the young, those with the highest education qualifications and those without a religion."

www.natcen.ac.uk/blog/how-do-british-people-feel-about-transphobia-and-transgender-issues

R0wantrees · 06/08/2018 11:31

Dottierichardson
the figures fit with the results from a question in the Social Atitudes survey.
Its linked with discussion in thread

YetAnotherSpartacus · 06/08/2018 11:24

Has anyone posted this yet?

Dottierichardson · 06/08/2018 11:19

Or one could safely say that the Sky polls are not rigorous or representative in any real sense, in which case both sets of results become invalid.

Dottierichardson · 06/08/2018 11:17

Sorry that should be 19/7/2018 at 11.06am, so if one were to consider that in relation to the poll you cite, it would suggest that the results should be inflected by the earlier poll responses. In which case this implies that the people considered okay to use facilities based on gender could be assumed to be those who went through the rigorous existing procedure for GRC.

Dottierichardson · 06/08/2018 11:11

OP can you cite the provenance of these figures? Sky have been doing polls on transgender-related questions going as far back as at least 2015. The polls are quite crude, they consist of a question, and then an option of a 'yes' or 'no' answer. The spread for the polls is not based on any clear polling model or any form of representative group i.e. through targeted sampling. Sky then usually publish the results on their Twitter feed. I can't immediately find this one, but the most recent one I did find was dated 19/8/2018. The question was 'Do you believe self-identification alone should be enough for trans people to obtain a gender recognition certificate, the initial polling was in favour, but the final tally after the poll closed was 22% in favour, 78% against.

R0wantrees · 06/08/2018 10:57

TedTalk by Delia Johnston (adviser for many sporting organisations Trans Inclusion policies).

Delia describes herself as "a normal female but just with an interesting gender history"

On changing name by deed poll (first step), once done & certificate received with the new name Delia, "that's it in eye of the law, I am now legally female"

Turph · 06/08/2018 10:56

Datun has managed to be far more eloquent than I, again
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Asking men exactly why they would be uncomfortable would reveal the identical reasoning of privacy, dignity, feeling of vulnerability, etc. Except they have even less reason as women don't pose a risk.*
This is why we support unisex and female facilities as a compromise

Datun · 06/08/2018 10:53

She was gobsmacked when I told her it literally meant a feeling in your head.

Or a cross dressing fetish.

Or a gift for anyone wanting to access women and girls.

OrchidInTheSun · 06/08/2018 10:39

I had a conversation with my mum about trans at the weekend. Turns out she thought that trans meant that you produce hormones of the opposite sex/are intersex and that you can have a 'test' for it. She was gobsmacked when I told her it literally meant a feeling in your head.

IncrediblySturdyPyjamas · 06/08/2018 10:35

people post obviously daft things

What things are you finding 'daft' exactly?

ZuttZeVootEeVro · 06/08/2018 10:31

If the majority of women really didn't want sex segregation we would have mixed sex facilities.

Why would the NHS go to so much effort and cost to provide sex segregation in wards when there is no demand for it?

The figures quoted in the op only related to toilets? And as others have said, the definition of trans is open to interpretation.

But I think many people on this thread know this.

Bespin · 06/08/2018 10:25

you too I'm off to move my boat now, hope your day improves

FloralBunting · 06/08/2018 10:21

Yeah, at this point I'm going to ask you to stop directing your comments at me bespin, because I have used up all my patience today and I don't really want to deal with the PA bullshit today. Have a nice week.

Bespin · 06/08/2018 10:16

FloralBunting

your view is your own as is mine I'm not hear to fight anyone and sometimes you all say some daft stuff that makes me laugh as I'm sure some tra also do. I spend time on here because it's importent that people don't loose sight that there are real people in this trans is not just a consept and by being here it stops people getting carried away talking about people as if they don't exsist in the real world. you are a minority just like we are and I am optimistic that the majority do support us

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 06/08/2018 10:14

A twelve fold increase in people accessing Mumsnet via FWR in the last two years tells us just how influential this board is.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 06/08/2018 10:11

Makes me wonder why TRA spend so much time and energy on here. If the views here are a minority, why bother?

Well, quite, Zutt.

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