Not a lesbian, but have many lesbian friends and acquaintances, some few dearly loved for decades who I would trust with my life and did trust with my tiny children years ago.
To summarise the message here, we're being told: "Let me (a transwoman with intact male genitalia) tell you about yourselves. Your thinking is wrong. Your beliefs are wrong. I understand how and why you are wrong but you don't. I can tell you how to woman better, how to lesbian better. You need to listen only to me and ignore what you mistakenly think you know. You need to act as I tell you to. If you don't you are a fake and a failure and a sad loser missing out on all the fun. You don't know how sad your life has been without me."
In other words, everything every loud-mouthed drunken straight man ever said to any lesbian, any woman, who ever rejected his crude advances. 🤷🏼♀️
What is notably absent is any awareness of concepts like consent, bodily autonomy, respect, common humanity, sisterhood.
This is why I can never accept that someone talking like this is a woman. Every syllable reeks of male privilege and entitlement.