Nothing for my 60th.

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Thevegetarianchef · 15/10/2026 20:58

I must say my dh was 60 in lockdown so I made a cake and we went to a local place of interest with our son.
So I approached 60 quite excited for a big birthday.No celebration for the other big birthdays due to work or lack of funds.
The day came and I got 3 cards.Nothing else.Not even one from a close relative.
Dh said one the day did I want some jewellery or a tv.
I find it hurtful 2 adult dcs and dh couldn't get anything, chocolate candles etc.
I bought myself some cheap flowers and bits and pieces since.
What would you do for yourself if you had the funds.?

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MachineBee · 19/10/2026 17:22

Happy 60th OP.

I agree with PPs that you’ll have to tell them you were disappointed they didn’t do anything for you - no, you shouldn’t have to remind them to think of you, but unless you say something they just won’t realise.

Thoughtful gestures aren’t about spending a lot of money they work best when they show someone has put in some thought and time about what you like and acted accordingly.

RedRosie · 19/10/2026 17:37

I'm sorry @Thevegetarianchef ... Mine was also a damp squib in the "remembering" sense. Not even my parents remembered (but they are very very elderly now so that's totally fine). DH made up for it all though, with a fabulous holiday. So in your position I'd be hurt as well. It's especially hard when you make an effort for others and it's not reciprocated. 💐

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Thevegetarianchef · 19/10/2026 21:24

Poppedforgum no operation.
Thank you everyone.

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