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School being extra?

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Schooline · 15/10/2026 18:08

Daughter is in year 7. I usually pick her up and drop her to her secondary school as she’s very near my workplace. Today I got really delayed (never happened before and never will again) I phoned up school to ask about after school club and they said it finishes at 5. She then said will you be here to pick her up? I said yes. I felt she was a little intense (the receptionist).

5:01 she calls as I’m on route to pick up my daughter and has a go at me that she told me it finishes at 5 and I’m still not there. I told her it’s fine to let my daughter go and she has a mobile so I can tell her where I am and pick her up. The receptionist in a very aggressive and rude way said “no! I cannot do that MUM, she is in our duty of care”. I asked her what about children that travel home by themselves! She said that’s not the issue here it’s that I told her I’ll pick her up at 5 and I’m not here.

She then demanded I drive into school and come and speak to her and she will wait, I told her it’s no need at I will collect my daughter from her usual place of collection. I then I panicked at the entrance to school where she demanded in drive into was blocked so I quickly parked on a side street near by with permits (I know!) and ran in with my toddler to collect her. I had an earful from receptionist and her colleague and was there for around 5 minutes. Came out and got a ticket for £160.

I’m really annoyed with myself for phoning school as if I had not then my daughter would just have met me in our usual meet up spot and I wouldn’t have had to park up.

Was receptionist being extra? Seriously they are in secondary school

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user293948849167 · 15/10/2026 18:24

Meh receptionist sounds a bit rude but it’s your fault for not picking your child up on time really. Also no need to phone the school if your DD has a mobile on her, you just needed to tell your DD to wait somewhere near the school 5 mins

Schooline · 15/10/2026 18:23

I did not ask the school to keep her. The school does not check on every pupil leaving the premises! She leaves everyday to meet me and never gets questioned

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Schooline · 15/10/2026 18:22

No school is in a town! She could take public transport but as my work is literally 2 minutes drive away she walks down and I park up outside a cafe and she gets in.

I don’t know what people are making out the receptionists side of story! I’ve been very clear I phoned up to ask what time the homework club / after school club closes there is nothing I’m hiding. I could just have left it but wanted to double check it was 5 and not 4:30

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Hankunamatata · 15/10/2026 18:21

Do you usually pick her up in person from after school club?

I think you massively confused situation by ringing the school.

Teeheehee1579 · 15/10/2026 18:19

Is the school in the middle of nowhere? I presume not as you got a ticket for parking in a side street. Next time get her to go and sit in a cafe - she’s in Y7, there is no need to phone the school. Mind you it does sound a bit odd so I wonder what the school’s side is.

WhateverMate · 15/10/2026 18:18

Aren’t CPZ fines £70 if you pay within 7 days?

Either way if you’d agreed to pick her up at 5 then that was the arrangement.

All the rudeness and ‘demanding’ I often take with a pinch of salt on MN, so it doesn’t cloud my view.

Strawberryfruitstarburst · 15/10/2026 18:17

After school club in year 7? Was there no public transport she could have taken?

MozzieFreeZone · 15/10/2026 18:16

What does ‘being extra’ mean?

Arlanymor · 15/10/2026 18:13

Whether she was aggressive or not we only have your word for. But she was following safeguarding procedures. They looked after your kid when you couldn't be there.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/10/2026 18:11

Well you did sort of put her in their care by phoning and explaining your situation. Being late and getting a ticket were your fault and we’ve clearly only got your side of the story here. Next time just don’t phone

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