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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:33

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:31

2/3 a day and it’s legal isn’t a steady stream lol … but I could make it a stream and it would still be legal …

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But upturned you said you “can put up with it for 8 hours a month”

but actually many many multiples of this?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Allisnotlost1 · 25/09/2026 21:32

Why did I read that in Peggy Mitchell’s voice?

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Idk … better so far than any previous one

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BMW58 · 25/09/2026 21:33

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:57

That’s just 1 client who I see twice a week.

I see 3 a day on average …

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How do you cope with the chafing? 🙄

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 21:33

Ok
i don’t know what your definition of a steady stream is then.
if my two neighbours saw 3 different men in and out of my house 5 days a week I think they’d be slightly concerned

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:34

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Who wants to hear any crazy stories?

No thanks

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:34

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:26

The last time I read anything on this, as long as you work from home, it's legal.

Which is absurd but that's the UK for you.

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The UK Context: In the UK, selling sexual services independently is legal, but agreements or contracts for prostitution are regarded as outside the law and cannot be enforced in civil court to claim unpaid fees.

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 21:35

What's the most bizarre outfit you've been asked to wear?

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:35

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:32

30 seconds…

Common Law Principle (Ex Turpi Causa): In traditional common law systems (including the UK and many other countries), courts apply the legal maxim ex turpi causa non oritur actio—meaning no legal action can arise from an illegal or immoral cause. Contracts related to prostitution or commercial sex are typically deemed void, contrary to public policy, and unenforceable

so yes - talking out your ass

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Illegal - right, but sex work isn't illegal.

Immoral - it used to be 'immoral' to be an unwed mother. Doubt that would hold up and this needs testing in court. Who is deciding in 2026 what is 'immoral'.

Quote which part of anything I have said is "talking out of my arse"..

I recall saying if you couldn't enforce the contract, then we need to fight to change that. Was that what you were referring to?

You sound like you're a teenager, so I'll leave you to it.

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 25/09/2026 21:36

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Who wants to hear any crazy stories?

Ahhh Herbert is playing the long game here

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 21:37

You haven’t answered some questions
but you want to go straight to stories now

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 21:37

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:57

That’s just 1 client who I see twice a week.

I see 3 a day on average …

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3 a day is 8 hours a month?

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:37

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 21:28

Surely the neighbours would have something to say if there was a steady stream of men in and out daily?

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And? Good news is that who you have sex with and how many times / with who is none of your neighbours' business!!

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 21:37

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 25/09/2026 21:36

Ahhh Herbert is playing the long game here

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You think 🤮

Ved · 25/09/2026 21:37

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:26

It’s kind of funny to think the Op thinks that they are though!

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It really is.

Tiredhotmess · 25/09/2026 21:38

Do you find it difficult having sex with men you're not attracted to?

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 21:38

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 25/09/2026 21:36

Ahhh Herbert is playing the long game here

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😆 it wouldn't take much to find out if Anna is Herbert. Certain questions that only women would know the answer to but I suppose that would make that part of the fun. Who knows.

VictoriaEra · 25/09/2026 21:39

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:18

Obvs the obvious - anal and unprotected but it’s important to keep your boundaries …

The whole sub/dom thing is an eye opener and if I could be bothered to put the effort in could make serious money but it’s very weird and requires a lot of unseen effort. So it’s a no from me for now

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Boundaries are one thing but how can you ensure you’re secure and safe.

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 21:39

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:37

And? Good news is that who you have sex with and how many times / with who is none of your neighbours' business!!

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Yes in theory 🙄

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 21:39

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 21:37

You haven’t answered some questions
but you want to go straight to stories now

True.

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 21:40

VictoriaEra · 25/09/2026 21:39

Boundaries are one thing but how can you ensure you’re secure and safe.

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What do you mean unseen effort

Ved · 25/09/2026 21:40

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Who wants to hear any crazy stories?

No thank you......... 😖

hardshoulderr · 25/09/2026 21:40

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Who wants to hear any crazy stories?

From a month ?

malefields · 25/09/2026 21:40

Have you ever had female customers? I always wonder if this ever happens.

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:41

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:35

Illegal - right, but sex work isn't illegal.

Immoral - it used to be 'immoral' to be an unwed mother. Doubt that would hold up and this needs testing in court. Who is deciding in 2026 what is 'immoral'.

Quote which part of anything I have said is "talking out of my arse"..

I recall saying if you couldn't enforce the contract, then we need to fight to change that. Was that what you were referring to?

You sound like you're a teenager, so I'll leave you to it.

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The UK Context: In the UK, selling sexual services independently is legal, but agreements or contracts for prostitution are regarded as outside the law and cannot be enforced in civil court to claim unpaid fees.

does that clear things up for you @Awkwardisfunny ?

BuffysBigSister · 25/09/2026 21:42

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:33

Who wants to hear any crazy stories?

How many can there be if you only started the job last month?