Page 3 | I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

AnyonesAnna · 2026-09-25T18:52:48+00:00

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

OnlyOnWeekends · 25/09/2026 20:31

Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:08

This ⬆️. I wouldn’t be surprised if ‘Anna’ was actually a very pervy Alan 🙄

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I’m sure they think having a female names makes us think they absolutely must be a woman. The pervs on the sex board so often have female names, I don’t believe most of them are women. 🧐

Agatha1989 · 25/09/2026 20:32

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:21

Rooney? Paid a woman old enough to be his grandmother for sex.

There are plenty of men with older women fantasies, have you heard of MILF rankings among older schoolboys?

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Rooney’s grandmother prostitute was actually only in her 40s. She was a grandma but not old enough to be his grandma.

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:32

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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Debts aside, and she has the option of demanding payment up front, none of that differs from any other self employed person.

I wonder if it would be possible for posters to put their moral outrage aside and let the AMA develop?

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 20:33

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

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What sort of devastation

tiredtiredd · 25/09/2026 20:33

Are your sugar daddies in their 70s/80s?

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 25/09/2026 20:33

What did you to get started. Do you Advertise yourself. I’m assuming they don’t have Sex workers jobs advertised in the Job Centre do they

SlightlyTerrifiedButPolite · 25/09/2026 20:34

@AnyonesAnnaHow much is the monthly allowance for the 8 1 hour appointments

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:34

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 20:30

How much is the pay per hour? What do you do in that hour is it normal sex or weird stuff

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£140 an hour … £70 30 mins
Normal vanilla protected sex and oral.
No unprotected … no anal …
Above is what I advertise in BOLD.
Weird stuff would pay me more but not worth it - although I have been BEGGED by 4 x subs to be their dom I’m not set up for it and think it would freak me out.

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Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:35

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

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But nobody is disputing that abused sex workers exist in large numbers.

Are you disputing in spite of plenty of evidence to the contrary that there are women choose sex work as an easy way to earn a lot of money?

Whataloadoffuss · 25/09/2026 20:36

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

A sugar daddy at 50?? No offence but I would imagine younger women.

itwasyourshowallalong · 25/09/2026 20:36

How do you actually get into it? How do you go about finding clients?

How do you keep yourself safe?

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:36

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 20:33

What sort of devastation

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Physical, emotional, significant mental health impact, suicide

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 20:39

No judgement from me either.
How did you get started? Advertising and all that kind of stuff ?
And also was it awful the first time ?

pearshapedpie · 25/09/2026 20:41

What safety measures do you put in place? Do you see them In your own home? Do your friends & family know?

NewNameW · 25/09/2026 20:44

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:34

£140 an hour … £70 30 mins
Normal vanilla protected sex and oral.
No unprotected … no anal …
Above is what I advertise in BOLD.
Weird stuff would pay me more but not worth it - although I have been BEGGED by 4 x subs to be their dom I’m not set up for it and think it would freak me out.

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One of my best friends is a dom and she earns alot, she's in her 50s too but has been doing it for many many years it's very regulated and safe if you do it correctly.

Being self employed isn't without it's issues but I assume you know this. You will get a lot of tax relief on job related things too.

As she has got older (even though she's still hot as fuck) work does die down and dry out, so I'd be prepared for this to be a very short term thing at your age.

Hopefully you have the right people in your corner and a safe space and you're not just out at night offering hand jobs outside the local spoons 😂

Edit to add - she does not sleep with people, ever. She is a dom which is a different version of sex work.

Banoffeepie29 · 25/09/2026 20:44

Dontwantt · 25/09/2026 20:17

I don’t believe it either. These men want young women.

Unless you are a professional Mother to men with adult baby fetishes, or some other specialist fetish.

That's not actually true. Many older women are very successful in sex work of all kinds, from selling worn underwear and creating content, to dominating men. On one particular panty-selling website, the top sellers were women in their 50s, they were of course still very attractive. Don't underestimate the MILF fetish and how many men love to be dominated.

Agatha1989 · 25/09/2026 20:44

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:34

£140 an hour … £70 30 mins
Normal vanilla protected sex and oral.
No unprotected … no anal …
Above is what I advertise in BOLD.
Weird stuff would pay me more but not worth it - although I have been BEGGED by 4 x subs to be their dom I’m not set up for it and think it would freak me out.

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I find this really hard to believe. It’s catering for niche sexual activity that brings in the money, from what I’ve read.

bafta16 · 25/09/2026 20:46

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

What do you offer during these appointments?

Clearingthedecks · 25/09/2026 20:46

I can well believe there's plenty of men in their 70s/80s willing to pay for sex/cuddles in bed with a woman in her 50s. The men feel it's a more likely 'partnership' and don't want to feel like a perv which they might do with a younger woman.
I'm in my 50s and have had a few older men trying it on, some married.

Gettingbysomehow · 25/09/2026 20:48

Rather you than me OP. Men give the rage if they even look at me. Im in my 60s.

Angelina97 · 25/09/2026 20:48

How and where do you advertise your work?

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 20:49

How do you get business?

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 20:50

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:34

£140 an hour … £70 30 mins
Normal vanilla protected sex and oral.
No unprotected … no anal …
Above is what I advertise in BOLD.
Weird stuff would pay me more but not worth it - although I have been BEGGED by 4 x subs to be their dom I’m not set up for it and think it would freak me out.

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Where do you “advertise”?

Whataloadoffuss · 25/09/2026 20:51

Banoffeepie29 · 25/09/2026 20:44

That's not actually true. Many older women are very successful in sex work of all kinds, from selling worn underwear and creating content, to dominating men. On one particular panty-selling website, the top sellers were women in their 50s, they were of course still very attractive. Don't underestimate the MILF fetish and how many men love to be dominated.

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50s though? Surely that is past the whole MILF age.

Existentialistic · 25/09/2026 20:51

Do you pay tax and NI on your earnings?