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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:57

Dumbledora8 · 25/09/2026 21:51

You are goady as fuck

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This poster said the Op could pursue a claim for breach of contract

Incorrect

she couldn’t 🤷‍♀️

murasaki · 25/09/2026 21:57

Come on, don't indulge his fantasies.

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:58

Awkwardisfunny · 25/09/2026 21:48

Aww did you get tired reading more than one sentence.. it was literally the very next sentence. Okay, bye. (British people do have to spend half an hour saying their goodbyes, in my defence 🤣)

"If she has a contract with a client and it's breached, she absolutely can enforce it. KEEP READING.... JUST ONE MORE SENTENCE. YOU CAN DO IT!!!

And if she couldn't: that would be something to fight for."

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So… you said she “absolutely” could
but then said “if she couldn’t”

so… you post dogmatically but also admit you might be wrong. Ok.

Well turns out you were wrong

Newyearawaits · 25/09/2026 21:59

Have you thought about what will happen when your sexual services aren't required?
What about your financial security and retirement plans?
I presume your current work isn't officially registered with Hmrc?

Nowyourejustsomebodythatiusedtoknow · 25/09/2026 22:00

innersilentscreams · 25/09/2026 21:45

With subs you have to set them tasks, talk to them often and there is so much role play and denigrating, as well as psychology involved that it's effort. Subs are draining mentally. Not the same as straightforward, vanilla sexual types

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God, who could be arsed

AbzMoz · 25/09/2026 22:01

Fascinating and thank you for sharing.

Do you still have a relationship / sex for your own fun, or is this the only physical contact you have now?

Lexingtonavenueandme · 25/09/2026 22:02

Lararoft · 25/09/2026 20:09

Can you not do care work?
There are lots of jobs available in care (homes / hospitals/ domiciliary or support work); these jobs are quite easy to get as evidenced by the fact that many newly arrived immigrants work in these roles (and no shade to them, because although they often lack specific care experience, they are often keen to learn the skills)..

I actually sometimes work with an older lady who used to be a prostitute (with an addiction) and is now sober & is a care assistant in the hospital; to be fair she says well, you still see lots of bottoms & privates in her hospital job.. but at least she gets to keep her dignity!

With care or support work you can choose your hours, gain qualifications as you work, & better yourself as well. Ok it’s often hard work and can be minimum wage at base rate but I would ten million times rather do it than prostitute myself to some gross man, sorry.

I don’t work as a carer or a sex worker but due to trauma I would rather work as a sex worker than ever be in a hospital or care home setting

bananaobama · 25/09/2026 22:02

Please be careful

bananaobama · 25/09/2026 22:03

Where do you meet clients?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:04

hardshoulderr · 25/09/2026 21:15

Where do you work from? Surely not your own Home. Also agree at a 50-year-old not being a sugar baby.

Yes I’m single with no kids

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IsThistheMiddleofNowhere · 25/09/2026 22:05

I might be old fashioned and naivebut I just can't see sex worker as a career option. For me it conjures up a seedy vision of standing on a street corner in tarty clothing and going off with someone you don't know from Adam. I dont know whether you get to choose who you have sex with but some men are genuinely repulsive and i just couldnt do it. Unless you pay tax on your earnings i dont see how it can be classified as a career. Not something i'd aspire to but each to their own.

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:05

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:54

I started off doing online stuff paid sexting then fairly amateur paid cam then messaged a local escort online asking her questions … went from there …

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All in the last month? And then the 17 dick weekend marathon?

Living the dream

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:06

AbzMoz · 25/09/2026 22:01

Fascinating and thank you for sharing.

Do you still have a relationship / sex for your own fun, or is this the only physical contact you have now?

No currently but I could do if I wanted to x

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Flannelfeet · 25/09/2026 22:06

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

Surely the amount of wanking men cramp your hands too? 🤭

HambleTheDoll · 25/09/2026 22:06

What’s your favourite biscuit?

Emptyandsad · 25/09/2026 22:07

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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Just because it's sexual exploitation, doesn't mean it isn't work.

When you do shit for money, that's work. Plenty of other work is exploitation too

Realworld10 · 25/09/2026 22:07

I've never been a judgemental person but do have curiosity questions about things. We only live for a short time and have our own backgrounds and ways to live. For me, as long as no cruelty to the vulnerable, both humans and animals, I really don't care what anyone does. I do however feel justified to say that cash in hand and earning so much without declaring is unfair to the rest of us who get taxed for every minute we work.

My questions...

Firstmost I hope you're safe and have means of ensuring this

How do you advertise?

Do you claim UC so this job is an undeclared extra?

Do you form bonds with regulars and maybe want to be in a relationship with a particular genuine one?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:07

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:05

All in the last month? And then the 17 dick weekend marathon?

Living the dream

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Did you read the ‘half the work’ bit for double the money over 3 days? …. So actually sex was like 4x max.

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PowerRangerGoGo · 25/09/2026 22:08

How do we know your not a weird Pervy man ?

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 22:08

HambleTheDoll · 25/09/2026 22:06

What’s your favourite biscuit?

Thank god somebody is finally getting down to the real nitty-gritty. I was beginning to fear this was never going to be asked.

Personally I like a Rich Tea, but I will indulge and have a Kit-Kat or similar when the mood takes me.

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:08

HambleTheDoll · 25/09/2026 22:06

What’s your favourite biscuit?

Ooh, I know this one! It's Hairy Fucking Palms.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 25/09/2026 22:09

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:29

One thing I’ve learnt is … yes I’m attractive, petite and look young for my age which I can’t deny has added to my attraction.

BUT I know ladies who do this who honestly are overweight, look like the deputy head at your primary school, mid fifties and are still as massively busy and make a good full time income on 3 clients a day.

Its been an eye opener for sure but clients and service providers are seriously NOT the people you would envisage in your head!

You don’t have to be a size 8-10 to be attractive. Over weight doesn’t have to mean facially unattractive

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:09

PowerRangerGoGo · 25/09/2026 22:08

How do we know your not a weird Pervy man ?

How very dare you? He has a woman's name!!!

PowerRangerGoGo · 25/09/2026 22:09

Do yoh enjoy it? How long do you see yourself doing this?
Do you think you'll harm your soul doing this? How would you feel if all your family n friends cs find out?

Hope you'll be safe

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:15

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