I have two adult daughters. Both have dc and are really in the trenches.
They are angry at me as I’m not supporting them in the way they need. To be honest I’m doing nothing at all apart from being a listening ear really. I used to help with childcare , babysitting etc but I have a degenerative condition that’s worsened since the beginning of the year and I’m navigating a life as a wheelchair user and trying to just get through the day myself. I have no carers and dh is working full time and caring for his parents who are frail.
my daughters are quite angry with me atm. They hardly visit (one has once since February and the other three times just quick visits as she was passing). I miss them, I miss my grandchildren. But I can’t physically help anymore.
are there any other ways I can help really, at the moment I’m just ringing regularly and checking in. I feel awful about the situation and I’ve really let them down