My gym instructor is a really nice guy. He is so personable and friendly and remembers everyone's name.
But he will talk about himself, hobbies and his wife for ages. I love chatting so at first was really enthusiastic and asked lots of questions while lifting which wasn't a big deal, i love a chat. But it's the same conversation over and over about the lasted thing he has created for his hobby.
For the first time I was really irritated. I haven't been to the gym this week as a result. I turned the topic round a couple of times to something else, even inputted my own story but his eyes just glaze over. As soon as i enter he bee lines for me as I am keen to chat.
He actually really helps me so i don't want to be cold. He improves my form and gives me tips.
If it was a conversation and I could share too I wouldn't mind. How do I change this dynamic?
I thought i could excessively talk about myself to shoo him away, is that a crazy thought?