i know I’ll get responses telling me to mind my own business however, I am hoping for some sensible advice on how to approach a situation with a family member and drug use.
We live hours away from them so it’s difficult to understand what’s going on but it seems they are regularly using cocaine at home. Their health is really suffering now, they sleep in until lunch time so worried about their job. always always broke but earns a very good salary (they depend on parents to pay for lots of things and parents have no idea what is going on), the kids have seen signs of use at home. There is a lot more but I’m being vague.
How should we approach them? What, if anything, can we do to support? I know they need to want to help themselves but there are kids involved here too.
If it’s relevant we are all dealing with the serious illness of a parent so this is utterly awful.