Friends with 2 guys I used to work with who are about 3-4 years younger than me (I'm mid 30s] I worked with them for nearly 2 years but no longer work for that department, there are a few other friends I keep in touch with from that job but they don't know each other.
I see the 2 guys about 3 times a year for a coffee/lunch and i did so last week. I'm married, i think they're both single but never been anything untoward, they've never flirted or anything. We talk about work, property market, travel, cars, usual stuff. Odd whatsapp in between for birthdays, job news etc.
Anyway one of them has just sent me a video out of nowhere of a young woman with very large/pert breasts running in a swimsuit causing them to bob up and down, and a group of techy sort of men are breaking their necks to stare at her.
Not replied and no idea what to do, shall I just ignore? Completely out of the blue, he's quite a serious sort of man too, I've never heard him talk about women or anything. Any thoughts?