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GCSEs 2018 (15) The Reckoning

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mmzz · 12/07/2018 22:58

thread 14
The next step of the all new GCSE journey.

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HesMyLobster · 09/08/2018 15:57

Thinking of you and DH Alexander, really hope you get some answers and a way forward Thanks

Thinking about GCSE results makes me mildly anxious - mainly because I want DD to get what she deserves and not be disappointed.

Thinking about A Level results makes me feel physically sick and is keeping me up at night.

hmcAsWas · 09/08/2018 15:54

Go with farangatang's suggestion. We've only 1 page left.

AlexanderHamilton - I expect you are in with the consultant now. Thinking of you Flowers

AChickenCalledKorma · 09/08/2018 15:43

I've been really encouraged by spending a couple of days with my extended family. It was a funeral, so it was a sad time. But it was improved by the opportunity to meet up with my cousins' children who are all now in their early 20s. Last time I saw them they were all about 14-15 and sightly awkward, self conscious teens. And they live in an area which tends not to be very aspirational education-wise. But my goodness they have all blossomed and found their way into great jobs in a whole assortment of different fields. It was a real pleasure to chat to them and remember that there is a whole new phase to come after all the exams are done.

AChickenCalledKorma · 09/08/2018 15:39

Thinking of you AlexanderHamilton . Waiting is horrible. I hope you are being listened to and looked after.

AlexanderHamilton · 09/08/2018 15:05

Scan was 1pm. Results 4.15pm

mmzz · 09/08/2018 14:28

Thanks, farangatang. I liked both suggestions today.
Sorry, not very helpful.

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farangatang · 09/08/2018 14:18

Aw, thanks Loose Flowers

and if I"m still on MN when the thread fills up mmzz, I will help - not sure if I can take the pressure of naming though!! More suggestions, anyone??!!

mmzz · 09/08/2018 14:16

and here's a list of all the posters who've been on this thread in case someone wants to @ them in to the next one:-
AChickenCalledKorma, adrinkofwater, AlexanderHamilton, AlwaysHiding, androbbob, BackforGood, beenrumbled, Bimkom, BlueBelle123, Bouledeneige, brainmelt, Cblue, cubscout, dogzdinner, EllenJanesthickerknickers, EllenJanethickerknickers, farangatang, GettinTrimmer, Ggirl27, goodbyestranger, HesMyLobster, hmcAsWas, InMySpareTime, ItsHot, Jinglebells99, JufusMum, JugglingFromHereToThere, JugglingMummyof2, KickBishopBrennanUpTheArse, KingscoteStaff, KittiesInsane, LARLARLAND, LineRunner, LooseAtTheSeams, mmzz, Oddsocks15, Oratory1, PandaG, PeggySchuylar, ReservoirDogs, sandgrown, sandybayley, slinkyme, Sostenueto, Soursprout, spababe, speedyhedgehog, Stickerrocks, teenmum60, TeenTimesTwo, terfterf, Theimpossiblegirl, TheThirdOfHerName, Wonderwine

(I promise that i'm not keeping a spreadsheet or anything. I just copy-pasted the thread a minute ago and extracted the poster names)

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mmzz · 09/08/2018 14:05

I'm going out for the rest of the afternoon soon, so please could someone else create the new thread if we get towards 1000?

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LooseAtTheSeams · 09/08/2018 14:02

farangatang just saw your thread title suggestion - love it!
Ellen fantastic photo...rather different in London today although we need this rain!

farangatang · 09/08/2018 14:01

jealous Ellen - it's grey and raining here and the garden furniture is covered over so.....typical British Summer again!

LooseAtTheSeams · 09/08/2018 14:00

Alexander wishing you all the best - I think the waiting around is really hard. Hopefully it will result in a clear treatment plan. Thanks

farangatang · 09/08/2018 13:59

All the best to your DH Alexander. Hope you and your DD are coping OK, too!! And may the results of the MRI be conclusive and it's easy to work out how to help him going forward.

and my suggestion for next thread title is a little on the lines of hmc's:
GCSE's 2018 (17): Results? Schmresults!

EllenJanesthickerknickers · 09/08/2018 13:51

Hi Alexander I hope everything is going well with you and DH. Does he have some music to listen to? How soon will you get results?

Does your DD require a DBS even though she's under 18? That's different from scouts who have young leaders under 18 but require DBS after that.

I'm on holiday in Greece without DC who are with their dad for the week, so haven't really been keeping up.

GCSEs 2018 (15) The Reckoning
mmzz · 09/08/2018 13:27

What time is the MRI due to start? It lasts quite a while, doesn't it?

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AlexanderHamilton · 09/08/2018 12:56

Waiting for school to get back to us. Dd needs to go in for a DBS check (she’s been offered a job working with the Saturday kids classes they run) but we didn’t want to bring her today.

AlexanderHamilton · 09/08/2018 12:55

Intermittent. Some dizziness some days (day before yesterday for example) & hearing problems but he says he feels well in himself.

teenmum60 · 09/08/2018 12:53

AH Did you manage to sort out a host family?

mmzz · 09/08/2018 12:52

Has his symptoms worsened in the last couple of weeks? Or does he seem to be on an even keel at the moment?

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AlexanderHamilton · 09/08/2018 12:48

We will have some time to kill between the scan itself & seeing the consultant - that will be hardest but I’ll be with him so won’t be posting during that time.

mmzz · 09/08/2018 12:46

AH I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you and your DH must be going through today. Flowers

Would just chatting about anything help take your mind off things?

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AlexanderHamilton · 09/08/2018 12:43

Sorty to bring things off topic. Am sitting in the hospital whilst dh is having his MRI scan. We will get the results later today so may have some answers one way or another.

Quite frankly I’m terrified but trying to stay positive.

Cblue · 09/08/2018 12:04

Just back from US and can confirm that GCSE results do matter to them (mainly Ivy) - in fact they want a transcript from school showing results throughout high school. They are looking for progression and an upward track.
They then want to see lots of extra curricular activity- hobbies, work experience etc to a high standard and commitment
There are several essays (some want 3) and they kept emphasising that they want to 'hear your voice".
SATs for Maths and English are required and some want 2 x subject SATs too. References are required from school councillors/head plus 1 or 2 teachers and they also accept any other additional information which could include videos, portfolios, papers written.

They don't seem to interview as part of the selection process so they use this information to build a picture of applicants and are far more holistic than the UK. Several of the admissions staff said that this information could be reviewed by 3 people.

mmzz · 09/08/2018 12:03

I was wondering if having a record of employment (in shops, waitressing etc) indicated to a university (and a future employer), that someone rated you enough to pay you for your work which must mean that you would organise yourself to regularly get to work on time, be friendly and polite to customers and colleagues and were willing to get stuck in and actually do some work.

I’ve worked for investment banks and their HR always wanted my O’ grade certificates as well as other qualifications. Sometimes, I’d have started the job and they’d still be hounding me for them. (I wasn’t always good at knowing where things are – which should have been a warning to them about the state my desk was going to be in! I hate hunting for things though, so I’ve finally learned to file!).

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teenmum60 · 09/08/2018 11:50

Oratory - Yes, I think your correct in that work experience is probably more important when it comes to employment and DC's perhaps not looking to go to Uni.

My next door neighbour's DD has a degree from Cambridge in History of Art but she is currently working in a hotel (albeit a listed building that offers a little more than just hotel rooms). She applied for numerous jobs but was turned down because of lack of work experience and it seems to be a revolving circle ...

I dont think I have ever supplied by O level certificates to any employer...I think once you have some employment behind you (or a higher level of education) then it comes irrelevant and I worked for a major bank (and still do indirectly).

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