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TTC August 2026

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inkgirl · 22/07/2026 11:55

So I'm pretty much put this month, giving up all hope its happening this month. I know August is still a week away but thought I'd start a thread for the August TTCers.
How's everyone doing?

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HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 16:20

Springcloud26 · 08/08/2026 10:52

@HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy I know what you mean about wanting to cover regularly but sometimes not feeling up to it! I’m away from my partner this weekend so trying to relax that it isn’t in my control 😂

Sorry I’ve probably missed this, where are you in your cycle? Are you trying for your first?

Yes, I definitely try to make sure all days are covered, even if the strips are very negative. It’s just the little thought at the back of my mind going “but what if this cycle your peak was super fast and you miss it!” Find it easier mentally just to keep dtd.

Don’t worry, it’s so easy to get lost who is who on these threads! I do it all the time 😂
I’m 8 dpo today TTC baby 3! Have been trying since December, Monday will mark 9 months since I got the coil 😖

inkgirl · 08/08/2026 16:30

fluffycauliflowers · 08/08/2026 15:22

Hi all - mind if I join you?! 😊
TTC baby 3. I’m 1DPO (or maybe it’s today)- it’s been my first time using ovulation strips so not really sure and my cycles are a bit all over the place.
I had my first miscarriage in June so am just feeling desperate to be pregnant again.
my first two pregnancies happened straight away (first was a big surprise) and so I’ve never really done any of this but I’m very anxious since the miscarriage about getting, and staying pregnant.
I’ve given the shettles method a whirl this month as it’s my first time actively trying and already have two boys. Happy with a healthy baby in any flavour though!
I found doing the ovulation strips (and the deed!) gave me a focus (I’m a planner and hate not being able to control everything…) but now I just have to wait until I can test and I’m already struggling one day in 🥲
How do you do it?!

Welcome to the group, TTC is hard but so worth it when it happens.
Im currently waiting for AF to starr back up again after coming off the pill

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Jigglemonster · 08/08/2026 16:36

I'm 9dpo and bfn this morning. I know im not 100% out but sort of feels like this isn't my month. I've a short lutueal phase so due AF on Monday so will know for sure soon, but annoyingly I've a week long work trip at my next month's ovulation period so if not this month will be another two at least.

It's mad how emotionally draining the whole thing is. Hope you're all doing ok!

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 18:33

Jigglemonster · 08/08/2026 16:36

I'm 9dpo and bfn this morning. I know im not 100% out but sort of feels like this isn't my month. I've a short lutueal phase so due AF on Monday so will know for sure soon, but annoyingly I've a week long work trip at my next month's ovulation period so if not this month will be another two at least.

It's mad how emotionally draining the whole thing is. Hope you're all doing ok!

Sorry about the BFN. I know what you mean, I always feel I’m out if I don’t get a hint of a line at 9 dpo. Even though some people doesn’t implant until 10 dpo! So try to keep hope, even though it’s really hard.

TTC is a total head-wrecker! My DH is tearing his hair out at my mood swings atm😬 Will you test again tomorrow? Or try to wait until AF is due?

Springcloud26 · 08/08/2026 19:10

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 16:20

Yes, I definitely try to make sure all days are covered, even if the strips are very negative. It’s just the little thought at the back of my mind going “but what if this cycle your peak was super fast and you miss it!” Find it easier mentally just to keep dtd.

Don’t worry, it’s so easy to get lost who is who on these threads! I do it all the time 😂
I’m 8 dpo today TTC baby 3! Have been trying since December, Monday will mark 9 months since I got the coil 😖

@HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy ah good luck! Will you test early or wait until AF due?

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 21:50

Springcloud26 · 08/08/2026 19:10

@HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy ah good luck! Will you test early or wait until AF due?

Thank you! I try to wait until 12 dpo as I hate the squinty line is it/ isnt it stage, feel by 12 dpo it is normally clear one way or the other. Often cave around 10 dpo though 😂

ByLoudPeachPlayer · 08/08/2026 23:42

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 18:33

Sorry about the BFN. I know what you mean, I always feel I’m out if I don’t get a hint of a line at 9 dpo. Even though some people doesn’t implant until 10 dpo! So try to keep hope, even though it’s really hard.

TTC is a total head-wrecker! My DH is tearing his hair out at my mood swings atm😬 Will you test again tomorrow? Or try to wait until AF is due?

Just wanted to say, I got a BFP today after negative at 11 DPO

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 02:11

ByLoudPeachPlayer · 08/08/2026 23:42

Just wanted to say, I got a BFP today after negative at 11 DPO

Thats awsome to hear congratulations

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HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 09/08/2026 07:53

ByLoudPeachPlayer · 08/08/2026 23:42

Just wanted to say, I got a BFP today after negative at 11 DPO

Thats wonderful! Congratulations! So you tested positive at 12 dpo after a negative at 11 dpo?
I managed to resist testing again this morning. Mostly because I have decided it is going to be negative. Feel like a third just isn’t going to happen for me! Feeling very fed up!

Springcloud26 · 09/08/2026 08:01

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 08/08/2026 21:50

Thank you! I try to wait until 12 dpo as I hate the squinty line is it/ isnt it stage, feel by 12 dpo it is normally clear one way or the other. Often cave around 10 dpo though 😂

It’s so hard to wait! I’m the same though, I don’t want the additional anxiety of faint lines/ negative that may turn positive etc so I waited until 15 DPO last time!

HappyBlueDonkey · 09/08/2026 08:48

AF has arrived here as expected. Gutting that we wanted an 18 month gap and now the smallest we will have is 2 years exactly but who knows how long it will take, it could be 3+ years. I’m next due to ovulate early September if my cycles stay the same length. I then have loads of holiday to use at work after being on Mat leave so I’ll be off the majority of the month and we’re going away (in the UK). I had AL to use so had 2.5 weeks off when we conceived my son with a trip to Spain also so I’m clinging onto the fact it’s a sign 🤣

fluffycauliflowers · 09/08/2026 08:50

Congratulation @ByLoudPeachPlayer! Wonderful news.

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 09:09

HappyBlueDonkey · 09/08/2026 08:48

AF has arrived here as expected. Gutting that we wanted an 18 month gap and now the smallest we will have is 2 years exactly but who knows how long it will take, it could be 3+ years. I’m next due to ovulate early September if my cycles stay the same length. I then have loads of holiday to use at work after being on Mat leave so I’ll be off the majority of the month and we’re going away (in the UK). I had AL to use so had 2.5 weeks off when we conceived my son with a trip to Spain also so I’m clinging onto the fact it’s a sign 🤣

Sorry to hear AF arrived

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Silverglass · 09/08/2026 09:11

ByLoudPeachPlayer · 08/08/2026 23:42

Just wanted to say, I got a BFP today after negative at 11 DPO

Nice to see a bfp on here 🙂 congrats!

HelloDarknessmyoldfrenemy · 09/08/2026 09:30

HappyBlueDonkey · 09/08/2026 08:48

AF has arrived here as expected. Gutting that we wanted an 18 month gap and now the smallest we will have is 2 years exactly but who knows how long it will take, it could be 3+ years. I’m next due to ovulate early September if my cycles stay the same length. I then have loads of holiday to use at work after being on Mat leave so I’ll be off the majority of the month and we’re going away (in the UK). I had AL to use so had 2.5 weeks off when we conceived my son with a trip to Spain also so I’m clinging onto the fact it’s a sign 🤣

Sorry to hear AF has arrived. The age gap thing really bothers me too. It’s just getting bigger and bigger! I wish I’d started trying earlier, even though there are very good reasons why I didn’t try for another 21 month gap. But now it’s 3 and a half years when I was aiming for 2 years 9 months and growing all the time 😩

Hope you have a lovely holiday! Where are you going? Holiday worked for someone on the previous thread! They went away after negative at 11 dpo and came back with a Pregnant 2-3 weeks! Really hope it happens for you too!

lotusbiscoff · 09/08/2026 11:29

Congrats on your BFP @ByLoudPeachPlayer

CD9 over here so going to start OPK’s tomorrow I think. Last month ovulation was CD17 and the month before CD14 so who knows what’ll happen this month! I used to be clockwork but my cycle seems to be a bit all over the place since the losses. Going to try and cover as much of next week as possible to maximise our chances as I hate feeling like we wasted a month but it just becomes a lot 😅

Biyobio · 09/08/2026 13:18

Congratulations @ByLoudPeachPlayer how many DPO are you?

I'm 5DPO and not feeling anything different tbh. Will test next weekend when I'll be 12 & 13 DPO. I have a busy week so hopefully time will feel fast!

Anyone else going to test next weekend?

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 14:39

Biyobio · 09/08/2026 13:18

Congratulations @ByLoudPeachPlayer how many DPO are you?

I'm 5DPO and not feeling anything different tbh. Will test next weekend when I'll be 12 & 13 DPO. I have a busy week so hopefully time will feel fast!

Anyone else going to test next weekend?

I'll probably test next week but thats because I'm still waiting on AF to arrive after coming off the pill

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LionMama2 · 09/08/2026 14:46

Congrats @ByLoudPeachPlayer what lovely news!!

I am officially out. AF arrived today, three whole days early. I can normally set my watch by my cycle so this was weird but at least I know and I can try again. I’m optimistic.

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 14:55

LionMama2 · 09/08/2026 14:46

Congrats @ByLoudPeachPlayer what lovely news!!

I am officially out. AF arrived today, three whole days early. I can normally set my watch by my cycle so this was weird but at least I know and I can try again. I’m optimistic.

Sorry to hear AF arrived

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LionMama2 · 09/08/2026 14:57

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 14:55

Sorry to hear AF arrived

Thanks! At least I know where I am and May would be a wonderful month to have a baby so 🤞🏻.

inkgirl · 09/08/2026 15:20

LionMama2 · 09/08/2026 14:57

Thanks! At least I know where I am and May would be a wonderful month to have a baby so 🤞🏻.

It would yea, not too hot not too cold, nice time of year

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Silverglass · 09/08/2026 18:16

took a test despite it being so early and I can either see a very very faint shadow line or it’s just picking up an indent (most likely). Actually find it quite fun analysing the photos even if it does turn out to be negative.

my previous I had a positive lh strip on the 11th and a decently positive test, dark enough for the apps to pick up as positive, on the 20th so I’m half convinced I’ll see really early again if it is positive.

BigGirlPants01 · 09/08/2026 18:21

Caved a took a test 9dpo this morning.. obvs negative. Felt like I was going to start AF early this morning (headache in the usualy spot) but still nothing - just have a feeling I'm out this month!

MacaroniPenguin486 · 09/08/2026 18:28

Biyobio · 09/08/2026 13:18

Congratulations @ByLoudPeachPlayer how many DPO are you?

I'm 5DPO and not feeling anything different tbh. Will test next weekend when I'll be 12 & 13 DPO. I have a busy week so hopefully time will feel fast!

Anyone else going to test next weekend?

I am 4DPO today - will test next weekend too although it’s my son’s second birthday party so a part of me wants to know after that to not take anything away from his special day!