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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after loss part 5

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Ella31 · 04/08/2024 18:18

Just continuing our old thread. I've added anyone who has asked to stay on here. As always, anyone who is trying after a loss is welcome to join and those who have been lucky since are welcome to encourage those who are still waiting for their rainbow (if you want to stay of course )

Also for the next thread, I'm going to let someone else take over creating the new one if people don't mind. I've a lot on at the moment with tests and I'm back to work in the next few weeks after my bereavement leave with my boys. So if anyone would like to take the mantle, feel free.

Im 2dpo today and have another ultrasound on Wednesday to see if follicle has burst followed by pdg blood test.

@Onthedouble123
@DonnaWhat
@moosey89
@Bellebg
@Lovedatforme
@Ncl31
@PearlCat
@LucyCL
@CadoAvo
@ThelastRolo20
@Figtree11

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LucyCL · 13/08/2024 19:05

ExTriTrying · 13/08/2024 06:03

Thank you @Onthedouble123 @DonnaWhat @Figtree11 .

I'm obviously not taking my own advice, and worried that my line doesn't look any darker this AM (pic is top 9dpo AM, middle 9dpo PM, bottom 10dpo). However, it came up quicker, and was more obvious straight away, and I noticed yesterday's ones got darker as the day went on. Eg, the pics from yesterday were taken about an hour after taking the test and it was almost impossible to see the line in a pic, but quite clear (I think!) now. So I'm going to try to get on with my day and not think about it too much!

@Ella31 completely understand, it's an anxious time. Thinking of you.

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Try to be positive and learn how to relax such as taking deep breaths. Also I find it useful to thank my body and heart to keep me and the poppy seed alive at the end of each day. Then I say “ I did well”. It definitely helps to reduce my anxiety.

LucyCL · 13/08/2024 19:01

Ella31 · 12/08/2024 17:39

Thanks @ThelastRolo20 I can't get over how anxious I am. I've been given progesterone pessaries

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I have downloaded the app called Pregnancy after loss and a book called Zoe Clark-Coates which teaches me how to relax etc.

LucyCL · 13/08/2024 18:57

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 08:11

OMG OMG OMG! Ladies, i have a squinter at 10dpo!!!! I don't want to get too excited until Friday but there's potential!

Congratulations and I hope your line gets darker!❤

CadoAvo · 13/08/2024 18:19

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 17:45

@Figtree11 @CadoAvo your time will come ladies and hopefully not too long 🤞🤞where are you both in your cycles xxxxx

Should be ovulating on Friday 🤞🏼

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 17:45

@Figtree11 @CadoAvo your time will come ladies and hopefully not too long 🤞🤞where are you both in your cycles xxxxx

EmTTC2 · 13/08/2024 17:07

Just catching up on all the chat. Congratulations to everyone who has had their BFP! 🎉 I'm 8dpo today. Slight cramping & very tired. My BBT chart is following the same pattern as the last time I got a BFP, so fingers crossed 🤞

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 17:03

For those that would like to join the WhatsApp just send me a pm with your numbers and I'll add you 😊 it's a lovely supportive group of girls!

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 16:18

@moosey89 @CadoAvo ❤️❤️

Onthedouble123 · 13/08/2024 16:08

@jellyfish2 could I join too please? Xx

CadoAvo · 13/08/2024 15:50

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 14:43

I really am so happy for all of you with the BFPs. You all deserve it
Feeling a bit sorry for myself though 😔

Me too. We will get there eventually 🤞🏼🥰

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 15:41

@Figtree11 I completely understand how you feel. Big hugs xx

ThelastRolo20 · 13/08/2024 14:49

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 14:43

I really am so happy for all of you with the BFPs. You all deserve it
Feeling a bit sorry for myself though 😔

I'm sorry @Figtree11 I understand that feeling. After my second miscarriage I had what seemed like a whole train of friends tell me they were pregnant. It was like a punch to the gut each time, but your time will come- you're still recovering xx

ThelastRolo20 · 13/08/2024 14:48

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

Could I join @jellyfish2 x

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 14:43

I really am so happy for all of you with the BFPs. You all deserve it
Feeling a bit sorry for myself though 😔

Lovedatforme · 13/08/2024 14:32

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

Could I be added to this one please?

@Ella31 That line looks perfect, mine looked the same as that ❤

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 14:19

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 13:31

I took a few days off because I was struggling and blimey what happened, did someone put something in the water?? Huge congratulations to everyone getting BFPs, 🤞 they are all sticky little beans this time around. Please share the luck, I'm just into my fertile window 🤣

Sending all the baby dust in the world to you xx

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 13:31

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 12:27

@ToeBeans24 20 weeks?!? Where's that time gone! Xx

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 12:20

ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 12:15

I know @Ella31 i get frustrated / envious often that I don’t have a chance of a worry free pregnancy and be ignorant to the fact of all the risks etc. But some how you just get through. I’m now 20w. Still anxious but each day it gets a small bit better. Xx

20 weeks that's fantastic 🥹🥰🥰 so happy for you

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ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 12:15

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 11:24

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 11:12

@Ella31 I’m on this one but there might be others? It would be nice to all be on the same one. Is anybody else on a different one?

www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5071488-pregnancy-after-loss-part-2?page=1

Just joined, thanks a mil

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 11:23

ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 11:21

@Ella31 i didn’t get a bfp at 11dpo at all so this is v positive ! My First bfp was at 15dpo I think and only dark on a FRER. On a standard supermarket test you could barely see it.

Completely get the anxiety. I did tests every 2 days for almost 3 weeks. The anxiety never goes but you do learn to sit with it somehow. But do whatever works for you. People that hadn’t experienced lost thought I was crazy for buying and taking so many tests and having early scans.

but it helped me. I promise you can do this. We are all with you xx

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Thanks so much @ToeBeans24 it's mad isn't it. If we hadn't lost our babies, we'd be none the wiser

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ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 11:21

@Ella31 i didn’t get a bfp at 11dpo at all so this is v positive ! My First bfp was at 15dpo I think and only dark on a FRER. On a standard supermarket test you could barely see it.

but it helped me. I promise you can do this. We are all with you xx

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 11:12

@Ella31 I’m on this one but there might be others? It would be nice to all be on the same one. Is anybody else on a different one?

www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5071488-pregnancy-after-loss-part-2?page=1

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