TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

Thank you :-) I know you are right :-) I just need to get my head around it all and realise that what will be will be so no point in stressing :-)

@Gillead2029 just remember that most people have a successful pregnancy after a loss. Very few (statistically) have multiple miscarriages. We're all here to hand hold and there's a follow on thread for pregnancies as well full of penguin graduates.

@hidcat thank you for replying :-) it is so confusing ! Nice that people understand though :-) I tested ovulation every day and it started at nothing then increased to peak! Midwife said ovulation could come back that quick :-s on one hand I hope the line gets darker but on the other I am not ready to cope with another loss :-/ you think you'll get pregnant and it will all be plain sailing! How wrong I was!

@Gillead2029 I'm so sorry for your loss but welcome to the group. I'm glad you're feeling ok but that bit before getting your period is so confusing, you're not alone in that.

I'd be surprised if you had a new pregnancy already, your surge 2 weeks ago could have been left over pregnancy hormones as opks normally show positive when pg. I'd test again in a few days to make sure the line doesn't get darker just to be in the safe side. If it does then call your epu again and they'll confirm with bloods so you know what's happening.

Hello all :-) not sure if anyone can join so hope this is okay :-) i mc four weeks ago yesterday :-( I am coming to terms with it and feel a lot better.

However I am now driving myself slowly insane!! I had a bfn finally on Sunday which was a relief and an internal scan showed nothing left. However yesterday I had such an urge to pos so I did and it had a very very faint line (had to pretty much shine a light behind to see it but it was there and slightly pinky). So now I’m going nuts thinking I’m a) pregnant again so soon or b) didn’t actually get a true bfn on Sunday. God I wish I’d kept Sunday’s test to double check it!!!

I think I ovulated last Wednesday but I also seem to have had a surge two weeks ago so no idea what’s going on there!!!

God this whole thing is such a mind fuck! Apologies for swearing!!! 🙊

@jjjen I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I hope you're doing ok and that your final round of ivf gives you the baby you deserve. We have a more up to date thread if you want to join us. TTC After Pregnancy Loss Thread Thread 22.

I know there are not much comforting words I can offer. I’m also experiencing the same thing. It’s just that my dh & I’ve been trying for 7 yrs now. I know how frustrating it is when every month af shows up. I don’t want it… I want to get pregnant so bad. I did IVF in May, but m/c last week. We will try again next month (ivf again). That is going to be our last try… After that I don’t know what to do anymore. Well dr. thinks donor eggs may work… But I don’t want to think about it right now. I put all hopes in upcoming IVF. I leave everything in GOD's hands. I believe if it’s HIS will, then it will happen. Hang in there girl... But it’s not easy to stay positive, when you see a baby or pregnant women. I'm just glad that I have a wonderful DH. I just think about all the good things happened and good people around me. Good luck to you and to all who ttc.

New thread is up and running

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3272528-ttc-after-pregnancy-loss-thread-22

Haha @littleemma1 I probably only keep up because I obsessively check! 🤦‍♀️

Good luck DaisyMay25!!
@L1zz13 thanks hun. I'd like to say I won't test early but probably next Friday- 11dpo. I'm so sorry things are tough for you at the mo. I hope you guys sort it out. Do you have any other DC? x

Oh @L1zz13 I really do hope you’re ok 💐❤️

Or a roll call will work 🤣 I just really struggle, I think it’s because I’m not getting notifications! Not sure why 🤔

@ek78 I’m so sorry about your experience 😔

Static smiley today so I'll have my own tiny marathon of 4 days this month. No where near @Boboelephant 😂 I got DH to pick up pineapple on his way home too!

Also @Lilimum4 you'll see when @HidCat does it but it's basically a list of where everyone is at as it's so easy to get muddled up.
Age, what child they are ttc and how long.

Brilliant thanks @HidCat! Can I make a small request if not done yet? Can we please change the title back to ttc after pregnancy loss rather than miscarriage? It made a big difference to me when I was looking for support after having an EP.

Yes I think that's a good idea Hidcat. New thread, new role call. :)

Could start the role call on a new thread as we're over 900 now.

@Boboelephant how do we do the role call

I quite like MN so would probably rather stay here. Also I think a roll call is a good idea.

Oh @weasledee and @ek78 I'm so sorry for both of you 🐧🐧🐧 I second HidCat's penguin art!!
@HidCat I hope the af calms down!!!
@zarala woohoo!!! JKS!!
@RedRobin7 fingers crossed.
@Pancakes7 JKS!!
@rdm10 hello!! I've been wondering where some of the 'thread oldies' have been. So many newbies coming and so many bfps going the last 2 months. Glad you are able to be a bit more chilled. Fx it's your month!

I can't get over how rude / inconsiderate some of the midwives are. Makes me even more grateful for the ones around here.

I don't use WhatsApp myself though I know others have headed over there.

I’ve been thinking this thread moves so quick would anyone join a whatsapp group?! They’re far more easy to keep up with! Xxx

Hellooo long time no ‘see’!
I’ve not been on here for a while. I’ve been on holiday and trying not to let the ttc crazy in. This thread is moving so quickly it’d take me a week to read what I’ve missed so just going to start from here.

Sorry to see new faces. It’s not somewhere any of us wanted to find ourselves but it’s a lovely supportive group.

@Hidcat my first couple of af after mc were horrendously heavy for a few days. They got better though.

@ek78 some people just have no sensitivity and you’d think people working with pregnant women would know better. When I was waiting for the scan to confirm mc the gyne dr rang to tell me I didn’t need so many appointments (a&e the day before had booked me in for blood tests and I had an early scan already booked in) before I could tell her I had mc she told me I was greedy to have so many scans and ‘everybody else manages with just one’!!! Surely anybody with an ounce of sense would see that the blood tests and scan were booked from a&e and worked out what was happening!? 😤

I’m 7dpo. Have taken a relaxed approach this month after sore boobs and bad back last month had me totally convinced I was pregnant then af came early and I was gutted. so JKS every other day from cd9-21. Ov pains and cm make me think I ov’d on cd16 (when we didn’t dtd but hopefully still done enough). Absolutely no symptoms but we’ll see 🤞

JKS to anyone in fw and good luck to all you tww-ers, here’s to trying to keep the crazy to a minimum 🤔😉

Do we need a new roll call?