Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

Mouse thinking of you - though know you will be back in by now. Do hope you keep being persistant and get the treatment you need and want. ((big hugs)) XX

milkyway welcome to this thread and hello again. I was so sorry to hear your story, and want to thank you again for the advice you gave to me after my m/c earlier this year . Really hope we can give you some support here, xx

Just to add (sorry to bore everyone else again) we'd been TTC for over 3 years before I got a BFP, and I've put off so many things in case I was pregnant, so now I don't say no to anything bcs I'm convinced we'll find a way to make it work if FX the thing we most want does happen. HTH?

banana FX for all your symptoms!

it's tough keeping up isn't it!! I'm struggling too.

Mel Just remember it is WTF, your first cycle can be super heavy MC. Friend of mine had to nip out from work to buy new trousers bcs it had leaked so much. So pleased for you that your body is settling down.

chloe the drinking thing is tough isn't it? Can you use the driving card? Early start in the morning? Sometimes it's easier just to abstain and ignore the questions? Hope you have a nice evening tho.

Cep,ohkeeperofthelist hope all ok with you and that you are having a lovely wknd

Shorty hope you are getting some TLC and begin to feel better soon.

Hello to collie, olis, hope you manage to chill over the next two weeks! We have fish at the ready ladies!

Waves to ninu, lili, lily, wellie, brooke hadrian laylas and everyone else I missed, hope you all have lovely weekends

shorty My first was a natural at 5 weeks and my AF came back straight away, took about 6 weeks after my D&C.

i had a natural and it took 5 weeks for my af to return. Rest this weekend and keep warm.

Morning ladies hope everyone is o.k, i'm still really suffering with my chest infection, at least its giving me something else to focus on for a while though. Melie i'm glad that your body is getting back to normal as painful as it may be.

Thinking of you mouse hope today goes better than yesterday.

Welcome milky, everyone is lovely here and has made me feel very welcome. Has anyone had a d & c and a natural mc? Just wondering because when I had my d&c my cycle returned straight away and this time was a natural mc and still waiting, has anyone found the natural mc to take longer for cycle to return? X

xpost ninu morning, you didn't say anything about you hope you're ok.

mel no worries, glad your body is getting back to normal so quickly.

SATURDAY'S LIST

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd45
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD27
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD26
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD26
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD25
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD24
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD23
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD21
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD19
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD19
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD19
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, CD18
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd18
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD16
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD12
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD11
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 11
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 7
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD5
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD3
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD14

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? wtf

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

morning all, wow i missed a lot last night.

welcome milky so sorry for your losses. again i haven't read your thread yet but will go look for it.

mouse so sorry you're being messed around, i hope the night went as well as could be and is ok for you today for your d&c

banana fx it's a sign for you. (i won't put sussies on it's a ghastly sight but i will shake some pompoms.)

chloe fx is a sign for you as well. i would have a few, make then last a while and have a glass or water next to it, so 1 sip wine, 1 sip water. i don't think at this stage it'll damage a bean caus e they're not taking anything from us yet. Think of all the women who go out drinking before even realise they're pg. infact two nights before i found i was pg with ds i got really drunk at my parents house and ds is fine.

iggly some find that relaxing about temping etc helps. good luck, and have fun i'm ok thankyou, no more blood this morning so yay.

collie how hot did you have the bath in the end?

so sorry if i missed anyone. hope you're all ok.

Okay...here I come to mess up the stats again...(tmi alert!)

Just as I was about to finish work I started bleeding, fresh, clots, lots of it! Got myself in a panic, thinking what's going on? Is there more mc stuff to come out? Plus I really wasn't prepared for that (as in no sanitary towels, just a tiny pantyliner). Phone dh, what do I do? I know the out of hours gp will be as useful as a chocolate teapot! So I phoned the ward that treated me. She suggests it's af, I'm thinking what?! It's only been 3 weeks!!!! Anyway, as it's fresh I guess it must be! 3 weeks is normal apparently! To say I'm surprised tho is an understatement! They don't call it the WTF cycle for nothing! I'm glad my body seems in a hurry to sort itself out.

So sorry cep I'm cd 1!

Err...I meant the clots haven't been to painful. On my phone so predictor text finishes off my words.

Thanks for the new thread collie
#13 turned out to be a lucky one, and I'm sure #14 will be too with all this POAS action already.

Chloe I just had a company event with open bar all night last night and come dine with me the night before- both very boozy, but I found if you have a full glass in front of you, no one really notices. As long as you don't openly say 'i'm not drinking'.

Oli don't feel bad about all the symptom spotting and the insane POAS action. I think it's normal to want something so much after what we lost, but let's try to prepare ourselves in case we're wrong. RE: your question earlier, I've been temping, using OPKs & ff. I always get ovulation pain so that is my biggest indicator.

Mouse thinking of you again today. So frustrating to hear it was pushed back. Hope the cloths haven't been too painful.

Welcome milky

cep hope there was no more blood today.

Waves to blackkat lili lily and everyone else.

Thanks for the new thread collie Hope it brings you lots of luck

Welcome milky haven't read your other thread but I will search for it after this. Sorry about your recurrent MCs but hopefully MN will bring you some support.

Olis I bet you lurk If not then see you Monday!

Mouse I am so sorry you have been messed about so much. I hope it goes ok for you today and you can get home and rest.

Iggly I know what you mean about taking things in your stride this month (I am so not this month ) but once I come off the Clomid I will as that's how ds was finally conceived, when I had given up all hope of it ever happening and forgetting about it!

Waves to everyone else!

Shot out of bed this morning bacuse I thought I had come on - could def feel that sensation of releasing fluid (sorry if tmi)but when I got to the toilet there was nothing there, literally nothing I actually took myself off to bed at 8.30pm because I was so tired and had mild period pains too. Still a week away from actually being able to test with a reliable stick as still only CD24.

My other issue is it is the first night of a Come Dine With Me game which i am involved in. Obviously the wine will be flowing, there will even probably be shots involved knowing our friends and I am not sure whether to fully abstain from drinking or have a few and avoid the shots and also avoid the 'hush hush she must be pregnant' giggles as they all know we are TTC. What do you reckon?

wow you ladies can talk! I cant keep up and now there's a new thread! I spend most of time lurking, then by the time I get around to posting it's moved again

hi milky I'll go and check out your thread. Sorry you've found yourself here :(

fingers crossed melie and collie on the symptom spotting! mellie when I was on my WTF cycle I had about a ton of EWCM so probably ovulated but didn't DTD as was not fully recovered. So i hope you get plenty

cep how are you?

mouse sorry to hear about the D&C - make sure you look after yourself and line up plenty of chocolate and wine and indulge yourself for a bit.

This month I've decided to not check my CD, not to temp, not to use OPKs and only to check CM. Last couple of cycles I put pressure on myself to DTD at the "right" time and got very stressed. I honestly don't think I ovulated anyway. Ho Hum!

Also DS is waking up at night with molar problems so very tired so will be going easy on myself (and DH!)

Hi milkyway, welcome to the madness! I've just read your other thread, sorry I can't help much except to say that I want to do my health visiting course (year long full time course) which I've put off to have another baby, I have to admit that after my mc I thought, shall I put off the baby thing and just do that? (my dd starts school in sept) but then I thought about it and realised that if I put off the baby now I might never go back to it, and I want that more. How does your oh feel?

mouse what an awful time you're having, hope things go better tomorrow xxx

collie I'll be joining you prob in the symptom spotting so keep some fish for me! (and I'm on the WTF cycle so I've got no excuse at all, I prob won't even ov this month fgs!)

Thank You collie2 your post was very helpful, and thank you for welcoming me here x

Oh milkyway, you're in the right place love. Take a seat have a drink and the lovely ladies on here will look after you xx

Thanks ladies, I'll pop back in tomorrow and fill you in xxx

Fingers crossed banana xxx

Hi everyone, I had my last mc last month. I have had 4 in total. I am not sure about TTC yet, but have just posted a thread here called "confused, please help" - I don't really know what to do. Any advice will be appreciated.

Oh no Mouse :( Hope you don't pass too much tonight and are seen to first thing in the am.

Still EWCM on wiping here although I attempted to check my cervix earlier (I had NO idea what I was doing) and CM was creamy...so NO idea what to think! In other news, I have gone off sweet stuff which is a classic pregnancy sign for me, though I am sure that is just in my head

Oh mouse, just checked in hoping for news, but not this news how frustrating and tiring for you. Hope you're not in too much pain and that you are finally seen tomorrow. Sending you lots of love and hugs x

Hello ladies, I'm only on 'night release' I spent 10 hours in hospital today, surgical stockings, pessaries in, nil by mouth etc only to be told they'd rather someone more senior did the op tomorrow so I have to go back in the morning.

The senior registrar actually came to me half way through the morning to ask if I'd consider medical management and I said no (knowing my luck it'd fail) but that's basically what I've had and I've now started passing clots. Aaaggh!!

oh good i was starting to worry i had been too mean. i'm off to sleep. have a fantastic relaxing and fun weekend.

mel hope work goes ok.

What's this?! I go to work for a few hours and you start a new thread?! I know I got my dates confused but sheesh! :o

We'll remind that you said that this time next week collie! Enjoy your bath x

i think that'll be a great idea. i think you should relax and have a fantastic time at your friends, it is definately what you need. are you going to stay off here or just not symptom spot?