Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

Oh bugger it.

Tuesday's list

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd48
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD29
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD29
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD28
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD27
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD26
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD24
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD22
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD22
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD22
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD21
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd21
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD19
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD15
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD14
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 14
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 10
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD8
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD6
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD4
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Monday's list

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd48
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD29
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD29
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD28
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD27
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD26
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD24
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD22
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD22
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD22
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD21
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd21
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD19
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD15
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD14
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 14
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 10
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD8
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD6
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD4
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

I've been told just for blood tests to make sure my hcg levels are decreasing, they will decide what to do after that.

Are they going to do another scan on Monday or just blood tests? Don't push yourself too much, am glad work is being good.

welcome miss invincible, it sounds like you've had a rotten few months, I hope this thread brings you luck, we've had a few bfps recently.

all good signs banana.

How are you feeling about things now collie?

Just a quick stop, dd'll be back from swimming any minute and will expect her dinner to be on the table! I'm planning our nice evening that af forced me to postpone, nice dinner and wine then early night...bleedings stopped and given that I've got no idea really what's going on I think it'll be swi every other night this month! I'll start using opks on Friday (day7) I think.

Thanks for the welcome.

cep they have basically said they will wait until I miscarry naturally as I did last time, as my hcg levels are very low. They suspect it is an ectopic pregnancy but cannot confirm as they couldn't see where it was on the scan, I am just praying that hcg is on its way down, 99 to 91 doesn't seem very much of a difference!

I've had yesterday and today off work, back tomorrow but just going to see how it goes. Work have been really good about it but I think I would drive myself crazy sitting around the house all day and prefer to keep busy. It is the waiting for things to happen that is the worst part!

hi missinvincible welcome, again i'm sorry the blood test results weren't so good. weekly testing, that's so frustrating, What have they said in the mean time? Feel free to rant and stress as much as you need to. allow yourself time to grieve, are you off work?

Oh I am sorry missinvincible I understand your cncerns for being scared to try again. I have had 2 MCs and have up and down days as to whether I am strong enough to go through it again if the worst was to happen. I can't quite remember who posted it but someone mentioned some stats about probabilities of having recurrent MCs and when you get into the multiples the chances are very slim if that is any consolation to you. All the ladies on here are great and we will be here to hold your hand all the way.

Hi ladies.

Trying to catch up but not sure I can!

oils A line is a line, why not try a digital in the morning? How many DPO are you?

Collie I hated temping, it never was clear for me. I also think that as some nights are colder than others it will have an impact on your temp.

Update from me: I now have sore nipples :) Have carried on SWI every 3 days MAX so hopefully I covered things. No sign of EWCM today but loads of creamy. Also my stomach lurched upon entering Starbucks today....and I have constant pubic bone pain.....but I could be imagining half of that.

Hi ladies, I hope you don't mind me butting in, cep has kindly pointed me in the direction of this thread.

I'm currently awaiting my second consecutive mc, I had a scan yesterday at 6+ weeks that showed my uterus is empty, hcg levels were 99 on Saturday and 91 yesterday. Back to the EPU on Monday for more tests. My last pregnancy ended on Christmas Day, at 10 weeks, another pregnancy of unknown location . I had spotting off and on from around 5 weeks and 3 scans failed to find anything though my hcg levels rose to just above 1000. My hcg levels returned to normal (under 15) mid January and I conceived again at the beginning of February.

I am desperately wanting to try again but completely petrified at the same time. I thought we'd cracked it this time but obviously not. Just keeping my fingers crossed that this pregnancy resolves itself soon as I still feel pregnant and I'm taking it rather hard!

collie i have an underactive thyroid and my doctors have said that it shouldnt present any problems with ovulation...

my thyroid is really underactive aswell and i havent had any problems with ovulation in the past...

xx

collie it might be worth having an early appointment and mentioning that problems with the thyroid runs in the family, see if they'll do any tests to rule it out while your temping for your next cycle. Am suprised they signed you off wihtout giving you an all clear scan.

collie you are obviously really worried, it's certainly worth going to your gp, even if its just to put your mind at rest. Im sure they could refer you for a scan and some basic bloods without too much trouble. My friend who mc last year said that every time they said no to something she just cried, they soon changed their mind! Might be worth a go!!!

Collie I know nothing about ff or temping sorry, but when you get a +ve opk is it at the 'right' time in your cycle? am I right in thinking that pcos leads lh surges all thru the cycle or no surge at all? When you had your mc did you have any scans? Bcos during every scan I've ever had, during my first pg, the one I had to rule out pco last dec and during my mc they've checked my ovaries, apparently it's routine, so they should have seen cysts then if there are any. I went to the gp after 6 months of tcc and got a scan referral bcos i'd had 2 really heavy, late periods in the autumn. I think that if you go to the gp and explain that you're ttc and you're concerned about your cycles they should listen. Dh went at the same time to have a sperm analysis, again, 6 months of ttc was enough for that (apparently it's cheap so they don't mind!)

olis I'm sorry things still aren't clear for you, I hope that the next few days give you some answers x

mouse how are you?

I know what you all mean about knowing who your friends are, I've really found that out over the last month. Some people have been great, a few others have really disappointed me tbh.

Just thought i would add ladies (car is running outside) i have 2 very very faint pound shop BFP'S too now starting to worry if i am seeing in lines!! anyhow really am away now have a good week see you all Sunday night!

collie Even in a "normal" woman(and I say that with a heavy heart) it is possible to have one or 2 cycles per year which are anovulatory.

When was your mc- I am so sorry I can't remember. I had 2 cycles of 40 days which I suspect were anovulatory before I settled down again. I also have 35 day on average, cycles. Also, I did need 2 temping cycles for a clear pattern to emerge. Finally, I have found Agnus Castus to be brilliant at regulating my cycles, however you should research this yourself as tere is conflicting information out there. Hugs xx

collie like chloe said definately tell them you'd been actively trying for a year. I was warned by my gp that the year would start again. (actually my gp said in our area it was 18 months) See what your gp says.

Nah, leave themm they look pretty

Coming off teh pill doesn't really count unless you dtd regularly which by the sounds of it you didn't, but if you want answers then bending the truth a little wouldn't hurt anyone.

I was concerned that the gp wouldn't put me on Clomid as I was meant to start it then I fell pg, however, once I decided to start TTC again I spoke to the specialist and he didn't question putting me on it. He even said it could be another couple of years before I fall pg again and he wouldn't want to be responsible for keeping me waiting.

collie you don't necessarily have to 'map' any cycles but need to be able to verbally express them. If you do see the gp then I would make it clear that you have been TTC for over a year before your MC (even if you weren't really) as, like you say, you would have thought that somewhere along the line with your lack of pill taking you would have fallen pg anyway. Gps don't tend to take things further until you have been TTC for at least 6mths but it is more like a 1yr. I didn't notice you had +ve OPKs too, so either you did ovulate or it might be something triggering a +ve.