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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

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Collie2 · 04/03/2011 19:40

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of Wine, Brew (caffeine free of course Smile ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread Grin

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

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cep · 09/03/2011 11:32

nope that was blank.

this?

cep · 09/03/2011 11:30

better? if that's worked how do i get the other one off here? don't want everyone on mn to be able to see my fb.

olismum23 · 09/03/2011 11:27

congratulations ninu happy its worked out for you Grin

Hils74 · 09/03/2011 11:20

sorry oli fx next time!

yeay congrats ninu, another WTF'er!

sorry to hear about your dad blackkat, my fil has just got the all clear after his treatment finished at xmas so I know how worried you must be

well... my POAS addiction got me this morning, am supposed to be 5 weeks approx today, but don't know as not had AF yet... CBDigi still said 2-3 weeks, which would fit with 5 weeks, so going to do another one on Fri to see if it goes up to 3+ weeks...

cep · 09/03/2011 11:19

so much for anonimity hey. Grin and ignore the wobbly bits. Hmm have i just given everyone access to everything on my fb?

cep · 09/03/2011 11:17

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cep · 09/03/2011 11:07

ninu yay congratulations honey, so so so pleased for you.

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 11:03

Giving you a break cep

Wednesday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd49
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD30
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD30
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD29
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD28
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD27
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD25
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD23
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD23
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD23
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD22
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd22
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD20
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD16
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD15
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 15
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD9
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD7
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD5
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD5
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Ninunina · 09/03/2011 11:02

2 definite BFP's this morning! Faint but there.

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 11:02

olis that's a shame, maybe your body just isn't quite ready this month, big hugs, hope you are doing something nice to make up for your ruined trip x

mumtum Mexico sounds lovely, im very jealous too...it's 4 years since mine :(

collie I'm glad you're feeling more positive today.

I'm having a well earned cafe break, soft play with a 3 year old is exhausting!

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 10:59

Oh and my last CL was 32 days which I am guessing sounds about right for months that I maybe do ovulate as other times they have been as high as 42 days.

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 10:58

Oh I am sorry olis Sad What a crappy few highs and lows you have had these past few days.

I actually used the underskirt to my wedding dress for fancy dress at NYE's party! Some of my friends were horrifid Grin

Was crampy first thing but then nothing since. Am still quite nauseous but again, just not sure whether it's in my head as it's easy to make yourself feel sick iykwim.

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 10:49

thank you ladies for the wedding wishes, I shouldnt have a bump as the weddings not til next April but its in Mexico so get the right season dress ( for temp not style ) i need to look and order it now ... Thats why i so want to concieve as i only have this or next month and then we have to stop trying till after the wedding so FX crossed for me.... Still no AF but massive drop in my temp yesterday from a usual 37+ to 36.5 and today at 36.6 very odd so no longer helpful and today i have the headache which i usually get day before AF so i think my body is being cruel and i have just had a longer than usual cycle, but as we say its not over til af arrives and she isnt yet .....

blackkat im so sorry too to hear of news on your dad but i firmly agree that your parents had your best intentions in mind and as you say you are now in a stronger place yourself to be able to deal with it,

olis Sorry for the BFN this morning, isnt TCC a cruel game at times...

come on ninu dont keep us in suspense .... I found one yesterday and agree the corset top is defo the most flattering need it for the bust but can pull it right in around my waist, Just seems a shame they all have lovely trains but mine will get all cut off mostly cos i dont want in dragging in the sand but also as they are about 2 foot to long for my height !!!

and chloe there is still time you and i need to hold each others hands i think my ff points yesterday were 55 not input for today so unsure what my temp dip will do to that Confused !!!

mouse How you doing Hun ?

well best get back to some work

Waves out to all i have name checked hope you are all refraining from POAS addictions , ignoring all your phantom symptoms and generally trying to live and breath with out TTC obsessions ! ( i know im not but we can live in hope Grin )

Original poster
Collie2 · 09/03/2011 10:26

olis i am so so so sorry for you. Its cruel to have your hopes raised and then dashed. Truley sorry,

Be kind to yourself today, do something nice.

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olismum23 · 09/03/2011 10:14

Morning ladies bad news here definite BFN'S this morning whatever the shooting pains were yesterday they were not a good thing :( :( :(

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 09:04

Morning all.

Any news ninu?

Any more symptoms Chloe? :( about the bfn.

How are you today collie?

Sorry to hear about your dad blackout. I agree with LILI, they had the best intentions in trying to protect you, I hope his treatment goes well x

Congratulations on all the wedding news yrmotb and mumtum. Heres hoping for wedding day bumps! Wine I was 12 weeks pg when I got married (not a shotgun wedding, we just stopped being careful and caught first time...I naively thought it would be that easy again!) it was great being able to remember everything the next day and not having a hangover but morning sickness on your wedding night kind of puts a dampner on things!

We going to soft play in a bit, hope you all havd nice days x

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Collie2 · 09/03/2011 09:03

mumtum I'm very Envy of your wedding and dress shopping. Mine was almost 5 years ago.... It's seems so long ago. I think it should be compulsary to do it again!! Grin my dress is in the attic, couldn't bring myself to get rid of it. But i am pretty confident I wouldn't get in it. I am also small at 5ft21/2 (very important 1/2) but was super slim back then. Sad

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Collie2 · 09/03/2011 08:58

Ohblackkat I am so so sorry what awful news. You must be do worried. When is DDs operation, is it today? As LILI said though try not to feel guilty, your parents chose not to tell you bcs they care about you and could see you had other grief you needed to get over. You know now and you are clearly there for them and that's what counts. Thinking of you. X

ninu You surely must have poas by now ??? And olis do you have a stronger line to report??

chloe Sad for your bfn but I agree with cep prob still early. All still looking promising.

Had a smidgen of a rise this morning do still not v high, but at least it's still up. Not going allow myself to worry today. Smile

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cep · 09/03/2011 08:32

chloe what is your longest cycle? just wondering if you're still early.

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 08:30

Just a quickie before the school run - still a BFN here Sad my points on ff keep rising though and are currently 55, temps still up so not losing all hope yet. Watch this space.

blackkat so sorry to hear about your dad Sad

cep · 09/03/2011 08:30

morning all.

ninu come on you must have poas by now.

blackkat so sorry about your dad being ill. wishing you and your family all the best of get well wishes.

LILI80 · 09/03/2011 08:27

oh blackat so sorry to hear about your dad Sad. Try not to feel guilty (easier said than done!) your parents obviously really care and understood what you were going through which is why they chose not to say anything,which when I read your post I thought was such a lovely thing to do. They were doing what parents will always do and protecting their child.

The main thing is you're feeling stronger now to deal with it and be there for them Smile for you chick, hope it all goes well xx

hadrian · 08/03/2011 23:12

Oh blackkat sorry to hear about your Dad. What a difficult time for you and your family. It's good that you can be there for your parents. Do you know when the op is? I very much hope that it all goes well

hadrian · 08/03/2011 23:06

Ooh it's all happening! Very exciting olis and ninu...and sounding promising lili. Fx for you all.

yrmotb am I right in thinking you're getting married? If so many, many congratulations, that is wonderful news.

Not much to report here except that we have been following the SMEP religiously and so now begins three weeks of phantom symptom spotting and obsessive POAS behaviour. Oh joy...

Blackkat · 08/03/2011 23:02

Evening everyone, blimey that's one day's worth of post, it's taken me half an hour to catch up.

do hope you're doing ok xx

Collie, YRMOTB is so right it can take a couple of cycles for things to settle, but go talk to the GP sooner than next cycle if you need to, hell that's what they're there for!

Ninu Olis how exciting....faint lines are still lines ladies.

Chloe pleased that they've given you more months on Clomid, I've been told that the accumulation of a few months can help to increase chances...FX!!

Lili FX for your symptoms, Lily sorry your weekend wasn't as lovely as you'd hoped, that's always disappointing Sad

Melies I agree with the other ladies that your work colleague probably doesn't know what to say, still tough though!

cep thanks for keeping us all on the straight and narrow still!

Shorty hope you're feeling better?

miss Invincible welcome, so sorry to read your story, hope we can offer some help here.