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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

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Collie2 · 04/03/2011 19:40

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of Wine, Brew (caffeine free of course Smile ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread Grin

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

OP posts:
Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 13:54

Plucked up the courage to watch OBEM. Hope I can get my fish eyes and bltchy face to go down by school run time, both Sad and Smile at the same time.

mumtum, sorry the bitch arrived Angry That's why I have been testing so much, just to spite it by not letting it show up just after as that is normally the case with me!

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 13:40

wow that was quick from MNHQ glad they got it removed for you cep the plain hoop would litlerally be another ties round the waist thin petticoat so i agree maybe not the best, Ive just booked an appointment at the bridal shop in lakeside for 19th March so fingers crossed i will find something in their ( and there is a shop nearby which sells bravisimo thanks melliesmum id forgotton about them so i will try there to ehilst im there!

How cruel is life just went and spulrged on the clear blue about what 2 hours ago? got the BFN and just been to loo again and very very light spotting on wiping. Typical Sad guess thats me off the Nov bus then ..... so come on all you other lovely ladies i need more good news of BFPs to cheer me up .... ( but lili cep is right wait until at least 13 dpo....)

cep · 09/03/2011 13:32

yay they've done it. they were really quick about it, i found an e-mail (about an hour after they sent it Blush i don't go on very often) and now it's gone. Thankyou mnhq

lili wait till dpo 13 at earliest i'd say. (hypocrisy i know.)

LILI80 · 09/03/2011 13:22

Thanks Ladies - think I might test tomorrow morning when it's at it's strongest just to see

cep · 09/03/2011 13:19

lili thankyou, have put on laods of weight since then though.Sad yes me. i tested at 10dpo and 11dpo -ve then at 13dpo +ve.

mumtum a plain hoop? which would attach/tie round your waist i assume, to me that would be added weight. I can't remember the dress sticking to my legs too badly. certainly not all the time. Might be worth trying dresses on, on a really hot day over here, ask if they can turn of aircon. Don't forget as well you need to take all of this over with you.

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 13:09

LILI my af last time was due on the fri, test on mon (fr) was bfn, test on thurs (also fr) was positive! So there's still plenty of hope, 4 days early is really early.

mumtum both of those dresses were lovely but cant comment on the heat issue...I got married on the Gower! I can recommend a company called rainbow club (www.rainbowclub.co.uk/) for shoes tho - I had some lovely sandals from them, really comfy, almost like posh flip flops, and bravissimo for scaffolding underwear, they do big cup sizes as I used to need before bf knocked the stuffing out of them!

chloe it's not over till af sings!

LILI80 · 09/03/2011 12:43

ninu Congratulations!! So pleased for you Grin

mumtum sorry about BFN. I had my honeymoon in Mexico at the Moon Palace, absolutely loved it!

olis Really sorry about your BFN too.

cep You look lovely in your pic. It's actually really nice to put a face to the name! Smile

Me- Well the tests arrived this morning and I got a BFN Sad. Has anyone on here tested 4 days early, got a BFN and then went on to get a BFP?

I just feel v strange. Keep feeling queasy and tired, in my head I keep thinking I am pg.

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 12:40

Grin I know what you mean mumtum

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 12:35

chloe im a natural g cup so think im being idealistic really ! if they were that size fake and could hold their own i would love it but sadly after DD1 they never did regain their fullness without help of some serious scaffolding Grin

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 12:33

cep it had some under skirts built in but the advisor said to buy a plain hoop to wear under it as that would stop it sticking to my legs but im unsure !

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 12:32

Oooh I love the Iris one but if you are very big boobed do you reckon it might be too busty? I have 36FF boobs and I don't reckon I could keep them under control in it! It's stunning though.

cep · 09/03/2011 12:25

mumtum it's lovely, looks really flattering. Material looks ideal for the heat. The one you tried on did it have any underskirts?? you don't want anything adding weight and heat.

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 12:21

**row 9 third in from left .... Grin

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 12:20

chloe oops its the very light weight chiffon dress with the random cross over at the back and kinda marilyn munroe- esque type affair at the front....

thank you cep just worried it will be too heavy in the heat Confused ... sorry you got the dreaded MS but having said that we love a symptom on here just to keep us sane so kinda [happy] sorry its making you feel bad though ...

cep · 09/03/2011 12:14

mumtum the one you tried on was lovely.

chloe we were at punta cana in the dominican republic. was fantastic and were so pleased cause my parents were able to go as well as two of my best friends.

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 12:11

Mumtum which dress is it on the first link? Lots come up.

cep · 09/03/2011 12:06

mumtum i'm sorry you're feeling depressed today. don't give up yet hon, wait till af first, even then don't give up just get drunk. Smile symptoms - i threw up today...lovely i should be in work but wasn't yesterday as felt rotten and then today threw up and feeling rather dizzy so didn't even take ds to nursery today.

mel thankyou, i hit report and it comes up with a email for you to put why you're reporting it. don't know if they definately will and if so how long it takes though. i didn't realise it would show everything, just thought it would do the piccie.

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 12:04

i was thinking something like this ( cant remember who asked for pic of dress i liked.... but guessing my bust may be too large ... so think the corset type one would be better

lovely dress

and this is the one ive tried with the corset ...

corset ive tried on

laylasmummy09 · 09/03/2011 12:02

just adding my cycle day
sorry about the bfn mumtum
how awful for you olis
sorry to hear about your dd blackkat Sad
congrats ninu hope we will be joining you soon Smile

Wednesday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd49
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD30
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD30
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD29
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD28
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD27
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD25
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD23
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD23
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD23
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD22
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd22
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD20
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD16
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD15
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 15
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD9
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD7
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD5
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD5
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd39

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Chloe55 · 09/03/2011 12:01

It's not your FB we can view it's Martin's Wink Lovely dress though, it looks beautiful where you got married Envy

Hils Glad everything is stills howing well for your dates.

Is it possible to still have implantation bleeding. I would say that for the past 4/5 days I have had streaky blood 1 out of 3 times of wiping. I am so confused. I wonder whether I am just having a bit of an irregular bleed being on Clomid - any of you other Clomid girls experienced this? I just know my AF is round the corner Sad Have my pg friend (the one who announced it to me by showing me the scan pic on night out) on sat and would just loved to not be on AF then as the timing couldn't be worse really.

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 11:57

any symptoms yet that was meant to say!

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 11:57

Congrats ninu!

you look lovely in your photo cep, not sure how you get the link off here tho, can you email mn?

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 11:57

thanks cep i think the temp dip and the headache was really telling me this morning that af is on her way but i was just still hoping you know ? i know ive not got her yet but i really dont feel good for this month ... very depressed today sorry !

i agree i wouldnt want my whole Fb on here either , i like that i can write as honestly as i need to anonymously ! How are things with you and symps yet ?????

hils fx for friday for you

cep · 09/03/2011 11:42

mumtum sorry about the bfn. Sad af still not here yet though is it?? sometimes the hormones can take a while to build up. I redid the pic on 11:32 post, i've asked to remove my first one as don't really like having my fb on view for everyone who logs onto mn. Hmm

MumTumWanted · 09/03/2011 11:36

well ladies i caved, just zipped out to boots got CB digi and rushed to the loo at work ( using my wee which id saved from this morning yuk how gross am i ??? i guess i know myself to well !!!!). Now throughly fed up as was BFN Only 1 month now to try and then will have to focus on excitememnt of wedding, cep thank you for the photo unfortunately im not able to view from facebook at work Sad but i will have a look when i get in tonight it sounds like a very lightweight dress which is exactly what im after!

ninu congrats hun im really pleased for you x

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