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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

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Collie2 · 04/03/2011 19:40

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of Wine, Brew (caffeine free of course Smile ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread Grin

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

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cep · 09/03/2011 18:24

Oooh a carribean cruise. Envy i'm glad it didn't ruin your holiday. not hardfaced everyone has to deal in their own way and at least being on holiday gave you things to do. (plus you could have some cocktails)

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 18:21

Phew! Glad I'm not the only magpie watcher! Altho I don't salute, just hunt franctically if I only see 1!

MissInvincible · 09/03/2011 18:19

really I'm so, so sorry to hear your news, I'm going through my second consecutive PUL at the moment. My hcg levels are lower this time so they are just monitoring (they are hovering very low around 100), the last time they were over 1000. Hope things go alright tomorrow.

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Hils74 · 09/03/2011 18:13

I have to say "Morning My Magpie, how's your wife and family?" while saluting, DP thinks I'm odd :)

cep · 09/03/2011 18:06

oh thank goodness was starting to worry then. i wonder how many different sayings there are.

Blackkat · 09/03/2011 18:01

[need a nutter emoticon]

cep · 09/03/2011 17:54

hands up those who still do the salute and say byebye colonel magpie.

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 17:51

Hi really useful. (great name!) Welcome, sorry you have to be here but there's lots of support on here. I hope it goes well tomorrow x

I'm glad I'm not the only one who does the magpie thing, I'm obsessed, much to my dh's amusement! if I see one I get really worried, but literally minutes after my mc medication worked I saw 2 which made me feel better, mad as that sounds!

cep · 09/03/2011 17:49

meant to say missinvincible are you lurking?? how are you doing hon?

mouse hope you're ok.

cep · 09/03/2011 17:47

really hi, glad your feeling better now(as much as you can be). have another Wine for me will you. good luck for tomorrow, fx they can find it. (i may hate you for wasting a chocolate cake though) Angry Grin

blackkat bloomin heck, was it a fur dress? my cousin got married the day after boxing day in manchester. Grin at the airbrushing.

Blackkat · 09/03/2011 17:42

Oh reallyuseful so sorry for my insenstive Xpost Blush

So sorry to hear your news, Sad and please do join us here. Really do hope that you get some certainty soon. Lots of ((big hugs))

meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 17:42

lily you look lovely, it's nice to be able to put faces to names (just don't ask me to do it bcos I've no idea how to link a fb photo to a post!

blackkat thats bad luck having to walk past epu to see your dad, it must be hard.

Blackkat · 09/03/2011 17:40

lily love the dress!!

So this wedding chittle chat is making me want to get married again, and somewhere sunny, think October in Yorkshire when I got married! My dress is in a bag somehwere and I've never even had it dry cleaned Blush
Will find a picture to post.

Bravissimo are brilliant, totally agree, even for DD me!

Reallyusefulengine · 09/03/2011 17:39

Hello all, I hope you don't mind me joining you. Cep kindly led me here from the November 11 thread. I have just found out that I have a Pregnancy of Unknown location, which is most likely an ectopic and I'm booked in for a laparascopy tomorrow (it would help if I could actually spell that right).

My hcg levels are actually rising well but there's no sign in my uterus (had my 3rd scan of the week today) and I've had an ectopic before my 2 dc. Because they're now over 2000 and there's no sign in the uterus my doctor is very uncomfortable about leaving it untreated. Apparently it's quite an unusual case as I have no symptoms Confused

Could I be here with you girls? Am actually feeling really relieved now I know it's not viable and I'm having a big glass of wine, which I think is a sign of acceptance. I cried all the way to the scan this morning but didn't cry at all afterwards.

The weirdest things have been happening, and I'm not naturally superstitious. My ds and I made a gorgeous chocolate cake yesterday and we had iced it and everything and it fell off the work surface and smashed everywhere. And then today a single magpie was standing right in my path.

Right, now I sound like a crazy old witch. Apologies Smile.

cep · 09/03/2011 17:31

lily gorgeous dress. you look fantastic Grin. did they tell dh to lift you?? they told my dh to lift me (the whole over the threshold look but on the beach) but dh started making stupid groaning noises so ofcourse everyone around was laughing. Blush enjoy your pancakes.

cep · 09/03/2011 17:28

vegas i'm 5+4 today, not too bad, feeling a bit sick today a bit better now, i can eat my dinner without wanting to be too sick. when was/is your trip to america??

blackkat Typical that you have to walk past epu, it always seems to be. Just be kind to yourself ok? make sure you have lots of tlc aswell when you get home.

Thanks. Smile it was a fantastic trip so pleased we were able to have our friends with us. we spoilt ourself rotten had the honeymoon suite which had a jacuzzi on the balcony and a view of the sea, there was a spa there which dh and i spent at least half of our trip there.

lily06 · 09/03/2011 17:23

Afternoon,

Gosh, lots to read today!!

Blackkat So sorry to hear about your Dad. Hope you are ok.

Collie It's me that has the pet shop. No animals to get bitten by though!

MumTum Yup, we're definately twins...I got married in Mexico too, at the Riu Cancun. Which hotel are you going to? The dresses you've been looking at are lovely - it was me that asked for the pics, so thanks. Have you looked at Dessy? They do some nice light chiffon ones, especially for getting married abroad. I can also second the recommendation for Bravissimo, I buy all my bras from there. I'm another that wouldn't get into my dress again now. Pic if you want to have a peep Wedding

Chloe OOOhhhh twins - now that would be a success story indeed. Keeping fx for you this month.

Ninu Exellent news!!!

Cep Yay for the sickness, long may it continue Smile

No news here, still too early to test, no sign of ov (from temps) will wait it out a while yet I think. Pancakes tonight, best go and get on with making tea.

Blackkat · 09/03/2011 17:06

SLOW DOWN!!!!! I can't keep up!!!!

ninu woo hoo!! Grin Grin

lili FX for the poas tomorrow

Chloe Clomid can play rotten tricks on you Sad I was 5 days late on one cycle with spotting def thought it was implantation, but got a BFN. BFP came the next month. I though I was updiffed with twins bcs it happens more with Clomid and also bcs I couldn't keep anything down!!

olis sorry you've had such a let down this morning ((hugs))

cep love the dress, you look amazing and so does the venue Grin

Hi to Collie

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cep · 09/03/2011 16:25

hi vegas so glad you're feeling better. fx af will be here soon.

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meliesmummy · 09/03/2011 16:07

I never got round to putting mine in the attic, it takes up half the wardrobe instead!

cep · 09/03/2011 16:07

nope not me, knowing my luck i'd get bitten by the animals. ah, probably the safest place, mines in it's clothes bag thing in the wardrobe i think it's only cause i'm too big for it now that i don't try it on at least every week. Grin

Collie2 · 09/03/2011 15:53

cep people can just be do rude and mean. But I thought you worked in a pet shop.... Or am I confused with someone else?

Dress in attic in a box. Way to much hassle to get it, it's jam packed up there.

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