Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

collie no i didn't take it that way so no worries.

skitoo it's a bit mental really. in my last pg i had a little bit of pink at around 6+4 went for a scan on 6+5 saw h/b thought everything ok. had another pink on wipe at approx 11 weeks went for scan and it had died at about 7 weeeks, so i have it in my head i don't want a scan before 7 weeks and although i know i ultimately won't make any difference as to whether it succeeds or not, if i scan before 7 wks i'll still worry for that date. i have gp on 21st who i'll beg for a scan due to this pink and a bit of blood i had about 1-2 weeks ago.

blackkat hope you're ok, and your dad is ok too.

Hi everyone, just updating the list, I'm day 9 (sure this time!) sorry ninu, glad there's no sign of af!

Glad you had a good night Cep.

That sounds frustrating skit, good luck with your dr. I'm still spotting but much less than yesterday, if it stops today/tonight I might skip the gp, I can't face being sent back to the epu. In the meantime I'll do an opk this afternoon, the line was visible yesterday, so if it's darker today as I'd expect in a normal cycle I'll assume things are as they should be.

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD32
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD9
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Managed to delete last line of msg-

Waves to Chloe, Blackkat, Shorty, Olis, Jkk and anyone else I've missed.

[hmmm] looks like I didn't send the first list after all. Thought I'd try updating the list for the first time. Please shout if I've muddles up anyones dates.

Opps- it sent before I finished entering the dates...this is harder than I thought.

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD32
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD8
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Morning!

Ninu thats great news, fx for you and hope it's as stress free as it can be

Cep hope you've had a good night with DS and he slept well. Glad you had no more CM, how you doing this morning? Is the 21st the earliest you think they'll scan you? Is that at your EPU?

Welcome Securegal and Minnie, sorry you find yourselves here, you'll get some great support on here, everyone is really friendly and the thread has been pretty lucky so hope it is for you too. Minnie congrats on your engagement - how exciting!

Really sounds like you're having a horribly tough time, glad it wasn't ectopic, hope you're taking it easy and recovering well xx

Collie any more symptoms this morning?

Vegas any sign of AF for you yet? It's so frustrating isn't it, when mentally you really want to get back on with TTC but your body just isn't getting on with it too

Melis I would check with GP just for piece of mind. I shall be harrassing the hospital this week as it'll be 10 weeks since my erpc and I have absolutely no signs any more that af will be here any time soon, it is stressing the hell out of me

I did manage to have (almost) a day of not thinking about it yesterday - DH and I went to London for the day, had lovely lunch, went to the theatre and came home with 2 new pairs of shoes (doesn't matter how much weight I've put on with shoes!)

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday

morning all, Hope you're all ok.

yay ninu ds woke at 5:30 which although i would love a later morning seems to have become a usual time for him to wake. But at least he didn't wake up during the night.

Morning ladies,

No sign of AF this morning, so I think I'll make the brave move of moving to the BFP list :)

Cep hope you've had an uneventful night (with CM & DS). I'm sure you've already googled pink CM, so know that it can me very common and doesn't mean things have gone wrong. I don't blame you for being worried though- I know I would be if I was in the same place.

Thanks for asking how I was, I'm feeling ok, just very tired (much more than last time). I think I got over tired this week, and haven't caught up with my rest yet. Funnily enough, I don't seem to be feeling that sick anymore- maybe my body is getting used to it already.

Minnie welcome to the thread, sorry for your loss, but congrats on your engagement. Mumtum is also planning her wedding, and we all seem to like wedding talk...there are even a few wedding pics if you scroll back to Wednesday's discussions.

hi all, nothing since. but i'll be worried until i get a scan, roll on 21st when i can beg gp to let me have one.

welcome minnie sorry for your loss. and congrats on the engagement.

mel yes go to dr and get some advice. and thanks.

collie thanks, in my head i know they're different but there's a place in there saying i've been here before.

i'm off to bed, still trying to catch up after friday night. night all

olis good luck and lurk away x

Cep glad bedtime went well. Sorry about the pink cm, if it helps I bled on and off for the first 12 weeks with dd. Can you get to the gp for reassurance? I'll be keeping everything crossed for you xxx

collie I hope those symptoms come to something, when can you test?

Hi Minnie, pull up a cushion and get comfy x

Sad news about AandR, she got her bfp just after I joined, hope she's ok. :(

I've decided to definately see the gp on Monday morning, even if he/she just sends me away at least ive tried, I'm sick of not knowing what's going on. I'm off to bed, ive been up since 5, I'm done in!

Hi everyone

Would it be ok if I joined too? You all sound lovely.

I had a mc in nov after ttc no1 for a year. Started trying again in jan but no luck yet. Trying hard not to stress but really don't want to wait another year! (I'm 36 by the way)

Got engaged a week ago and really want to set a date but then think i'll just give it another month- very shallow i know but don't want to be eight months pregnant in my wedding pics!! But do really want to be pregnant! And get married-so confusing

Lots of luck to everybody xxxx

really glad it wasn't an ectopic. when i had my mmc the sac had grown a bit, so if i remember correctly i think i had a little blood then lost the sac then major blood and clots and stuff. But i can't remember if i had blood before the sac or not.

ok just put him to bed, he still said he was scared, but stayed in bed if i stayed in there with him. We stole the light out of dss's room and let him choose if he wanted it on the table or floor. i just stayed till he fell asleep.

oli please do lurk and post if you feel the need to, don't totally disappear.

ok, i'm not feeling too positive today, sorry if a downer, went to loo and had a bit of pink on tissue, checked cm and had bloody cm. went to loo a bit later and had a glob of pink cm. it's about the same time as last pg when i had similar and then went for my first scan, so now thinking isn't going to well.

Hi all
just a quick one to say my DH and I are going to stop TTC for a while. I am going to try very hard to get fit and lose my comfort weight first. Is it ok if i still lurk??

Hi everyone, back from work and very tired, day shifts are hard work!

Cep that sounds like hard going, have you tried posting on a behaviour thread? The things that help dd to settle are a night light and we've told her that monsters are scared of her teddy so it's his job to take care of her at night. I hope it goes well tonight x

really it sounds like you're going through a lot, at least it turned out not to be ectopic though. I don't know about passing it naturally sorry, I had a medically managed one but I'm sure someone else will know, look after yourself over the next few days x

Hi new ladies x

Thanks LILI, more fresh blood this afternoon, I feel like this whole process is never ending! I think I'll go to the gp, I want this to be sorted.

I think I'm going to offer to buy dh and dd dinner, can't be arsed to cook/supervise dh cooking!

Hello all,

Am back from hospital. Had the laparoscopy and they didn't find the pregnancy in the tubes, it turned out to be in the uterus afterall but not growing properly. They didn't remove it as they wanted to scan the next day just in case and I'm now miscarrying and have the start of a pinkish bleed (nice shade, slightly like my bridesmaid's outfits) and achy cramps. My HCG levels have plummeted so am just waiting for it all to start happening properly. Although I don't quite know what to expect. Am uncomfortable from the surgery and the stitches etc and still feel a bit breathless but would like it to happen rapidly if poss. Any advice? Only remembered I had no pads just before bed and had to fashion one out of half a nappy (yes, really.) for night time.

I hope everyone is well and hello to the new people. Can I add my stats too? I will definately be sticking around

welcome securegal sorry you find yourself here, but the ladies on here are fantstic.

ninu how are you feeling hon? i'm hoping it's a very short phase, will see tonight, he had a good night sleep last night and dh has taken him to the park so he should be good and tired. i didn't get much ms with ds only when i wasn't eating, so i just made sure i was eating all the time.

ceo so sorry your ds is having trouble sleeping. I used to be so scared of the dark. Still am sometimes. I hope it's just a phase. Sorry you're feeling sick too. Did you suffer from ms with ds?

Welcome newbies, there seem to be a lot of you this week. I'm sorry you're here, but it will provide you with a lot of support, plus it's a lucky thread, so you've come to the right place.

Securegal - Welcome and very sorry you're here. I just joined a couple of days ago and everyone has been very kind. Impressed you've worked out all the acronyms already; there are still a few that mystify me ....

Hi all,

Can I join you ladies please? I was diagnosed with a MMC on 2 March at 9 weeks and had ERPC on 3 March. I am slowly getting myself back on track and, although we are going to wait for my first af before thinking about trying, I thought it would be nice to join you all here!

MMC#1 2/3, ERPC 3/3, WTTC, WFC(!), UCL 28 days

Hoping for lots of luck for you all!

SGxxx

i spoke to her yesterday about helping him sleep through the night, cause at that time i wasn't expecting him to be like he was last night. i'm hoping that he was that bad cause he was so tired. will see tonight. Am thinking of trying to find another lighting system so that the shadows don't fall that way. maybe having little play in his room, It's weird he seems to have no problem being in his room just trying to sleep in the bed. bed is opposite the dresser so obviously when he opens his eyes he can see the gap straight away. Am changing things anyway such as the stories we read before bed and things like that so hopefully it'll be a passing phase.

how are you vegas ?