Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

Hello everyone, hope you are well. Hope everything is o.k cep, its such a worrying time. Still no af for me coming up for 8 weeks now, think i'm going to get my self back to the doctors next week, not sure what they can do though. X

i spoke too soon earlier, a bit more pink and a little bit of red. it's after doing a no2 (sorry tmi) so not sure if i should be worried or not. Still plnning to wait till dr's to ask for scan, even if i get one now it couldn't stop anything (if anything was going to happen.)

melis Good luck for the docs melis you're doing the right thing by getting it checked out.

collie AF hasn't arrived yet but do not feel pg at all! and a another test yesterday revealed a BFN. Am beginning to wonder if maybe I should be counting from that second bleed I had in which case I would only be on cd24. FX for you chick really hoping this is the month for you.

cep Sorry to hear about the pink mucus but I remember getting that with my DD and everything turned out ok. I'll be keeping my fx that everything will be ok but I'm sure it will be.

Hello to all the new ladies that have join us

Hello everyone

Cep so pleased that you are ok, was worried when I read your first post, but relieved to read the second.

Ninu brave you, moving up a list!! Congratulations. I like your thinking of list idea.

Hello to minnie from other thread and welcome to noodle sorry you need to be here, but glad you found us!

Chloe Ifat sorry to hear AF has got you. Chloe I can imagine how scared you must feel about leaving home, I am terrified of "leaking" at work, my boss has white sofas in his office.

Arti lovely to hear from you, glad the first results were good.

Olis you must stay to lurk please do!

Collie impressed by your DIY and by your determination not to POAS.

Mel not sure I can help but sure that Dr Google is not the way forward either sorry not to be any more help.

Shorty hope you're feeling better?

harassed how are you?

to brooke, hadrian banana, lily, really, skitoo and everyone else I've not namechecked, sorry!!

Hi noodle, glad you found your way here.

Cep at our surgery you have to phone at 8:20 (getting thru is always fun) and you get an appointment for that day. It's stopped now, it looked exactly like what I had when I was pg with dd. Altho that was never after dtd. What about you? Any new blood in your cm?

Fish at the ready for collie!

evening all,

arti ofcourse you can lurk and post as you want, am so glad to see your doing well. I think dark days are completely normal at any stage afterwards as always feel free to rant on here if you need to.

ifat sorry af arrived. good luck for ttc.

skitoo it's funny what dtes we get into our head isn't it.

mel calm sweet. have you booked an appointment at the dr yet (or was that only yesterday we discussed thta?) It could just be that blood from recent bleeding had just pooled at cervix and got disturbed while dtd. Speak to dr at appointment.

noodle welcome, am sorry for your loses. is a fab place here, feel free to rant and rage as you need to.

Hello ladies,

This thread is moving fast!!

Welcome to everyone new :) and sorry for your losses...

Hello everyone [waves] hope youve all had a good weekend :)

we need to make this thread lucky and get lots of BFPS soon!

Hi Im noodle. I had a miscarriage and then went on to have a daughter. I then had another miscarriage last May. Starting TTC from now so hello everyone

arti glad your recovery is going well x

I'm having a bit of a freak out (tmi alert). I hadnt had any spotting since this morning so was getting round to the idea that everythings fine then whilst dd was asleep we had some unplanned sff which was nice till I started bleeding fresh blood! Now that's never happened to me after sex before, I made the mistake of googling and lots of horrid stuff came up. My rational side says that I've prob got trauma from the scans and exams up there, or it's the cervical erosion I had during my first pg come back to haunt me but I'm scared ive either got some permanent cervical damage (the exam I had in hospital was just awful!) or it's going to carry on and we'll be told not to dtd for weeks and I'll never get pg again! Arrrrr!

AF got me this morning :( so much for being extra fertile after a M/C Oh well, roll on the next week when we can start SWI again

Cep know exactly what you mean about the date for scan. If I'm lucky enough to get there I have a 7 week thing too - I had a scan at 6+4 on xmas eve where they told me they couldn't confirm whether it was viable or not, I then had to wait 10 days for another scan for them to confirm it wasn't, the sh*ttest xmas ever! I really don't want to have to go through that again so would prefer not to have one before 7 weeks.

Chloe sorry af got you, hope the clomid isn't too bad this cycle.

I think the "thinking of" list is a nice idea too x

Tokyo sorry to hear WTF is messing you around, hope she arrives soon or better still if you are ttc then not at all. Think I've had 3 nights of cramps etc in the last 5 weeks where I expected to wake up to it but didn't .

Sounds like a good plan Olis, would love to do that myself but don't have time on my side, aarrrggghhh!

Just popping back from molar pg land to say hello - I still lurk on here and I suppose technically I am waiting to TTC so hope that's okay!

Congrats to the BFPs! And hope everyone else is okay. I have had my first results back and they were good so hoping that next week's are back to normal and then I will only have to be monitored until July. AF has also returned which is a good sign. Am also trying to get fit (waves to olis!) and have signed up for a 10k (I never run!) to support research into molars. Also planning lots of holidays. Still have some dark days, as I'm sure you all do too - when other people announce their pregnancies etc. and I have 'not fair, why me?' days. All very similar to post-mc feelings really.

I could never keep up with this thread very well at the best of times but do sneak on to see how everyone is doing so hope it's okay to pop up now and again. And hopefully I will be SMEGing and POASing with the best of you before long.

chloe sorry to hear af here. i may get you to come paint his bedroom, i do plain paint and even then dh finds something wrong with it.

tokyo good to see you. sorry your wtf cycle is living up to it's name.

when i moved ladybee i just said sorry to hear about the loss as we thought that is what you would want, hope you don't mind and hope you're ok and then put her on the wttc list. It is difficult knowing what to do though cause either way you don't want to upset them.

Thanks for asking chloe and thanks everyone for letting me lurk! even though i wont be Smeging of ov sticks or any of that i will still be DTD so i suppose you can never not fully be trying.

My AF has not turned up but i am sure i am not pregnant i feel like its coming but i understand it might take a while this cycle.

As for getting fit i have rejoined the Gym and I am going to start doing CaniX with my dogs just for fun i never stick to diets so i am basically going to avoid chocolate and crisps!

I am sorry to hear of people m/c after getting BFP :(

I think it's a lovely idea to have a 'thinking of' list. Good plan ninu

Chloe sorry to hear af got you x

No problem ninu, I did my first list on Friday and messed it up!

Hi Tokyo, this whole first af thing is a pain in the bum isn't it?!

Just updating:

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD9
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Bit about being put back down there but also pleased that at least I am not randomly spotting anymore, however, am producing my usual horrendous blood clots again and making a mess of my clothes regularly It just totally f*cks up my social life as it makes me scared to leave the house for fear of an accident! Have had my Clomid this morning too - I know it's best to take it at night but I feared with all the spotting etc then this might not be my true second day so didn't want to leave it any longer.

Welcome to the new ladies who have joined over the past few days, I hope your days here are short in the nicest possible way.

Cep Re your spotting - it must be very scary for you but you know yourself that it can also be very normal so try and look at it positively (although much easier said than done) As far as your ds goes - my ds went through a very similar phase at that age. He always has a night light but shadows and anything ((even the man who was in his room ) was scaring him, I have no idea who said man was to this day??!! Anyway, just an idea but could you decorate it differently or let him stick his own artwork or something on the wall that seems to be causing the problem? Ds recently went through the being scared phase again but since I have redecorated his room we have had absolutely no more scared episodes.

Olismum Of course you can still lurk! Have you decided how you will go about getting fit? Do you have a plan?

Tokyo My AF has been totally different since my last MC so perhaps you may get AF soon but you might cramp for a little longer before it comes than you were used to?

Collie I will be keeping my fingers crossed that you will be one of the lucky ones this month! Enjoy the DIY.

Vegas It is very frustrating waiting for your body to get back to normal, I hope your body starts to regulate itself properly soon, that goes for all you ladies waiting for AF to show up since your MCs.

Ninu Nice to see you taking that extra scary step onto the BFP list!

Hello to everyone else who I haven't named or who is lurking.

So for messing up your dates meliesmum. Can everyone else check to make sure I didn't mess up anyone elses?

Collie perhepas we could put them down as "thinking of.."? or put them back on the WTTC list. I wouldn't put A&R down yet since nothing's been confirmed, and I'm hoping she'll be ok.

I knew someone who was sure she had a m/c and when she went for her scan, it turned out that she was pg with triplets, and had lost one, but the other two were ok...so you never know.

Hmmm, I am convinced something is happening. Have no idea what though? This WTF stage is not called that for nothing. Almost 6 wks since MC.

I woke up with such cramps this morning I was convinced my period had started. It hasn't and a left over OPK read negative, so no sign of ovulating yet.

Cramps are still here and def feel like period pains. WTF is going on?

And why, when we never told dd we were pregnant has she suddenly started asking where the baby has gone. It doesn't bother me but I do find it very strange and a bit nice (if that doesn't make me seem weird).

Oh and hello everyone. Apologies for jumping straight in to me me me. I hope everyone is well and hello to all the new ladies. Sorry to see you here, but this is a lovely thread.