Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

Mumtum, i did enjoy it, thank you. In a daze for a lot of it but great not to have to cook and clean. DH was great and let me rest loads.

Cep, thank you so much for sending me that link - it's brilliant. Absolutely answered all my questions.

Is it too early to add me to the stats list? Do I have to wait for my 1st cycle? Am being very dim, apologies in advance xxx

new thread

here you go, lets hope its lucky!

hey ladies Ive just been lurking so sorry for the lack of posts ive no hope of name checking everyone so hope that you are all doing ok ?

Congrats to all those who have had BFPs since i was last on, Ive just entered the boring bit .... 3DPO ...... Has the new thread been set up yet ? Wouldnt want to be left behind ladies ....

sorry to hear of your mc really did you still manage to appreciate some of your holiday ?

thanks in advance melies for doing the new thread

Chloe Nice to know I'm not alone in my reaction. I think I'll try to stop again erm, maybe next weekend..? Not sure, or do what you're doing and just have a few.

Cep Hello! How are you doing? Thank you for the links, am about to read through them. I do actually like my hair, it has grown on me (ha ha) over the last week. And oh good god, it takes half the time to wash etc. Am just thinking I shouldn't have chopped 8 inches off without thinking about it first - a total impulse, on the high street, next thing I was sitting in the chair shouting 'cut it off!'.

Go for it melies

I'll start the new thread then, it means I don't have to worry about it tomorrow when I'm tired, plus I've got a few mins whilst dd is occupied in the garden with dh, just give me time to get the laptop on!

mel we've taken them out now, will see tonight if makes any difference. i'm exhausted in everyway i can think of. It's up to you, i can't imagine them doing 70 posts tonight though.

really if you haven't already seen them have a read of the links below. Do you like your shorter hair??

www.pregnancyloss.info/trying_again.htm

www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm

really I was reading your post with a face but have finished it with a I started smoking again the day I found out about the MC and did smoke heavily (and drink) for a good few weeks then stopped. Then started....then stopped...then started, I am crap Am prob having about 10 a week at the moment which is a great improvement for me but considering I have stopped caffeine, cut down the wine, taking supplements etc etc you'd have thought I could cut out the cigs completely! I am kinda feeling like it is my only sneaky vice at the moment though and those few I have with a glass of wine just about keep me sane I am very good at stopping completely when pg though, I find it much easier to consider the life inside me than my own

melies your cycle is sounding so similar to mine last month, I hope it ends a bit more successfully for you though.

collie How has today gone? Did your nan get a good send off? Don't get me wrong I hate hate hate funerals but one good thing I find about them is the opportunity to see friends and family you rarely see and having a good catch up, I find it therapeutic. Hope you are ok.

Hello magpie watchers,

I hope everyone is well, I have been thinking of you. I have been away, so am trying to catch up on the last 2 weeks of messages. I miscarried on holiday which obviously made bikini wearing out of the question, and had to spend an inordinate amount of time running to the bathroom. Luckily no lone magpies jumping into my path. So, have now been bleeding for 2 weeks, had one day when it all seemed to happen so am pretty sure it is complete... just pretty light bleeding now. No idea what to expect next.. when I'll get AF or can try again etc. I stupidly started smoking again on hols so will need to knock that on the head again if I want to start trying. Which on one hand I do, so much but on the other hand am too scared and would rather smoke and drink ALOT of wine. I also cut all my hair off. I am glad I am having such a mature reaction! Luckily I don't live near a tattooist. .

Shall I start the new thread before I leave for work? I'll need to use the laptop. I wouldn't want you all to run out of chat room!

Cep I take it ds still isn't sleeping then? Sounds exhausting! Did you take the drawers out?

How did it go collie?

Hi Vegas, good luck with swi!

Well, I'm still none the wiser. I'm still having blood stained/brown cm on wiping but nothing on a sanitary towel. I'm still obsessively knicker checking! I'm meant to be napping but can't sleep.

Afternoon All,

I didn't come back on last night as tried to get an early night. I hope you're all ok.

collie i hope today has gone as well as it can do honey, am thinking of you.

mel i hope you're ok and not worrying too much today.

hihp i hope you're ok today.

tokyo glad dd is getting better.

well i got about 30 mins sleep between 01:30 and 6:30. i am a walking mush.

Friday's List

BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD43
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD32
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD31
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 27
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD25
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD23
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD21
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD21
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD16
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd15
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD14
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd13
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 cd12
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD10
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 cd6
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD6
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 cd2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31,

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Love and strength to get through today collie

collie Big hugs for today and I hope you feel a sense of peace amongst all the heartache today.

Just a quick one, dh is sorting dd out so I can have a lie in, I've been awake since 5 and working tonight so need a rest. I just wanted to say to collie that I'll be thinking of you today, I hope that it all goes well and that you are able to say goodbye x

Hi to everyone else

Hope it's all ok at home blackkat

Hi all

mel hope you're feeling a bit more cheery now- i know how you feel though all everyone seems to talk about at work is babies at the moment, and my friend is due in a couple of weeks. Plus a friend's sister is due on my due date with twins which were 'an accident!' All she seems to do is moan about it from what I can tell. I know it must be hard work but I'd love to be able to moan about that!

Just seen I'm added to the list but I don't know how to update my CD etc.

Thanks for adding me in though cep (I think).
I'm ttc 1 UCL 28 and CD 11. I'll add it if a kind lady tells me how!

Got peak day on the monitor this morning so DP had a nice wake up surprise!- had to do my mascara laid on my back afterwards mind you. Not as easy as you'd think! Don't know whether we should dtd again later to be sure. Any thoughts?

Really really hoping this is a lucky month xx

Hi Melies, she is still coughing like a heavy smoker at night but otherwise seems much better. I think she's on the mend. Fingers crossed it'll last this time.

Hi Tokyo how's your dd?

Oh collie, of course you are sad, I hope that tomorrow gives you some peace. As for the lack of cramps, I don't remember having any with dd but I did during my last pg (which were weeks earlier than my mc and nothing at all to do with it given that my body held onto the baby for 3 weeks after the heart stopped) so every pg is different so please try not to worry x

I'm fairly sure this spotting is from my cervix, it's too thin and mucousy to be af. So I'm trying my best not to worry too but I can't help wondering if everything will ever get back to normal, I convince myself af is about to get me and feel sad but sort of expect it. Then I have nothing for a few hours and think maybe not, and get round to thinking maybe it's a pg sign only to have a bit more and the circle starts again!!! I'm neurotic I know!

Hi Brooke, sounds exhausting but hope it's worked for you!

Hi everyone,

I've just got home after a wonderful week with family. It's been wonderful being looked after by my Mum and then coming home to the lovely sunshine. And today my AF finally came. Well I think it is anyway. It's very very light but it can't be anything else as its over 5 weeks since I had any bleeding from the MC.

I'm off to catch up with the thread. But Yay AF (hopefully).

chloe sorry also meant to say, yay on the job, it does sound tiring, i'm sure you'll do great.