Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

Friday's List

Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD34
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 30
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD29
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD28
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD26
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD26
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 6 UCL33 CD25
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD21
wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD20
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 CD19
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) UCL28 CD16
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD12
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD11
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD11
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD10
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD9
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD7
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD4?
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd3
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd3
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD4

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
Ninunina WTTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF UCL 28-35 days
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 WTF cycle
babypops
meliesmummy wtf
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011

chloe enjoy your pamper day, sounds lovely and much needed.

banana welcome, sorry for your losses. Everyone here is lovely so feel free to rant away and ask anything x

Congratulations AandR ! You are the first bfp since I joined, it's lovely to see that it does happen!

Can you update my stats please? I'm ttc no 2 after a mc this month, thank you

Hi all, work didn't last long i just burst into tears and they sent me home.

lily collie am waiting for dr to call me back. It's called Bacterial Vaginosis, it's basically an overgrowth of various bacteria down there. I will hasten to say NOTHING to do with cleanliness. In fact over washing it can make it more likely to develop and apparently it's really common. (can you tell i'm slightly embarrassed by it.) I just can't believe she didn't think it through knowing we're ttc. Either she wasn't aware of it, or was just too rushed (being 45 mins late) to connect it in her head.

banana welcome and i'm so sorry for your losses. do you want to be added to the stats list?? If so do you know what yours are?

chloe ooh lucky you have a fantastic day.

backkat OMG what a tosser!!! You really sound like you handled it well and held your own!

AandR that's FANTASTIC news.... Glad to hear SMEP worked!!! How's the experiment looking so far? Good luck, hope it sticks too.

CEO I'm so sorry your feeling low, it's always nice to pop on and have some of your positivity rub off. What did the GP say you had? I'm sorry I don't know much about AB and pg.... Will google, but if there's something you want be persistant Or maybe see another gp?

Welcome to the madhouse, Banana. Sorry for your losses. The ladies here are lovely, and very supportive.

Can I join? AF just finished so officially TTC after 2 recent miscarriages.

Brilliant news, congrats A&R x

Blackkat I'm sorry you had to deal with that yesterday, hope he feels suitably ashamed of himself and gets what he deserves.

Tokyo what rotten luck, hope you and DD are both ok.

Chloe how was the dentist? I hate going, haven't been for about 2 years now.....

Nina good luck, glad you feel ready. I had never done any temping before, but FF makes it quite easy and I'm finding it interesting. Might be worth a go. No idea about OPK, never used them.

Hills well done on the cutting down, wish I could say the same!

Maybe sorry it was a BFN, but as Cep says, give it a few days and you never know >

Collie how are you managing with all the supplements?

Congrats AandR, so pleased for you

Sorry you're feeling low today cep, and you are totally right about leaving it! HPK should come with a warning (owing to how addictive they are )

Big congrats AandR

Cep you poor thing. If its what I think you mean, then go back and see your GP again. I've just done a bit of reading and there are safe antibiotics to take while you are pregnant (or TTC) that do cure it. They tested me as routine after my MC and luckily it came back clear, but I remembered them talking about antibiotic choice. If I'm on the wrong track entirely just ignore me Hope you are feeling ok.

Congratulations AR

AR Whhooooop! Just knew it

hooray aandr that's fanastic news congratulations.

Morning all,

maybe what happened to leaving it a few days??? don't forget it could still be a bit early. i'm not trying to get your hopes up but i'd leave it till cd 28 or 29 (if af doesn't start)

tokyo poor dd, been through the mill lately, hope she's better soon.

ninu sorry i don't know about the wtf cycle as dh insisted on waiting.

I'm feeling a bit low today, not to sure i've lost all the positivity i had the other day. My dr told me she reckons i've got something, which when i read the bumf she gave me stated that can cause problems in pregnancy and can cause miscarriage. (online it said it could cause infertility, bloody dr google) She knows we're ttc, and said she didn't want to give antibi's because i'm in my 2 ww. But when i read the info it said pregnant women should be put on antibiotics, so now i'm anxious that this could have caused the mc. and if the dr won't give antibi's it could do it again (if i ever get pg again anyway.)

it is a BFP - feeling all rather nervous about it!! Hope it sticks

POAS UPDATE: BFN, but then I knew it would be

Well done Blackat, sorry you had such a tough day. He does sound like a total idiot and a bit of a coward. He should just have admitted he was an arse and done some major grovelling.

I've had to stay home today as dd has (whispers) the wrigglies (first time ever). Apart from being totally grossed out, I'm coping quite well. That is after scrubbing every where and buying copious amounts of antibac handwash. The poor thing has only just got over a nasty virus that left her with sores in her mouth.

Seriously I am going to have words with the big guy up there if anything else goes wrong.

oh my god blackkat he really is a FW !! but well done you for the way you handled it very proud

ninunina sorry no idea on the actualy cycles et when you are at the WTF stage but hopefully SWI every other day will get you there in the end

back to surruptious posting cos OH in the room so will be bobbin in and out tonight possibly only lurking !

have a good evening ladies

Evening ladies

Blackkat Well done in confronting the FW. Sounds like he'll always be a FW no matter waht you tell him, but I think you've dealt with it in an admirable way.

AandR Any news?

Right...I've decided, I'm not going to wait for my first AF. I feel like my body has recovered, and I'm doing well emotionally. Now all I need to do is figure out my cycle. I read that OPK are useless in the first month- is this true? I've never bothered with temping and checking CM before- does anyone know if this is effective on your first cycle (I think I remember reading that this could be all over the place too).

In the past I just downloaded a fertililty ap onto my phone to keep track of AF and it seemed to work (except for once when I had a long cycle). Maybe I should just SWI every two days to make sure :)

well done blackcat I don't know what I would have done. Work has been better the last few days, just can't wait for the weekend!

I've tried to cut down on the and , not sure if it'll help or not.

Have been SWI every other day since Fri so not sure if I'll have a 2ww or just test in a month or so...

lili you may only get ewcm for 1-5 days. a sign it's coming is for it to go creamy and then watery. Have a look at the links below regarding cm haven't read the first as just found it.

just found this

helpful i found

blackkat Well done on challenging the dick head! You should be proud of yourself I think you dealt with that brilliantly!

collie v.impressed at the whole cutting down & and going to the gym! Can you come round and confiscate my !

I am now on cm watch! . Although I'm supposed to be doing the smeg i'm not temping or doing the ov sticks, so I've decided to look out for the ewcm.

I have to say it seems to be fairly 'dry' on the cm front (sorry tmi!)so just going to go with dtd every other day for now!

oh blackkat hon. i'm so sorry the guy was such a tosser. Agree that's bollocks, being told someone had an mc is not something you'd then go on and tell everyone else. hope your boss does something, because if fw was told confidential then he has every right to do something.