Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

HELP what do I do??!! Still in shock, got a +ve on poas this morning!! Immediate response was panic, shit scared I'll have another MC in a week or so (as that is what happened last time). DP on a stag do all week so is going to try to call me later.

It will be 4 weeks since MC on Weds and 3 weeks since stopped bleeding. Don't think I OV'd as didn't have any EWCM bcos I'm on my WTF cycle.

Trying not to get excited as it could be a false +ve, going to do another test at the end of the week to double check. Fx and touching wood everywhere!! :)

Glad your appointment went ok mel.

Hi to blackkat, cep, ninu, chloe and collie, sorry not to mention everyone but doing this at work.

Is there a panic button emoticon??!!

MONDAYS LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD30
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD22
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD21
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD21
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD20
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD19
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD18
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD14
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD14
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd14
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd13
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD10
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD7
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD6
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD2
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl? cd?
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 WTF cycle
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Just updating, RTD got me

MONDAYS LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD30
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD22
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD21
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD21
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD20
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD19
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD18
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD14
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD14
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd14
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd13
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD10
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD7
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD6 Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD2
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl? cd?
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 WTF cycle
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Just updating, RTD got me

Hi ladies hope you all had a good weekend!

Thanks for the link CeP DTD Sat was too tired yesterday but will do today! I have another strange one today tons of Creamy white thick CM whats that all about any ideas??

*Ninu me and you are in the same time frame and my symtoms are very similar so i would not worry.

Congrats on being discharged Mel

to all i have not mentioned hope Monday is treating you well!

Yay for being discharged mel. Now you can get TTC again..loads os sticky vibes coming your way!! And yes, its normal to have a fair amount of brown CM after mc.

Have SWI'd Thurs, Fri, and Sat am. DD has come in with us the past 2 nights so nothing since, but will jump DH tonight after shes gone to bed. Had more EWCM Sat and Sun, and this morning so hope I've covered it.

Waves to all!

I am discharged from epu, all seems to be as it should. The nurse was very nice and says we can start trying again whenever we want, so I'll be jumping back on the horse so to speak! It does mean I've got to go back to work tonight tho.

just a quick msg to say good luck mel i hope your day gets easier x

Morning all. I am BORED of waiting in this godforsaken epu, I feel sick and nervous which must just be my natural state here, it's my 5th visit (3 with dd) and even tho im not sitting here wondering if there'll be a hb I just must be wired to feel like this here.

I've got a cm question too (look away now if squeamish!) is it normal to have the same consistency cm as after af after a mc but brown not clear? Did any of you have this?

Hope you are all having a nicer morning than me!

lili if you're dtd every other day anyway i wouldn't worry too much about the opks. oh hon you haven't abandoned your baby, abandoning has a level of choice and you didn't choose for this to happen. I think necklace or charm bracelet or something sounds like a lovely idea. I was given a scan pic at the first scan, but then it disappeared, no idea where it went, it vanished a few weeks before the bad news scan.

If you do go for the preseed a warning, a little goes a very long way. It says "most women" use up to the 3rd line on syringe so i tried that and dh said he had no sensation it was just too wet. (sorry tmi) and that was with putting it in about 20 mins before dtd.

i only felt sick with ds when i wasn't eating, i was never actually sick. i didn't get sore boobs then (haven't now either) was very tired and had a lot of trapped wind for the first couple of months. but that was about it.

melis sorry I knew there was someone else who had given me info on opks! Thanks for your info too

melis good luck for today. Let us know how you get on.

cep ninu collie Thanks for info on opks. I took another yesterday and it was neg. Think I'll just use these ones up and then decide whether to buy any more.

cep glad you're doing ok. Did you get any morning sickness with your ds?

collie Your necklace sounds lovely. I'm now thinking of doing the same thing as I didn't get a scan pic or anything of my baby Sometimes I feel like I've just abandoned it.

I'm still smegging - well sort of! Probably not sticking fully to it as I'm kind of going for doing it every other day anyway! I'm not temping yet but if nothing has happened in a couple of months then I will be!

Re: your question about cm, I don't know what's going on with mine either!! I had lots of watery stuff on Thursday and a bit Friday and then it went to creamy stuff! Thinking it might be worth getting some of that pre-seed as cep suggested!

Hope everyone else is ok?

morning all,

ninu sorry had forgottn you'd already had a scan. no if you'd already had the all clear you wouldn't need another one so that's good. fx then for concieving it has been known to happen on the wtf cycle. especially if you've been dtd regularly.

can also be a sign of oving so carry on dtd regularly.

collie nice to see you glad you had a quiet weekend, the necklace sounds lovely i'm glad you managed to find something that you liked. I think with the way the weather has been it's makes sense to not try again at the moment. Aandr was keeping the stats for the smwegging project i don't know who's left on the list.

Don't feel guilty for moving on, you need to, you're going to forget. i'm glad that you're starting to feel better, i'd stopped counting how many weeks i would have been. I remember the due date (which is 1 week after dss b-day) it's also a week before everything at work changes (remember being so relieved that i wasn't going to be there for it)

do you use 2 fingers to check your mucus? i was struggling this last month to find any started using 2 fingers and there it was. If it has started to dry up, pre-seed is really good. it also has a good record of helping people get pg, cause it's like the best cm you can get and helps the little fellas last longer.

don't blame you about the juice, as i said i only drank it till i ov'd.

I say strangely bcs i'd have been 20 weeks on sat

On another note, where has all my mucus gone??? Had loads earlier in month, but gone a bit dry and not v sticky which is upsetting as ov due weds. Still drinking my grapefruit juice every day and taking EPO? Any clues anyone??? Still a bit shit at checking it though.

blackkat really glad the service went well on Friday. It sounds terribly sad yet also comforting I think. So sad to read about that man all alone. I thought about him lots yesterday and felt for him and his OH. Really thoughtful of your dh to book a hotel, I bet that was a nice thing to have after an emotional day.

Cep so glad you have had a boring day, but sorry you've had a bit of blood. I am sure it's only implantation bleed or something though. Fx

Goodluck swi bananna

mouse sorry to hear your hcg levels are still high.... Although I have to confess I don't know much about hcg levels, never had mine done, or of did was never told. How high is 286? Good luck for thursday. I hope it's nothing serious and it's just your body taking time to readjust.

cep ninu not at all convinced by the pom juice link..... but still bought some I'll try anyting!! Got brazil nuts too!!

LILI yes keep poas every day till you get a +ive. They worked for me pre mc. I poas in the morning but you are supposed to do it mid day after not drinking or peeing for 4 hours so I've got lots of cheapies now and am poas twice a day- am and pm. Think I paid about £5/6 for 40 or so off eBay. Are you charting your temp too? Here's a link to my ff chart if you want to take a look. I'm still waiting to ov so don't know how helpful it is yet, but anything is worth a go.

melies the research project your doing sounds interesting.
Good look for your apt tomorrow.

I'm ok. Still waiting to ovulate. God i sound like a broken record!!!! Sticking to the SMEG plan though so am hopeful. Am I the only one left on the first cycle of the SMEG test???

No real news, had a blissfully quiet weekend. Although was out cleaning the windows on Saturday morning and had to abandon everything and run inside when pg (same dates as me) friend/neighbour pulled up. Must have looked like a nutter! But then again I am.
Went out to buy a necklace in memory of the baby we lost on Saturday too. Got a lovely handmade one with silver pebble with little heart cut out. Will never take it off now. Feels nice to have something close. Have also decided not to try again with the latern , for those that can remember the fiasco. Even though it didn't really go very well, now that I'm less emotional about it I do feel like it still allowed me to say goodbye, even if it wasn't in the way I had imagined.
Feeling strangely 'together' this weekend. Starting to feel like my old self, which I am obviously so glad about, although I also can't help but feel guilty... That I am moving on and life is resuming. Does anyone else feel the same? I know it's silly.

Anyway, i need my beauty sleep so I'm off. Sorry it's a mamouth post again!!!

Hello to everyone I've missed. Still no mumtum I hope, if your lurking, that your ok xx

I've taken a HPT and it's come up -ve (it was an internet cheapy though). Was told I don't need to go back for a scan, since it was a complete mc with first scan. I'm pretty sure everything is clear...who knows, maybe its a sign that I've just conceived? I did feel something similar when I conceived (wishful thinking!!!)

Hi ladies

My WTF post erpc was 9 weeks - I think I hold the record! I had no infection or anything it just took a really long time. I still had a faint positive about 5 weeks after too but was in a daze still so didn't think about getting it checked out. I hope this helps!

I think i had allsorts during my wtf cycle. (wierdly seems an eon ago) anything that shows your cycles are going back to normal is good. Have you been back for a scan to mke sure everything is as it should be??

mouse you do right to be persistant!

cep, I'm 4 weeks 3 days since emergency ERPC (natural incomplete) and 3wks since stopping bleeding, so not unusual for a WTF, I don't think.

cep I'm hoping all your days will be worry free like today.

It's been 3 weeks since my mc, and 2 weeks since I stopped bleeding. Did you experience something similar?

Good luck for tomorrow mel are you just going back for a check up?

I even asked the doc if I should take a pg test after my erpc and was told no! I'm pleased I'm obsessed persistant.

Thank you for the good wishes blackkat you're right about wed and thurs

hi everyone, not too bad today no blood. odd aches and pains but nothing really worrying today. taking it one day at a time.

ninu and blackkat remind me how many weeks has it been now? is it about the 5-6 weeks?

mel it's not nice going back, but it's better to know that everything is ok again, it bring an odd feeling of relief.

thanks for the good luck messages. I'm dreading going back to the epu and back into that scanning room, but im eager to know whats going on in there so I suppose I'll have to endure it! I'll just have to remember it as the room where I saw my dd for the first time (I bled loads that pg) not the room where I had the bad news this time.

ninu blackout I hope your cycles get back to normal soon, Chloe i hope you had a lovely weekend away and cep hope now this weekends over you feel more pg and that your little spots have stopped x

XPost sorry Ninu - I've got funny ov pains and some weird like pre mc - pre AF goo, so hoping that's what it is. WTF is rubbish isn't it!

mel good luck tomorrow

cep hoping all still ok?

chloe hope you had a lovely weekend away?

collie you ok?

Good luck tomorrow Mel

Mouse hope you didn't actually end up killing your husband.

cep any more goo today?

Been getting some funny cramps today, started on my left hand side, must be ovulation pain ( I always get pain on my right ovary, but not always my left), but now its feelign more like heavy pains all over, a bit like AF. I guess it has something to do with the WTF cycle.