Feck off with your babydust - The hut of gl/doom, home of inadequate reproduction

Oooh, this thread is just what I need!

I've been putting on a positive face but really I'm gutted about everything.

I had a M/C about 5 weeks ago, I would have been 12 weeks on Christmas day, which is when were hoping to have had a scan and be able to announce to everyone

Been TTC for about 3.5years and I had IVF earlier this year due to polycystic ovaries, blocked tubes and a fibroid but had to stop due to severe OHSS, then, lo and behold while waiting for my cycles to get back normal to have a frozen cycle, I fell pregnant naturally. I tested positive on the Tuesday morning and began M/C on the Thursday night.

Now not sure what is going on with the IVF, have been summoned to an appointment in the GYN clinic early next year

Am bored of everyone telling me that while the M/C is sad, I should be excited that I can get pregnant. Obviously this is true, but I'm bloody upset and I just feel it was the cruelest way to end the year after everything else... Anyway, I am donning my flapper dress and demanding a large gin (or five!)

lissie dh got me a fatface bag - very nice! haha about your phone 'falling' against a wall! what did you get your ds? we got dd a watch as she is learning/has learnt to tell the time and other bits; however we couldn't decide whether she was overwhelmed or underwhelmed!!!
sorry you're here rudolph but you're welcome as long as you need to be

Hello nice ladies, can I join you? I'm ttc number 1, had a MC in June at 8 weeks, and then a CP last week :( Am trying to stay sane and relaxed about the TTC thing but to be honest I am failing to convince anyone!! I also lurk about on the MC threads but am starting to feel a bit left behind on there as most people seem to get pg and disappear again within a couple of months :(

hope everyone was able to have a good christmas. we did have a lovely time dh excelled himself in the present department with a new handbag, for me that is. dd was so excited about the stuff she had given us, which we both knew about but pretended we didn't - lol!
sorry to see you here picknmix i remember you from a long time back on a conception thread, before i realised that miscarriage was a regular occurence for me (i was shreksmissus). sounds like you have had a rough time, hope this year brings you happiness

Is it wrong to frequent to hut on Christmas Eve when most others are so damn excited about Christmas?!

This year has been spectacularly awful for us, 4.5yrs of ftc with 4 mc's (2 this yr), 3 rounds of IUI, 3 Clomid months and now the nhs is cutting back on IVF funding meaning we probably no longer qualify... I'm at my wits end and all I want for Christmas is a baby.

And breathe.

Sorry to hear what you're going through Broccoli, hope you manage to enjoy some of Christmas.

Is it wrong to frequent to hut on Christmas Eve when most others are so damn excited about Christmas?!

This year has been spectacularly awful for us, 4.5yrs of ftc with 4 mc's (2 this yr), 3 rounds of IUI, 3 Clomid months and now the nhs is cutting back on IVF funding meaning we probably no longer qualify... I'm at my wits end and all I want for Christmas is a baby.

And breathe.

Sorry to hear what you're going through Broccoli, hope you manage to enjoy some of Christmas.

they haven't totally ruled out ep but the beta hcg is going down slowly so it is unlikely to do me any harm and as it's going down i think they this it will just reabsorb eventually and my bhcg will go back to 0

hi girls
thanks for the link - have managed to find you. loving the 20's style gin joint, will dig out my vintage clothes
still have a high bhcg and still have waves of morning sickness and sore boobs in fact, if i didn't know better i would think i was pregnant. next blood test after christmas. i'm alright i suppose, just wish we could move on.
hope everyone else is well.

For any new folks needing to join this thread is for:

for those who are having problems getting pg

or staying pg

or are simply fed up of being told to relax and having to smile and say "you never know"

here is the old thread but I love our new joint here!

I have linked the old thread in case you did not get broccoli's update Lissie .

I will have to dust off my fancy 1920's clothes to come in here, looks too swanky by far for jeans and tee-shirt!!!!

Happy Christmas Lissie