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Is this name too poncey for a boy?

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pumpkinpoppet · 18/04/2011 18:16

Well I don't think so - but I have had it said to me (whatever it means). Let me know what you think. I don't want to saddle my boy with an crap awful name. But I really like it.

Julian??? Anyone?

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mathanxiety · 27/04/2011 15:31

The only Francis I know is a hell raiser bruiser and steak eating machine.

whizzyrocket · 27/04/2011 15:30

I'm afraid I'm not keen. It made me think of the chap Bridget Jones' mum left her dad for- the tv salesman with an orange face!

Sorry. I like Tristan though.

messylittlemonkey · 27/04/2011 13:01

Definitely more camp than poncey.

DP's work colleague recently had a son and named him Julian - just doesn't sound right. On the other hand, I quite like Julius.

shmoz · 27/04/2011 10:22

I don't like it, and I especially don't like the shortened Jude (na nah nah na-na-na nah hey Jude, yuk), even worse Jude I can't commit to anyone because I love myself too much Law

Agree with TSC re Francis though

FanjoForTheMusic · 27/04/2011 08:02

Sorry! Blush

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MayBankHoliday · 27/04/2011 00:43

I like it.

FanjoForTheMusic · 25/04/2011 10:18

You're right, it's totally subjective, and I'm probably displaying awful double standards or prejudices of some kind. Blush Perhaps those names feel a bit Brideshead Revisited? (or Maurice?Grin)

evamummy · 25/04/2011 10:12

Thanks for clafiying what 'wet' means to you Fanjo. Seems to be a very subjective description because I can see a person being 'effeminate' but a name Hmm? I guess it depends on how many people with a certain name you've encountered who happened to be 'effeminate'?

I agree about Laurence because it is the female version of Laurent (and I know a lovely French lady called this) but can't see Francis or Maurice being feminine..?

FanjoForTheMusic · 25/04/2011 06:49

For me 'wet' means a bit effeminate and not very dynamic. Same sort of thing as Laurence. But not in the same league as Maurice, Hilary or Francis. Grin

As I said, love Jules though.

RainbowPatooties · 24/04/2011 21:42

love it

used2bthin · 24/04/2011 21:40

My brother is a Julian and not at all posh, he has worked as a chimney sweep and is a beer drinking motor bike riding type of man. But he hated his name as a kid in a very rough school and found it really embarassing. He likes it now though as it is unusual.

evamummy · 24/04/2011 20:33

What does 'wet' sounding mean? Gay, upper class, chav or what?

mathanxiety · 24/04/2011 19:15

I like it but prefer Julius.

FanjoForTheMusic · 24/04/2011 18:59

A bit wet sounding for me too. But Jules is ace.

evamummy · 24/04/2011 15:38

"They might have a hard time in the playground"

What exactly would schoolchildren find teaseworthy about Julian? Lots of more common names have much more tease potential imo e.g. William - Willy or Benedict (bendy dick) etc. I honestly fail to see what is teasable about Julian (and no, I don't have one Smile) but I think we should encourage name diversity, not limit ourselves to Tom, Ella or Jack...

jobrien1980 · 24/04/2011 12:55

It sounds very upper class and a bit camp to me (sorry!), but I'm Irish and have never even met a Julian IRL. They might have a hard time in the playground depending on what kind of school they go to. If you're worried you could either give it as a middle name or use it as a first name while giving them a very 'safe' middle name they could switch to in later life if they wanted.

Thissideofchannel · 23/04/2011 11:36

Lovely name.

flyingspaghettimonster · 23/04/2011 02:59

I loved it - was on our shortlist. I like the Enid Blyton character - he was gorgeous and dark and broody and mischievous...

CountHotCrossBapula · 21/04/2011 19:22

I love it. DH vetoed it, though Angry

peeriebear · 21/04/2011 19:12

It's DH's dad's name, he is 6'7'' with hands like snow shovels. It is DH's middle name too. I like it. :)

tammytoby · 21/04/2011 19:11

Julian Clary Hmm who is he?

My brother in law is a Julian and seems very happy with his name.

Greenwing · 21/04/2011 19:09

I think a slight problem here might be that you are getting a lot of positive feedback - but mainly from women/mums.
If you were to ask as many men and school children I think the opinionometer might swing very heavily to the negative - not so much 'poncey' as very, very wet. Not to mention the only Julian most people knows is Julian Clary.

'Opinionometer'? Did I just invent a word?

rachel234 · 21/04/2011 15:42

Can't see what is teaseworthy about Julian? Other more common names are much more teaseworthy amongst silly schoolboys. I like it.

muminthemiddle · 21/04/2011 15:37

Don't know any small Juliens.
Don't think he would get called julie as this is an older name as another poster said.
Quite middle class sounding to me.