I have a 7 year old myself. Im usually not a kid person when it comes to other peoples kid and can interact with them and all. So me and my partner meet one of our friend couple we havent seen since months! So they said we could sit with them at the restaurant because we where same place same time. But it also felt like my friend lets call her lisa and her partner tom. Felt like lisa was really on to make her toddler (soon to be 3 years old) to make her sit on me or my partners lap so she could eat because her toddler was getting reckless and didn’t wanna sit on the kid chair. I was eating to so i told her i was eating right now. Im not fan of holding peoples kids while i eat myself or getting kiddos hands on my plate hehe. Pluss i didnt bring my own kid with me so i wanted to enjoy some food without being handled someone elses kid on my lap. Lisa usually goes «does sophie wanna sit on uncles bens lap?<3 or auntie mary?» and her toddler dosnt want either to point it out she wants mommy not me nor my partner. So my partner sat there uncomfortable with a toddler on his lap who wanted nothing to do with him at all😆 i would myself never hand my kid to anyone if eating with them because shes mine to handle and both parents where present here aswell. I felt she looked at me a bit offended because i told her i was eating so i didnt want to hold her while eating. Because lisa was also like «can’t eat in peace can we😪» she didnt just «does aunty mary wanna hold you?<3» one time but multiple times.