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Why are so many YP going to uni, when uni isn't right for so many YP? AIBU to think fewer YP should go to uni as it's only giving them a huge debt?

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MerryAquaKoala · Today 08:41

It seems such a waste of time for so many, racking up huge debt and gaining no benefit from their degree whatsoever. It seems to me that uni's accept such low grades from A Level these days, it's literally a scheme to keep money going to the university and definitely not for the benefit of the YP.

It probably even comes further back to A Levels - A Levels aren't right for so many YP yet currently it seems they're funnelled into doing them anyway.

Something doesn't feel right with it all and in the end it's a YP left with huge debt for the rest of their life (usually). Seems so wrong.

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QueenEthelTheMagnificent · Today 12:51

My son has just started his 3rd year at Uni. He's doing an Art degree. He knows that AI is taking over what would be entry level jobs for him in that industry so his degree won't do anything for him. It's just a piece of paper with thousands of debt attached to it. So the education side is useless to him.

But the social side? He has an amazing part
time job which he loves and will hopefully lead to a career. He never would have had the job is he didn't go to that University. He lives with his 2 best friends. He's grown and developed so much as a man he wouldn't be the person he is today if he hadn't gone through all of the crap he has in the last few years. A very expensive way to get to where he is!!

Daughter is doing her A levels and will not go to University.

topcat2014 · Today 13:00

There is more to life than work. DD could have stayed in our (provincial) town, and gone from school to, say, an insurance office or accountancy firm. Yes, she would be earning - but it's all a bit bleak isn't it?

Why wouldn't you do this if you could?

Debt, of course, but you only pay that back if you earn well. A lot of public sector workers (the employer of choice on MN) will never have to pay the full amount back.

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:01

PoliteSquid · Today 08:54

Applying for uni is considerably easier than securing a full time job or apprenticeship.

You can apply to 5 courses and be pretty much guaranteed a place by completing one form. Whereas each job and apprenticeship has a different form and multiple stages in the recruitment process.

That’s not true. My DS is applying for 5 and has to achieve A*AA in 3 of his 4 A-Levels to get his place, that is not an easy achievement. He’ll work his butt off to get this next summer to get onto the degree he wishes to study.

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:06

topcat2014 · Today 13:00

There is more to life than work. DD could have stayed in our (provincial) town, and gone from school to, say, an insurance office or accountancy firm. Yes, she would be earning - but it's all a bit bleak isn't it?

Why wouldn't you do this if you could?

Debt, of course, but you only pay that back if you earn well. A lot of public sector workers (the employer of choice on MN) will never have to pay the full amount back.

Totally agree. We’re a long time working, so young people should have fun in education for as long as possible.

They should aim high. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, well at least they had an amazing experience whilst they tried to better themselves.

Asuitablecat · Today 13:18

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:01

That’s not true. My DS is applying for 5 and has to achieve A*AA in 3 of his 4 A-Levels to get his place, that is not an easy achievement. He’ll work his butt off to get this next summer to get onto the degree he wishes to study.

It doesn't mean it's not true. It might be true of the course and uni he wants to go to, but there are many universities and courses that just want bums on seats. Behold: the foundation year. If you do poorly, you get to do an extra year in uni.

Good apprenticeships are bloody hard to get on to and are often taken by the kids who get the high A level grades anyway.

There needs to be more for the C-E candidates who aren't really sure what they want to do yet.

bingoshoess · Today 13:18

topcat2014 · Today 13:00

There is more to life than work. DD could have stayed in our (provincial) town, and gone from school to, say, an insurance office or accountancy firm. Yes, she would be earning - but it's all a bit bleak isn't it?

Why wouldn't you do this if you could?

Debt, of course, but you only pay that back if you earn well. A lot of public sector workers (the employer of choice on MN) will never have to pay the full amount back.

You could of course go to uni for 3 years, and then get a job at an insurance company in a provincial town, assuming you're not passed over for the 18yo who is cheaper and has the same job skills as the 22 yo grad.

Yellowbelliedsapsuckeristaken · Today 13:22

It's not a wasted thing for some. I would have sucked in anything trade related, I kid of think the contempt for academic education is equally unfair as some people's contempt for trades. Each person has their own path, forcing people into any one is short sighted.

ToadRage · Today 13:29

MerryAquaKoala · Today 12:12

Did you come out with much debt?

Obviously i had a student loan but I will never be earning enough (disabled) to pay it off so I don't bother thinking about it.

Sunbringer · Today 13:29

PistachioTiramisu · Today 11:59

Why can't people say 'University' instead of bloody 'Uni'?

Why would they? Why use a longer word when people understand a shorter one

TeenLifeMum · Today 13:30

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 10:06

Yep. They pay the wage to match the qualification.
A lot of government employees are over qualified. They could save a fortune by employing less qualified on paper. You need a masters degree for some government customer service roles.
The local call centre pays a lot less and is never short on experienced staff.

To be fair, I think my b7 pay reflects the responsibility I have. I have a masters level qualification (pgdip) and got a distinction but my experience gave me the skills for the job, the pgdip was interesting and I enjoyed it but I don’t know I do my job better for it.

Ilovelifeverymuch · Today 13:44

MajorSamanthaCarter · Today 08:44

Is there any reason you're unable to type the words 'young people'?

That takes too much time 😂

TheAmberKoala · Today 13:55

Not in the UK, but its because theres so much competition for so few jobs. Average person has a masters these days.

TheAmberKoala · Today 13:56

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:06

Totally agree. We’re a long time working, so young people should have fun in education for as long as possible.

They should aim high. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, well at least they had an amazing experience whilst they tried to better themselves.

Here there is a significant cost you have to pay back in order to go to uni. Is that not the case in the UK?

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:59

TheAmberKoala · Today 13:56

Here there is a significant cost you have to pay back in order to go to uni. Is that not the case in the UK?

Yes, it costs in the region of 70 - 90k for a 4 year uni degree.

OtterlyMad · Today 14:20

Aluna · Today 10:57

CDE in the 80s would be roughly BCD now due to grade inflation and stars. In your father’s day only 25% of people went to uni. Now it’s 50%. Students aren’t less intelligent or hardworking but there are far more of them thus include a much broader range of intelligence.

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Exactly, even with so-called grade inflation my father wouldn’t have a hope in hell of getting into his university these days (I just checked and his course now requires AAB). He wasn’t more intelligent or hard-working than students nowadays, he was just fortunate to come from a well off middle class family.

Newbutoldfather · Today 14:41

I think that there is a philosophical question here of what uni is for.

I think that, for some, it equips them for a profession (doctor, lawyer etc) and for others it about general academic advancement and discovery. However, for far too many, at the moment, it is a pointless combination of low level study and partying, at great cost.

I just don’t see how study beyond 18 can be of much use to much more than 20% of the population (tops). And then the government could put a lot more resources per capita into those who would genuinely benefit from tertiary study.

thebrowncatisback · Today 14:41

Universities are businesses with places to fill

I personally think there are benefits to attending university aside from the degree. I had a blast at university and would love my kids to experience the same uf they choose

but I would try and influence them to study something academic rather than arts based

Shinyhappyapple · Today 14:48

I totally agree with you OP.

MerryAquaKoala · Today 14:55

JudgeJ · Today 12:20

I find the sneering at YP very funny, coming on a site that is probably second only to the Army in its use of abbreviations, acronyms etc!

Thank you! It's so weird to me. I was being facetious with my flabbergasted comment, but it's true.

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MerryAquaKoala · Today 14:56

movingtotheslowlane · Today 13:59

Yes, it costs in the region of 70 - 90k for a 4 year uni degree.

Does that include interest from Day 1?

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MerryAquaKoala · Today 15:05

EscCtrl · Today 12:14

The Luddites failed. The industrial revolution moderated by social evolution has been an amazing success in improving living conditions in the industrialized countries.

LLMs are not really intelligent. It is remarkable how effective LLMs are at absorbing various sources and re-assembling words to produce answers, without understanding what any of those words means. The answers they give are on the surface plausible, and tend to reflect main-stream consensus thinking, but humans with creativity and critical thinking skills can often challenge the facile answer to get LLMs to consider other factors, and create better answers. LLMs need human guidance and ingenuity to get the best out of them.

Think how the world has changed since the widespread introduction of computers in the 1980s, or the popularising of the internet in the late 1990s. Computers do the menial things for us, freeing us to do real brain work; with new technology humans have create new business opportunities, whole new industries. LLMs, over-egged as "AI" (like the web was over-egged in the dot com boom) will have a transformative effect, various job roles will disappear, but I'm guessing new roles will arise in managing and directing LLMs.

Yean. You're right, I think. I just hope that's true.

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MerryAquaKoala · Today 15:09

disgracefullyyours · Today 12:16

I don’t have one since I believe the economy, impacted by the use of automation of automation and AI, will only worsen. The government don’t care, they know the horse bolted years ago. In huge numbers, people will continue to go to university undeterred by the huge debts because what the hell else is there to do, and possibly those numbers will increase as jobs become more scarce and UBI comes in.

Labour Party / socialist utopia.

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MerryAquaKoala · Today 15:12

MerryAquaKoala · Today 14:56

Does that include interest from Day 1?

The internet calculator tells me 'Expect £150k–£190k total for a 4‑year UK degree in 2026/27 when including tuition, living costs, and loan interest, depending on location and lifestyle'

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ToadRage · Today 15:14

TheAmberKoala · Today 13:56

Here there is a significant cost you have to pay back in order to go to uni. Is that not the case in the UK?

Most students get a loan to pay tuition fees, rent etc. But there is threshold you have be earning enough to pay it back, after a number of years or you die its written off. If you never earn that amount you never pay it back.

GreenLemonade · Today 15:26

MerryAquaKoala · Today 15:12

The internet calculator tells me 'Expect £150k–£190k total for a 4‑year UK degree in 2026/27 when including tuition, living costs, and loan interest, depending on location and lifestyle'

Living costs are likely the largest element of this total but you would have those regardless. Uni student or not, everyone needs food, clothes, transport and a place to live.