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To think it’s crazy that National Minimum wage is £27k

663 replies

Butterflyfluff · 09/10/2026 20:08

Yet it’s not really enough to live on 😢

My first job paid £7.5k per year and I thought I was loaded! And I’m not ancient.

Now 2 people on NMW earn over £50k between them yet it’s really not enough these days.

OP posts:
likelysuspect · 11/10/2026 09:35

SummerAsh · 10/10/2026 08:59

I think HMRC might be wanting a word with your DH… you’ve as good as admitted tax evasion.

Poor @intrepidpanda getting 20 pages of notifications from people who cant read and follow the thread properly

intrepidpanda · 11/10/2026 09:37

Karmaiscool · 10/10/2026 08:43

@intrepidpanda self employed declared income then. No-one works for £50 day. You're absolutely not living on £20k. We won't talk about tax and NI....

You are correct. We are not living on 20k
Never said I was if you read the posts correctly

Bjorkdidit · 11/10/2026 09:43

Well I'm not the only one who thinks your post is unclear.

What do you mean by 'And get around £20k a year between us as I'm part time atm dh full' if that's not your earnings?

UC on top of pay at NMW? Gifts from relatives?

likelysuspect · 11/10/2026 09:43

Noodledog · 10/10/2026 13:05

Yes, a PP seems to think grandparents paying private school fees for their grandchildren is normal. They clearly inhabit a different world to the majority. I also don't know any pensioners in 4 or 5 bedroom houses.

My parents live in a 5 bedroomed house in outer South London, its not worth anywhere near a million.

When they were first married in the 60s, they lived in a room, by the time they had me in the 70s, they were living in a one bed flat.

rainingsnoring · 11/10/2026 09:51

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 11/10/2026 09:28

I probably should have added our rent is low because the house is owned by a friend of MIL so we only pay £900 a month rather than the £1,500+ it would cost otherwise.
I don't currently work as I get CA for caring for our son. Car expenses are pretty low as everything is in walking distance (apart from DH work but he often gets a work van).
Food is pretty low as all the children get free meals either at work or school so they often don't want another cooked meal in the evening.
Obviously things like this do make a difference and we're lucky with costs in some ways. Everything is going up though so I appreciate we may not be in such a good financial position a year from now.

So you don't get by on 30k at all! You are subsidised by your MIL and the taxpayer, probably to the tune of another £30K pre tax salary. Also, you don't have to pay for 5 people as the older two are working already so you are actually only supporting 3 full people on this amount.

I do wish people would stop posting totally misleading things as you did.

codkaandvoke · 11/10/2026 09:51

I take it @MyFairLady27 isn’t coming back to answer - unless it was a typo

also guessing rent is paid via uc

i read a comment yesterday from her about her having twins - so even more amazing they cope on that low salary

def some tax fiddle as @intrepidpanda said

Chewbecca · 11/10/2026 09:55

MoominVallie · 11/10/2026 08:10

I think a big issue is the lack of differentiation too.

NMW can be paid to unskilled workers with no qualifications in entry level jobs - teens starting out for eg. It is also offered to workers with skills, experience, responsibility etc such a teaching assistants . Not much more is offered to workers with external qualifications such as lifeguards and Health Care Assistants. For only a pound or 2 more an hour you can be a qualified nurse with years of experience!

Bringing the NMW up is clearly necessary, because it is still not enough for a good standard of living but other wages need to go up commensurate with skills, experience and qualifications - and they don't!

Bringing the NMW up is clearly necessary, because it is still not enough for a good standard of living

Should NMW be aiming for a "good' standard of living? I expect it to be a minimum standard of living, not good.

For a good standard of living, it's necessary to get some higher level skills and experience and, consequently, a wage that is higher than NMW. Isn't that how the world works? Some roles warrant NMW, a business would be foolhardy to pay more.

McSpoot · 11/10/2026 09:58

codkaandvoke · 11/10/2026 09:51

I take it @MyFairLady27 isn’t coming back to answer - unless it was a typo

also guessing rent is paid via uc

i read a comment yesterday from her about her having twins - so even more amazing they cope on that low salary

def some tax fiddle as @intrepidpanda said

They have seven young children, in fact.

codkaandvoke · 11/10/2026 10:02

McSpoot · 11/10/2026 09:58

They have seven young children, in fact.

Wow

i just rem her post on the preg moving thread

Fidgety31 · 11/10/2026 10:14

Fiftyandme · 11/10/2026 08:51

You wouldn’t be able to - you can’t just claim all benefits and not work unless there are reasons you cannot work.

And as a single person your benefits would be capped to just under 15000

And my take home pay for full time work is under £2k a month - not much difference in cash and when you look at the additional costs of fuel to work , prescriptions etc - I can see why people don’t bother working ! It just doesn’t pay - unless you are on a high wage .
when you’re just scraping in above benefit levels - it’s very disheartening.

Mh67 · 11/10/2026 10:15

It would probably be more than enough if people lived the way we did years ago. Nails coffees takeaways etc take a huge chunk of incomes.

Tharealkate · 11/10/2026 10:15

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 11/10/2026 09:28

I probably should have added our rent is low because the house is owned by a friend of MIL so we only pay £900 a month rather than the £1,500+ it would cost otherwise.
I don't currently work as I get CA for caring for our son. Car expenses are pretty low as everything is in walking distance (apart from DH work but he often gets a work van).
Food is pretty low as all the children get free meals either at work or school so they often don't want another cooked meal in the evening.
Obviously things like this do make a difference and we're lucky with costs in some ways. Everything is going up though so I appreciate we may not be in such a good financial position a year from now.

Thanks for replying with these additional details. As it seems all this is crucial to why you get by on 30k, yeah I think it would’ve been worth mentioning in the first place.

I’ve said multiple times upthread housing costs are often the main reason why low wages make it so hard to live on so if you’re paying £600 less than the typical rent in your area you’re definitely winning and in a completely different situation than most people.

This is my point when you get folks saying they are okay with low salaries often if you look into it further they have various financial advantages that aren’t the norm.

Tharealkate · 11/10/2026 10:31

I can’t remember if I said already but when I moved from a one bed flat with £1200 rent to a 2 bed flat with £650 rent my life totally changed financially !

Same job different area - this is why I will continue to defend remote working!

It all comes down to housing for most people!

I don’t know the answer to it - maybe much more social housing and ending right to buy in England like Scotland have done?

But either way I really hope something can be done to bring rent down. Landlords are being disgustingly greedy now. Not all but many.

I stayed in Brixton for 6 months , my rent for one bedroom in a lovely ex-council house was £800pcm. The whole flat rent was £1400.

The entire 2 bed property was going to be let for just under £2k when my housemate left so I wasn’t able to stay on - as £800 was the max I could pay back then. This was 2012.

I asked the landlords dad why his daughter was raising the rent so much, especially as she had no plans for renovation and the flat had been kept in great condition and was only getting cleaned for the next tenants but no other work was being done.

He basically said that his daughter who now lives in Australia hadn’t been paying much attention while her long term tenant (my flatmate) had been there for years . However now she was moving out, the landlord had did her research and noticed rents on that street had increased sharply over the past few years so she was basically joining in the cash grab.

I know from zoopla that she had bought that house cheaply in the early 2000s and the previous owner had bought for it for even cheaper in the 90s from the council. I can imagine her mortgage payments on it was tiny and she was making a huge profit even without raising prices further.

It’s just shocking that houses built in London designed for social housing were sold for a relatively small amount, then subsequent owners get to make a massive profit of it. Often at the cost of the taxpayer where housing benefit is involved.

Absolute madness! Thanks thatcher!

ancestry101 · 11/10/2026 10:46

Chewbecca · 11/10/2026 09:55

Bringing the NMW up is clearly necessary, because it is still not enough for a good standard of living

Should NMW be aiming for a "good' standard of living? I expect it to be a minimum standard of living, not good.

For a good standard of living, it's necessary to get some higher level skills and experience and, consequently, a wage that is higher than NMW. Isn't that how the world works? Some roles warrant NMW, a business would be foolhardy to pay more.

Jobs don’t seem to be paying much more. The most I’ve ever earned is 29k and I’ve worked for a prestige car brand, as an ambulance call handler, for a security firm, retail etc and I have decent qualifications including a degree
handling 999 calls definitely requires skills yet it’s still band 3
when I was made redundant everything was 27-28k with hours creep like 8.30-5.30 or 9-6

MJagain · 11/10/2026 11:27

fedupwithseparatebedrooms · 09/10/2026 21:05

£27k I wish... I'm a TA and my annual salary is £19500

So you work 30hrs/week for 38 weeks of the year?
That’s a lot of hours you could fill to earn more.

Pherian · 11/10/2026 11:31

Evaka · 09/10/2026 20:47

Is this a typo?

No, it’s fraud. Someone’s cooking the books. There is more to it than she’s saying.

Allog · 11/10/2026 11:43

try living on the state pension of £12.5k that Andy Burnham thinks is too high.

Pinadaqx2 · 11/10/2026 11:50

HardFuckingBird · 09/10/2026 20:58

Quite. My family were quite well off when I was growing up. By the time I left home to go to uni I'd only had 6 foreign holidays. That was more than a lot of my friends. Nowadays I don't know many families who don't go abroad at least once a year - many go away 3-4 times a year.

I dont know anybody who goes away 3 to 4 times per year. We must be in different circles.

Scarlettpixie · 11/10/2026 12:00

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 18:22

No the nineties was the peak time when things got better for a lot of people.
I lived some of my childhood in the UK in a bona fida slum. In the sixties and seventies kids were taken into care if their parents were homeless and many young single women who got pregnant had their kids taken away from them.

Anyone brought up in the nineties had an easier time. By then things had changed a lot and that is when people did become more well off.

I am not sure that's right. Interest rates were sky high in the 1990's with a lot of people ending up in negative equity/loosing their homes. Things improved in the first half of the 2000's with house prices rising before the financial crash caused a new set of problems.

Scarlettpixie · 11/10/2026 12:09

ShyCapybara · 10/10/2026 21:10

We live in £3200 a month for a family of 4. £1500 of that is rent (we live in the south), but we make savings everywhere. We have just one streaming service at any one time and swap it out when there’s a series on that we want to watch - Amazon always gets December so we can take advantage of prime shipping for Christmas.
We buy clothes on vinted and charity shops. We sell the kids old clothes on vinted to make back some of the money. If we want a new computer game, we sell an old one to CEX and use the credit to buy a new one second hand. Our car is 8 years old and all paid off. We don’t eat takeaways, we take packed lunches for days out, we look for vouchers/discounts for museums (we always use the free NT vouchers every summer). We meal plan and batch cook to save on food. I cut everyone’s hair (including my own), we buy toys and books second hand. We use the library a lot. Nobody is sad, nobody is missing out (in fact one of our biggest expenses is the kids theatre school and dance classes every month).
It’s definitely possible to live on less if you avoid lots of the expectations of modern life.

It never occurred to me to treat Amazon Prime the same as I do the other streaming services. I do it mainly for the convenience of being able to buy stuff with free delivery whenever I want. Out of all the streaming services, Prime is the one I watch the least.

If I were to just buy a month now and again, say 2 or 3 times a year, I would save quite a bit both in terms of impluse purchases and the subscription. I am definitely going to do this when my current term is up (I used to pay monthly then upgraded to a year to save a few quid). I think it is up in January, I am going to check that now and note it on my budget spreadsheet.

Thank you.

BIossomtoes · 11/10/2026 12:11

Allog · 11/10/2026 11:43

try living on the state pension of £12.5k that Andy Burnham thinks is too high.

When did he say that? It’s a new one on me.

rainingsnoring · 11/10/2026 12:13

Allog · 11/10/2026 11:43

try living on the state pension of £12.5k that Andy Burnham thinks is too high.

This has already been done to death on this thread and others.
The state pension is a safety net benefit. Most pensioners are drawing far more than they ever contributed. It is unfair to keep expecting more from the poorer, younger generations.

Boreded · 11/10/2026 12:19

Allog · 11/10/2026 11:43

try living on the state pension of £12.5k that Andy Burnham thinks is too high.

Do you live on that? Or do you have other household income and a pension pot?

Boreded · 11/10/2026 12:21

Pinadaqx2 · 11/10/2026 11:50

I dont know anybody who goes away 3 to 4 times per year. We must be in different circles.

I’m only in working class circles but the majority of them are pensioners who travel more than this.

My colleagues who are not working class backgrounds cannot afford this at all even though they are in households with two working people

BIossomtoes · 11/10/2026 12:23

rainingsnoring · 11/10/2026 12:13

This has already been done to death on this thread and others.
The state pension is a safety net benefit. Most pensioners are drawing far more than they ever contributed. It is unfair to keep expecting more from the poorer, younger generations.

That’s only true of those who were low earners, who tend to die younger than their more highly paid counterparts. There are some interesting facts here. One of them is that self employed people are the biggest net beneficiaries on retirement.

https://www.pensionspolicyinstitute.org.uk/media/1crf4ox5/20230110-nics-and-statepen-post-proof.pdf

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