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To think it’s crazy that National Minimum wage is £27k

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Butterflyfluff · 09/10/2026 20:08

Yet it’s not really enough to live on 😢

My first job paid £7.5k per year and I thought I was loaded! And I’m not ancient.

Now 2 people on NMW earn over £50k between them yet it’s really not enough these days.

OP posts:
AngelinaFibres · 10/10/2026 08:49

HardFuckingBird · 09/10/2026 20:15

DH and I live off around £50k gross between us and we have a very comfortable lifestyle (we have two children in primary school). It's a perfectly reasonable household income in inexpensive areas (I realise it wouldn't go far in London or much of the south). In my area the problem is lifestyle creep. People's expectations are crazy compared to when we were children. When I was at school most families didn't have one foreign holiday a year, but now a lot of the families I know expect to be able to go away 3-4 times a year. Families often shared one old car - now most people I know have a luxury car per adult, often on PCP. Meals out used to be a rare treat - whereas now a lot of my colleagues feel entitled to coffees, lunches, takeaways and meals out every week.

Plus new clothes all the time ,nails, eyebrows, eye lashes, hair. We had school uniform and 2 tops/ trousers for the rest of the time. I had school shoes and wellies. That was it. I didn't have fashionable clothes, multiple pairs of shoes. We had a winter coat ( dark green, school approved) and a lighter mac for summer. Everyone did. No one went on foreign holidays. My friends were farmers children so they didn't have holidays as a family at all.When I became an adult in the 1980s eating out was a huge treat. We certainly didn't go out for a meal on a Wednesday night because we were tired and couldn't be bothered.Take aways weren't an every Friday thing. People expect to have so much more stuff now.

Trappedinthecastofawhodunnit · 10/10/2026 08:49

Karmaiscool · 10/10/2026 08:43

@intrepidpanda self employed declared income then. No-one works for £50 day. You're absolutely not living on £20k. We won't talk about tax and NI....

Absolutely - tax dodger!

Finta · 10/10/2026 08:51

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 07:51

Yes, thatcher decreased the power of the uniions but also demonised them. By doing so many turned their backs on them and by doing so have decreased there wages.

teachers have bucked the trend and it’s made a big difference

I genuinely love how she crushed the unions. Needed to be done.

AngelinaFibres · 10/10/2026 08:52

Darkermornings · 10/10/2026 08:09

I see the ‘ooh it’s just that people’s expectations are higher now’ crowd are out. ‘Ooh back in the 70s we were happy with a sandwich on a park bench in the rain, kicking away the roaming packs of dogs after our sausages. People’s expectations are just too high now. Ooooh’

Honestly, just go away! It’s not unreasonable for a family with two full time working adults to want to be able to take the kids for cake at a cafe on the weekend. It’s not unreasonable to want to be able to but the kids a lunch of soup or a sandwich at a cafe on a day out instead of carrying around a heavy bag of a days worth of food or drink. It’s good that people have these expectations. Also, kids don’t go out and play in groups on the streets anymore. It is more expensive to take them out now ( in money and time). Things change. Just like no one in the 70s had the cosy of a mobile phone contract.

Also, it’s not just expectations. Housing just is much more expensive. my first property in the late 90s was 47k. I bought as prices were starting to really rise in the late 90s and it felt stupidly expensive for a small property. I sold a few years later for 110k. Fuck knows what it would cost now.

And it’s good that people expect some reward of treats for working full time time, like coffee and cake in a cafe. It’s not a sign of a good economy if families work full time for subsistence only.

Just like its good thise bloody free roaming dogs are gone ( history note for young people People used to shove their dogs out the house to wander the streets all day.)

People wanting these things is not the same as needing them. You can have what you can afford. If you can't afford it you can't have it.

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 08:54

MrsPapillon · 09/10/2026 20:53

Of course he does. I’m sure you live quite comfortably on all the cash he doesn’t earn. 😂

Thanks to everyone calling out the BS on this but on a serious note HMRC relies too heavily on PAYE earners and so many self employed people are taking the piss to the detriment of the countries finances .

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 08:57

Finta · 09/10/2026 21:08

It's fine if you don't have kids. Just rent a one bed and split the bills.

Split the bills with who?! Not everyone has a serious partner.

SummerAsh · 10/10/2026 08:59

intrepidpanda · 09/10/2026 20:39

He is a tradesman
He earns £12, 570

I think HMRC might be wanting a word with your DH… you’ve as good as admitted tax evasion.

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:02

FourFruitSalads · 10/10/2026 01:47

The average private pension for current couples who are pensioners is £500 a month.
People on MN seem to know mainly wealthy people

Quite. This idea of us all rattling about in big houses and swanning off on cruises 3 times a year is quite alien to me.

Because you also have state pensions and no housing costs. Plus that 500 is skewed dramatically by those who don’t have a ‘regular pension’ and who instead have their funds in a SIPP and draw down as required. There can be 100s of thousands in there not being counted because it’s not taken as monthly income and it brings the average down.

A pensioner household has just 500 less per month than a working household. The working household has to pay to live in the home, mortgages are horrendously high now and not getting any easier to pay. The working household has childcare costs, they have costs of getting to work, second cars are needed. Any activities that are done are paid for 4 people but a pensioner household has to only pay for 1/2.

This will continue to be harder and harder for future generations. And they won’t have great pensions to fall back on.

Tiddlywinkly · 10/10/2026 09:05

IDontHateRainbows · 09/10/2026 21:21

Inflation is insane. I was on 36k 10 years ago exactly and was feeling very pleased with myself that after several promotions I'm now on £56k only... my BOE inflation calculator tells me this is exactly the same as my ssalary 10 years ago in real terms, despite my role being several rungs above. Actual roles at my preivous level are still paying around mid 30s, so the same, but of course much less due to inflation so more like what 25k or so would have been 10 years ago.

We've all been royally shafted.

Thank you for spelling this out. It explains why I've been promoted several times over 13 years and still have exactly the same standard of living. I hadn't realised it was that bad.

Notonmyland · 10/10/2026 09:06

So what's the cost to an employer to employ people?

Greenseawitch · 10/10/2026 09:07

It should be enough to live on but the issue is the high cost of housing, ridiculous utility bills, council tax and transport costs.

Also the fact that so many big companies (the likes of Amazon, supermarkets, care homes, the leisure/retail/hospitality industries in general) choose to pay their staff minimum wage to increase their profits rather than pay decent wages.

The minimum wage was created to make sure there was a minimum employers were legally forced to pay to avoid exploitation and address poverty, but bosses are using it routinely now as a business decision to save money.

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:08

rainingsnoring · 10/10/2026 05:00

Exactly. This in addition to all the things I said above.
It's dishonest to pretend that the average pensioners has the same outgoings as the average family with children or the average younger, working adult.
It's even worse than the poster on the first page pretending that she has a household income of 20k with children and lives a very comfortable life.

Some pensioners are poor for various reasons but they are, overall, much better off than the generations that followed them and certainly have much lower outgoings.

This…100 times over!

Obviously there are poor pensioners, but comparatively few.

NotSmallButFunSize · 10/10/2026 09:10

My main gripe with the level of minimum wage is about other salaries in comparison!

I work in the NHS, am a band 4. MW has risen so much that band 1 has disappeared and band 2 now only has 1 pay point else it would be the same at band 3 (and is actually the same as the bottom of band 3, it's just that 3 can increase). It won't be long before band 2 gets removed too due to being below MW.

So my main issue is that every time MW increases, the differential between it and the other bands reduces, to the point where it's barely worth doing the job with more responsibility as you get less and less reward for taking it on! How long til it catches me up on band 4?

It's my biggest irritation with agenda for change scales and no doubt affects other public sector salaries too. We should all get an equivalent uplift when MW goes up, PLUS whatever raise we were going to get else what's the point in different bands??

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:10

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 05:45

Average age at inheritance is 47 peak is 55-65
average amount unt is £65k
tjats over the last 10 years and is at 22% of the population

in the next 20 years that will change to 55% of the population will receive an inheritance and £5.5 trillion will be inherited in the next 30 years

If the
£5.5 trillion in projected inherited wealth were divided equally across the entire UK population, it would amount to approximately £79,000 per person

£3.84 is from property

Want to know why it’ll change to 55% getting an inheritance…wealthy pensioners 😂

BarbaraE · 10/10/2026 09:10

Me and my husband are self employed live on less than 25k a year between us we ve no mortgage that's the only reason it's doable

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 09:15

NotSmallButFunSize · 10/10/2026 09:10

My main gripe with the level of minimum wage is about other salaries in comparison!

I work in the NHS, am a band 4. MW has risen so much that band 1 has disappeared and band 2 now only has 1 pay point else it would be the same at band 3 (and is actually the same as the bottom of band 3, it's just that 3 can increase). It won't be long before band 2 gets removed too due to being below MW.

So my main issue is that every time MW increases, the differential between it and the other bands reduces, to the point where it's barely worth doing the job with more responsibility as you get less and less reward for taking it on! How long til it catches me up on band 4?

It's my biggest irritation with agenda for change scales and no doubt affects other public sector salaries too. We should all get an equivalent uplift when MW goes up, PLUS whatever raise we were going to get else what's the point in different bands??

I agree. There needs to be an uplift for the middle bands as well. The gap between what are often unskilled jobs and jobs in health care and education is getting smaller.

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:16

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 07:51

Yes, thatcher decreased the power of the uniions but also demonised them. By doing so many turned their backs on them and by doing so have decreased there wages.

teachers have bucked the trend and it’s made a big difference

Orrrr the economy has changed and factory work is not as required plus when it is it’s completed by machines therefore less demand for workers and lower wages accordingly. I feel like this is the obvious reason.

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:16

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:10

Want to know why it’ll change to 55% getting an inheritance…wealthy pensioners 😂

It's house prices. With much higher house prices people are far more likely to leave an inheritance.

brownbootsandhats · 10/10/2026 09:17

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:08

This…100 times over!

Obviously there are poor pensioners, but comparatively few.

That is untrue.

there are very rich younger people also - many who have had inheritance or money from parents

16% of pensioners are defined as living in poverty which is roughly the same a working aged adults with no children - even though the day before you retire should be your richest every day of life

ie it’s people of any age without children to care for who are richer not pensioners vs working people

its 25% of working aged adults with children
single parents fare worse unsurprisingly

not saying that’s good

just saying that to think it’s only a tiny fraction of pensioners who are very poor is setting generations against each other which isn’t helpful.

it’s having children to pay for that sets you up for relative poverty

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:18

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 09:15

I agree. There needs to be an uplift for the middle bands as well. The gap between what are often unskilled jobs and jobs in health care and education is getting smaller.

This has happened generally. I am paid £32k, it's actually a skilled job. But the wage has been eroded so much over the last ten years.

Katemax82 · 10/10/2026 09:18

That was my husband's wage as a newly qualified train driver in 2001, he was classed as a high earner back then

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:19

GreenCa · 10/10/2026 08:12

Although a substantial portion of pensioners do own their house outright, 18% of pensioners are in rental properties, so certainly have housing costs. Additionally not all mortgages are paid off by retirement. Pensioners do have all the other costs associated with housing though: council tax, heating bills and maintainence. A large number of the poorly maintained properties that come on the market were owned by an older person.One reason for this is that paying maintenance e.g roof repairs, gutters, painting, window repairs etc etc is unaffordable if living on a modest pension.The average income for a single pensioner is £333 a week, so many will have much less than that.Just as there are rich and poor people of working age, there are rich and poor pensioners.

Obviously, but comparatively this pensioner generation is wealthier than the working. Nobody is denying that a small number of pensioners are poor

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:20

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:16

It's house prices. With much higher house prices people are far more likely to leave an inheritance.

No, house prices increasing changes how much is left, not whether anything is left.

Lipstone · 10/10/2026 09:32

MyFairLady27 · 09/10/2026 20:19

Well we get by nicely with kids,pets, new cars, holidays,no credit owed to anyone or anything. And get around £20k a year between us as I'm part time atm dh full..Takes good balancing and communication and we do fine and dandy

New cars, plural, on £20k per year, no credit?

What are they, Hot Wheels?

Imdunfer · 10/10/2026 09:35

I wonder just how many people complaining that NMW is unlivable will be paying for lip fillers, multiple streaming subscriptions, hand car washes and multiple £4 a cup coffees this week?