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To stop trying to do nice things

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HappyEnglishTeacher · 24/09/2026 19:12

I tutor nowadays, having taught in schools for decades - and I make a comfortable living. Due to this I always try to give something back to my community.

This year I offered FREE lessons for children who needed to resit their English GCSE ( including advertising the fact here on Mumsnet) I had zero response.

This week I've been trying to set up an online group for children taking a new style 11+. I'm offering it for £8 If you can afford - otherwise pay what you can or don't pay at all. This group will probably take around 5 hours of planning and admin each week for a 45 minute session. I've had one single person sign up.

I don't get it. I have no shortage of students for my regular lessons which cost between £50 and £65 - yet nobody is interested in anything more affordable.

In fact today I've had one man make vile comments on my FB ad calling me a scammer and others giving me angry face reactions.

Am I stupid for trying to do something nice?

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seahorsessky · 24/09/2026 20:53

Some people will worry that anyone offering teaching for free either isn't properly qualified, or has dodgy reasons. Sorry that the world's this way.

Morecoffeeneedef · 24/09/2026 20:53

There are many free courses online which turn out to be a hard sell for an expensive paid course. People might think you are offering that. Or do parents not see the point of the new 11 plus tutoring?

Abstaining · 24/09/2026 22:08

@HappyEnglishTeacher if you were recommended via a school or another educational setting then I would be more inclined to sign my child up vs just seeing your advert offering free tutoring. Free tutoring sounds a bit odd, as nothing seems to be free these days, so I would be thinking, and I hate to say it, ‘is he an odd-ball, one of those ‘you know what’?’

Your advert should clearly state you are DBS checked too.

User454545454546565 · 24/09/2026 22:29

So sad that the world is now like this and nobody trusts anybody.

I need to find a person like you for GCSE Maths and Chemistry ⚗️, do you have a sciencey twin perchance?

Shatenoeuf · 24/09/2026 22:36

Have you tried advertising through charities that help those in need? This may help people feel comfortable that they arent going to pressured to pay at some stage.

Eg offer leaflets/leave posters at a food bank, or through organisations that support refugees or unemployed.

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