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Disabled Parking

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Goldengirl123 · 23/09/2026 14:10

Do any of you park in disabled parking spaces? If so, can I ask you why? I’m not talking about mums with baby’s who need to get car seats out

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Overthebow · 23/09/2026 14:12

No and as a mum whose had two babies I have never parked in a disabled bay to get them out of the car either, I’m not sure why that would be a valid reason.

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/09/2026 14:12

Yes, every time.

Because I am disabled, have a blue badge and need the space to get in/out of the car.

You might want to be a bit specific about who it is you're talking about here.

purplecorkheart · 23/09/2026 14:13

No - my Dad is disabled and I see how hard for him to get out of the car if there is no space around it.

Hoardasurass · 23/09/2026 14:13

Goldengirl123 · 23/09/2026 14:10

Do any of you park in disabled parking spaces? If so, can I ask you why? I’m not talking about mums with baby’s who need to get car seats out

Unless the mum is disabled she shouldn't be using the disabled bay either

3luckystars · 23/09/2026 14:13

Nobody should park there EVER unless they are disabled, do you realise what they may be already dealing with that morning before they get to that parting spot?

it’s different with disabled toilets as far as I know, they are equipped for disability but not strictly just for disabilities. I don’t use them either but parking spots are an absolute no no no no no.

x2boys · 23/09/2026 14:13

Mums with babies who need to get car seats out should not be parking in disabled parking spaces unless they have a blue badge.

roseymoira · 23/09/2026 14:14

Mums with baby's have no business being in a disabled space unless they are also disabled 🤣

Lomonald · 23/09/2026 14:15

Yes because I have a blue badge, Why would people with prams be exempt from parking in disabled bay? Are you poking the bear @Goldengirl123

Octavia64 · 23/09/2026 14:15

Yes, because I have a blue badge.

karmakameleon · 23/09/2026 14:15

Hoardasurass · 23/09/2026 14:13

Unless the mum is disabled she shouldn't be using the disabled bay either

Or if her baby is disabled.

LostThestral · 23/09/2026 14:16

yes if I have my disabled Dad with me otherwise no

BirdLandedonmyHead · 23/09/2026 14:18

No, even with my wheelchair using mother who apparently isnt "disabled enough" to need one.

afaloren · 23/09/2026 14:19

Not left my car there, no. I will confess I have pulled into one to help my 77yo mum get out at the doctor when she was injured and unable to walk far (but it was temporary so no blue badge) but as soon as she was out I drove off and found a space further away. I feel like that was ok but I’m sure people here can tell me if I’m wrong.

Lomonald · 23/09/2026 14:21

afaloren · 23/09/2026 14:19

Not left my car there, no. I will confess I have pulled into one to help my 77yo mum get out at the doctor when she was injured and unable to walk far (but it was temporary so no blue badge) but as soon as she was out I drove off and found a space further away. I feel like that was ok but I’m sure people here can tell me if I’m wrong.

I honestly think this is fine,
our surgery has disabled bays but they don't mention for BB only so are free to use.

Lougle · 23/09/2026 14:23

Goldengirl123 · 23/09/2026 14:10

Do any of you park in disabled parking spaces? If so, can I ask you why? I’m not talking about mums with baby’s who need to get car seats out

Any of who? We park in disabled spaces because DD1 has a blue badge.

HikingHippo · 23/09/2026 14:26

Do any of you park in disabled parking spaces?

Yes

If so, can I ask you why?

Because my child has a blue badge, having been given one by sending evidence of disability from several professionals

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 23/09/2026 14:28

Are you suggesting mums with "baby's" should be able to use disabled spaces when they aren't disabled?

SpottyPyjama · 23/09/2026 14:41

Why would
you think Mums with babies have any more entitlement to disabled spaces than anyone else? They don’t.

Before I had a BB I used them when with a friend who was on crutches after surgery and I think that was valid so feel no guilt about it.

HouseBee · 23/09/2026 14:46

Yes I park in disabled space because I have BB.

I’d like to understand your comment about ‘not mums with children who need more space’?
because as far as I’m concerned, they shouldn’t be using them either…..

Fifthtimelucky · 23/09/2026 14:50

My parents, now long dead, both had blue badges in their final few years. When I drove them places in my car, I used their badges and we parked in disabled spaces.

I have never parked in a disabled spot in any other circumstances.

nomas · 23/09/2026 14:53

Do any of you park in disabled parking spaces? If so, can I ask you why? I’m not talking about mums with baby’s who need to get car seats out

Ate you saying you don’t have a disability and use Blue Badge bays as a parent and child bays?

Because you absolutely shouldn’t be. Hmm

Badbadbunny · 23/09/2026 14:59

Nope, nor in parent spaces either. It's just laziness and selfishness when people do it.

I only ever parked in parent spaces when I had a baby/toddler and needed the extra width to open the door and/or needed to be close to the trolley bay where the baby carrier trolleys were kept.

Likewise, now, I have DH with a blue badge and we only park in disabled bays when he is getting in/out of the car and we need the extra width space or to be as close to the place we're visiting as possible. Never when I'm going in somewhere and he's staying in the car, and certainly never when he's not even in the car.

Hopomythumb · 23/09/2026 15:07

I never would as I remember a very powerful print ad - an image of a disabled parking space and the strap line was ‘Is this the only time you put yourself in my place? ‘

BishBashBoshDumpling · 23/09/2026 15:08

If your frustration as a BB holder is that they are always taken up then I sympathise as the carer/chauffer/cook/cleaner/psycologist/physiotherapist) of a disabled wheelchair-ed person who has their own BB.

However, when I look around they are filled with cards that have badges on the dash. There are simply so many BB holders now. I blame the NHS - leaving people's health to rot with total inaction... to the point where their bodies no longer work. That's our experience, anyway.

Goldengirl123 · 23/09/2026 15:09

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/09/2026 14:12

Yes, every time.

Because I am disabled, have a blue badge and need the space to get in/out of the car.

You might want to be a bit specific about who it is you're talking about here.

I thought that would obvious

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