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AIBU to think Boy George should retire from performing now?

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Netcurtainnelly · 20/09/2026 23:42

To think Boy George should give up now .

His is absolutely crap. His voice is weak, he struggles to sing, and he sounds awful. 😞

I noticed he's got a concert in December and it's £499 to have a couple of photos taken close to him. 😳

Some of these has beens should retire now.

Alot of people who maybe liked his stuff in the 80s, have grown up and moved on.
They certainly don't want to be ripped off listening to that drivel. 🫨

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XigDoop · 21/09/2026 00:08

He's vile. I'm surprised he wasn't cancelled after what he did to that man.

buggermewhatnext · 21/09/2026 00:26

Truly vile yes what his did to that chap

dustabsorber · 21/09/2026 00:38

What did he do to that chap?

OonaStubbs · 21/09/2026 00:50

He chained a man to a radiator in new york and beat him.

XigDoop · 21/09/2026 01:23

This was posted on reddit

"jmh90027
•4y ago•Edited 4y ago

After a photoshoot an intoxicated Boy George locked my (straight) photographer friend in the back of a car and (quite seriously) refused to let him out unless he agreed to recieve oral sex.
Eventually BG was convinced to let him out by one of his hangers on, but as the photoshoot was in the middle of nowhere my friend had to wait outside the house for a taxi to collect him during which BG groped him repeatedly and slapped him round the face for pulling away when he tried to kiss him
A few weeks later BG's team specifically requested my friend for another photoshoot (again in the middle of nowhere) and eventually pulled out of the magazine interview when he refused."

soddingspiderseason · 21/09/2026 01:27

There is a time to bow out gracefully from a career, and unfortunately, for BG that time passed a decade or two ago. He has now become a sad parody.

RetiredGranny · 21/09/2026 01:37

He still owes Jon Moss money, so will continue to tour. On his tour in December 2024 people were leaving early because he was rubbish (was there for one of the support acts), they won't be taken in again and I think it will have poor ticket sales.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 21/09/2026 01:42

He was a lead act at carfest one year. Dual stages. Came on late, agitated about sound quality and feeds with his female backing singers. No other act had had an issue all afternoon or evening. He was unpleasant. Ive known Culture Club and Boy George music since the 80s, but never seen him live. I finally left early when he started to take credit for the Crying Game - fantastic movie but BG involvement? Unknown to me at that point, before and afterwards. Not keen at all.

mumumental · 21/09/2026 03:32

I suppose his career is his own business. Just don’t go and leave him alone.

Treetreetreetree · 21/09/2026 04:41

He probably can’t afford to. Didn’t he have to pay a lot of money to someone following a legal dispute? I know he sold his house not that long ago.
I feel that once you’ve committed the sort of crime he did you should be cancelled.

ElenOfTheWays · 21/09/2026 05:04

He ought to be in prison not performing at concerts.
He hasn't been able to sing for years anyway. Sounds absolutely terrible.

thatwasclose · 21/09/2026 07:49

Hasn’t stopped Paul McCartney. He sounds absolutely dire and has done for years.

Motnight · 21/09/2026 07:51

He's not a nice man at all, spends time on X eagerly trying to give away women's rights.

TurquoiseGoldPeaches · 21/09/2026 08:04

Weird he’s not cancelled really.

SquirrelGG · 21/09/2026 08:35

I'm certainly no fan of Boy George, but I rather think that when he retires is up to him, not anyone else.

jonnybriggswasgreat · 21/09/2026 08:53

He served his time so that’s why he’s not been cancelled, also at the time there was no sympathy coverage towards his victim and with the victim being a male sex worker, it’s hardly surprising.

Sure, his voice hasn’t been good for a long time but then you can say that about a lot of people in the public eye. Boy George is hardly unique in that respect.

Sarah2891 · 21/09/2026 08:58

He's vile in many ways.
His support for what Israel is doing is gross.

x2boys · 21/09/2026 09:12

Hes always bern a bit crap imo
But if people still want to pay to see him thats their buissness .

AuntieBiotics · 21/09/2026 09:18

I saw him in moulin rouge on Broadway a couple of years ago and he was decent. Not amazing, not awful. Competent. But obviously a lesser part in a larger show.

Dweetfidilove · 21/09/2026 09:23

£500 for a photo op with BG? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

If there are 'folks' who still want to pay to see him, then who am I to think he should stop? A fool and his money and all that 🤣🤣.

NovaF · 21/09/2026 09:25

I do not understand how he had a career after chaining that young guy to a radiator.

Everanewbie · 21/09/2026 09:35

Not a fan of him or his music, but admire his stance on Israel and agree with his song We Will Dance Again, even if he used AI to help him.

Electricsausages · 21/09/2026 09:47

Toyah Willcox should give up as well

user293948849167 · 21/09/2026 09:52

I think he’s disgusting, the only reason he wasn’t “cancelled” after being convicted of assaulting that man was because people are scared of being called homophobic.
He’s a sex offender and a misogynist and I wouldn’t even go to his concert if I was given free tickets