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AIBU to think Boy George should retire from performing now?

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Netcurtainnelly · 20/09/2026 23:42

To think Boy George should give up now .

His is absolutely crap. His voice is weak, he struggles to sing, and he sounds awful. 😞

I noticed he's got a concert in December and it's £499 to have a couple of photos taken close to him. 😳

Some of these has beens should retire now.

Alot of people who maybe liked his stuff in the 80s, have grown up and moved on.
They certainly don't want to be ripped off listening to that drivel. 🫨

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Lugol · 22/09/2026 20:46

Hiredgun · 22/09/2026 20:38

Thanks. I’ll bet you seen some things running that bar.

When the Spacey thing blew up and I heard those young guys descriptions, I knew exactly what they were talking about. He’s a serious sex pest as is Boy George. They’re everywhere sadly.

I very much did sadly. I saw a lot of violence against men and women working there and a lot of sexual harassment.

Spacey got away with it but there is zero doubt in my mind that those men are telling the truth.
When anyone tells me they have been sexually assaulted or raped I believe them.
I've never met George but I do know a lot of people who know him personally and I have rarely heard anything good about his behaviour.

Hiredgun · 22/09/2026 20:38

Lugol · 22/09/2026 19:34

I ran a bar in the gay village once and can confirm this sort of aggressive harassment goes on all the time.

Sorry this has happened to you

Thanks. I’ll bet you seen some things running that bar.

When the Spacey thing blew up and I heard those young guys descriptions, I knew exactly what they were talking about. He’s a serious sex pest as is Boy George. They’re everywhere sadly.

Waitingfordoggo · 22/09/2026 20:38

Grapewrath · 22/09/2026 16:17

Boy George should retire from life tbh
Cunt
i always remember him talking about the ‘rivalry’ between him and George Michael 😂😂 imagine thinking they are in the same league either musically or otherwise

Edited

Haha! That’s hilarious. Same name, both gay… and absolutely nothing else in common. George Michael had oodles of talent, class, and humanity.

Lugol · 22/09/2026 19:34

Hiredgun · 21/09/2026 12:43

This doesn’t surprise me at all about BG given what we know about him.

Sadly, this type of predatory behaviour is rife. And it always seems to be a fixation on oral sex. If I had a pound for the number of times I have been aggressively offered a BJ by a gay guy saying it’ll be the best ever. Ehm…. no thanks you creep.

I ran a bar in the gay village once and can confirm this sort of aggressive harassment goes on all the time.

Sorry this has happened to you

Lugol · 22/09/2026 19:29

XigDoop · 21/09/2026 00:08

He's vile. I'm surprised he wasn't cancelled after what he did to that man.

Hi brother also has form for the very same thing. Both went to prison for it.

My old flatmate was a MASSIVE Boy George fan and when his first autobiography came out he bought it immediately.
I didn't really think much about BG so I read it after him and I absolutely hated him by the end of it.

He is vile and bitter misogynist.

Nothing I've seen of him since has redeemed him in my eyes and his manager is a cunt too.

Illegally18 · 22/09/2026 19:03

thatwasclose · 21/09/2026 07:49

Hasn’t stopped Paul McCartney. He sounds absolutely dire and has done for years.

Are you serious? . To compare pm and bg? True, Paul has lost his voice, but what songs!

Triskellion75 · 22/09/2026 18:26

He's a nasty little shit of a man but then he always has been. You couldn't pay me 500 quid to stand next to him for a photo.

AvogadrosNumber · 22/09/2026 16:55

spreadandsprinkles · 22/09/2026 16:21

I will never understand how BG can sometimes pop up on the BBC but John Torode got cancelled.

My guess on that one is that Torode's misdemeanours were committed whilst under contract with the BBC and actively in the BBC workplace. Boy George's weren't.

Grumpyoldcat · 22/09/2026 16:52

You should ask him!

MabelMarple · 22/09/2026 16:44

Never liked him but he went up in my estimation recently with his stand against anti-semtism.

MyPeachBiscuit · 22/09/2026 16:42

I'm surprised he still has a career and fans after the radiator incident. I don't know anyone who would pay to see him perform but clearly they must exist.

I suppose after a life of drug use and legal battles he can't afford to retire and he's unwilling/unable to pursue some other kind of career. As long as he still has some kind of fan base and name recognition he'll keep going.

Snowie99 · 22/09/2026 16:29

He used to be on Real Housewives of Beverly Hill quite regularly as a friend of Dorit and PK. He’s grim and I could never see what they saw in him . Utter sleazeball.

spreadandsprinkles · 22/09/2026 16:21

I will never understand how BG can sometimes pop up on the BBC but John Torode got cancelled.

Grapewrath · 22/09/2026 16:17

Boy George should retire from life tbh
Cunt
i always remember him talking about the ‘rivalry’ between him and George Michael 😂😂 imagine thinking they are in the same league either musically or otherwise

Mermaidmusing · 22/09/2026 16:15

He’s a really unpleasant person. In the early 90s, he spilt a drink down my friend’s jacket in a club and when she had a go at hiim, he was completely unapologetic and told her it was a “cheap outfit” and tried to belittle her to everyone looking on. He’s a nasty, mysogynistic little toerag. Should have been cancelled after falsely imprisoning that rent boy.

XigDoop · 22/09/2026 12:22

UncannyFanny · 21/09/2026 12:44

So does nobody else think it’s a bit of a miracle that someone who used ridiculous amounts of heroin at the height of the 1980’s AIDS epidemic is even alive?

Yep that's fair, I remember a couple of his friends dying of ODs. And Church of the Poison Mind is a banger.

sunshine314 · 21/09/2026 14:28

I think YABU obviously because it's unrealistic to think that'll happen. Or that he should be forced to.

You don't need to go or support him though. and yes, he doesn't sound like a very nice man at all!

ScaramoucheCanYouDoTheFandango · 21/09/2026 13:16

Not my cup of tea, but he is making a living and that is his “job”. If you don’t like it don’t go 🤷🏻‍♀️.

He must have some “fans” that are willing to pay or he wouldn’t be doing it,

UncannyFanny · 21/09/2026 12:44

So does nobody else think it’s a bit of a miracle that someone who used ridiculous amounts of heroin at the height of the 1980’s AIDS epidemic is even alive?

Hiredgun · 21/09/2026 12:43

XigDoop · 21/09/2026 01:23

This was posted on reddit

"jmh90027
•4y ago•Edited 4y ago

After a photoshoot an intoxicated Boy George locked my (straight) photographer friend in the back of a car and (quite seriously) refused to let him out unless he agreed to recieve oral sex.
Eventually BG was convinced to let him out by one of his hangers on, but as the photoshoot was in the middle of nowhere my friend had to wait outside the house for a taxi to collect him during which BG groped him repeatedly and slapped him round the face for pulling away when he tried to kiss him
A few weeks later BG's team specifically requested my friend for another photoshoot (again in the middle of nowhere) and eventually pulled out of the magazine interview when he refused."

This doesn’t surprise me at all about BG given what we know about him.

Sadly, this type of predatory behaviour is rife. And it always seems to be a fixation on oral sex. If I had a pound for the number of times I have been aggressively offered a BJ by a gay guy saying it’ll be the best ever. Ehm…. no thanks you creep.

CleanSkin · 21/09/2026 12:34

Electricsausages · 21/09/2026 09:47

Toyah Willcox should give up as well

I’m not so sure about Toyah - i saw her & Robert Fripp (her DH) just before she was on Strictly. She was absolutely fantastic! Great voice & a ridiculous amount of energy; only problem that I had was the saccharine-sweet adoration she apparently has for Mr Fripp.
Boy George, OTOH, I’ve never liked as an individual; he’s been one of those hiding in plain sight men, unfortunately.

Netcurtainnelly · 21/09/2026 12:33

Maybe if he'd invested his money wisely and hadn't spent it in heroin he'd be comfortable money wise now.

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Abhannmor · 21/09/2026 12:32

Netcurtainnelly · 21/09/2026 09:56

Possibly true but he's a much nicer person than George and the Beatles were alot more liked.

And he has a fabulous back catalogue. George has five or six good songs to be honest.

Abhannmor · 21/09/2026 12:30

Should have packed it in around 1992. He can make a living being a ' name'. Such a disappointment he turned out to be.

BoredZelda · 21/09/2026 12:29

thatwasclose · 21/09/2026 07:49

Hasn’t stopped Paul McCartney. He sounds absolutely dire and has done for years.

Or the plethora of other old acts who just keep touring.