Been dating a single dad for around a month. I’m late twenties (single mother), he’s 40 and a single dad to a teen dc.
Dates have seemed to go great until last night. He started going on about his salary and then whinging about his CMS (£300).
XH was on a slightly lower salary and we used to have same contact arrangement (EOW), so I know according to the cms calculator, he should be paying more.
He then started whinging about XW wanting more and that she claimed it was to go towards bills too where as he believes it should only be spent on the child. I pointed out that his XW has their child the majority of the time so her bills would be more and that teenagers are expensive.
His argument was that if he spends £300 on their child, she should too.🙃I pointed out that I could imagine she was spending much more than £300 per month. If he really didn’t want to pay his cms then 50/50 may be an option.
He went in the huff and the date ended abruptly. I don’t plan on seeing him again but wibu to call him out?
For context I don’t receive any cms as have an amicable 50/50 arrangement with XH.