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AIBU to ask how parents prepare older teens for work?

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SaveYourself1 · 18/09/2026 19:57

Parents of older teenagers/young adults, how much are you actually doing to help prepare them for work?

I keep seeing parents on LinkedIn trying to help recently graduated children find jobs, alongside all the stories about fewer graduate roles, huge numbers of applications and AI changing entry-level work. Every other day there’s an article once about the jobs market…

For those with children around 16–21, I’m curious how you’re preparing (if at all)?!?!

The grad market seems to be changing so quickly.

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RosesAndHellebores · 20/09/2026 17:06

We set an example.
When they finished uni, the allowance stopped.
DS: caddied, gardened, laboured, Amazon warehouse;
DD: worked in wetherspoons, babysat, got a morning job as an early receptionist, 7.30am, that was hard to fill.

Admittedly, they are 31/28 now but they were 100% expected to work and that would have extended to cleaning bogs and wiping arses if that had been required to earn money. Because that was the expectation, work was never an issue for either. Taught to smile, make eye contact, shake hands and say please and thank you.

InfoSecInTheCity · 20/09/2026 17:44

I do a lot of hiring and graduates who have never worked a part time job are an absolute nightmare to manage. They are knowledgeable (at least theoretically) in their subject area, but are complete neophytes to the world of employment. I see frequent issues with time management, work ethic, dress code, prioritisation, customer (internal and external customers) service, basic professional behaviour. Those who have worked part time at a younger age understand work politics, building rapport with colleagues etc. The first few months is like trying to work with over confident toddlers.

ChickenRunRunRun · 20/09/2026 17:59

My nephew is a chef and says they have big problems keeping pot washers (known as kitchen porters).

It’s hot, dirty work and many young people can’t/won’t stick it.

Some don’t even finish the first shift.

Silverbirchleaf · 20/09/2026 19:23

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