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To buy a dry robe as a winter coat?!

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justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:45

I live in the south west. From October to March, our weather is 99% driving rain and howling wind. I’ve tried over the years to find a decent winter coat that keeps me warm and dry. I’ve found a few that work somewhat, including a lovely M&S rain jacket, but it’s a bit thin.

im considering just biting the bullet and buying a big waterproof changing coat from regatta and being cosy.

But does it look a bit wanky?! Is it okay?!

this is the one I have my eye on

https://www.regatta.com/adults-waterproof-changing-robe-dark-cherry/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_16108952393&utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D_&utm_term=&utm_brand=regatta&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16097452002&gbraid=0AAAAADQdSE8zgQrK5ij4KWiKVriu-WZ3p&gclid=CjwKCAjwwrPVBhA1EiwAv_YO-URMzXzdUfe_4pedDIy1IwFhHmTq04jbmI2WidUesYp3VTPhi4AJvBoCfVEQAvD_BwE

YABU - accept the soggy legs and wear something more dignified

YANBU - stay warm and dry

Adult's Waterproof Changing Robe | Dark Cherry

Oversized, weatherproof and warm, our Adult Waterproof Changing Robe will give you freedom of moveme

https://www.regatta.com/adults-waterproof-changing-robe-dark-cherry/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_16108952393&utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D_&utm_term=&utm_brand=regatta&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16097452002&gbraid=0AAAAADQdSE8zgQrK5ij4KWiKVriu-WZ3p&gclid=CjwKCAjwwrPVBhA1EiwAv_YO-URMzXzdUfe_4pedDIy1IwFhHmTq04jbmI2WidUesYp3VTPhi4AJvBoCfVEQAvD_BwE

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fmlnotagain · 18/09/2026 13:01

Social suicide. Dry robe wanker

FirmSnake · 18/09/2026 13:02

Jonesmaximus · 18/09/2026 12:19

Do you think the model in the OP looks ugly with it on? I think she looks great.

The model in the OP isn't even wearing it properly. Uncuff those sleeves and do the zip up and it's a big brown sack.

Morecoffeeneedef · 18/09/2026 13:03

justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:47

Oh I’m aware they’re ugly, I’m not too bothered by that as I would only really be wearing it on my commute. I just can’t find a decent winter coat that is long, warm, dry and doesn’t cost £300

Not ugly, it's quite stylish apart from the branding on the back. Ypu might be able to cover that up with felt tip pen in the main coat colour. I wear mine around town.

Lexingtonavenueandme · 18/09/2026 13:04

OP l like it! And for the record … anyone who can say ‘does it look a bit wanky?’ is NEVER going to look ‘a bit wanky’! I totally think you should get it! It’s so cozy looking and I like you!

Mokel · 18/09/2026 13:07

What’s more important
. Looking like a sack of potatoes but warm n toasty
. looking glam but freezing cold due to thin coat

theneighbourgotmycake · 18/09/2026 13:14

you might look like a sac of potatoes when it's cold and/or raining and you have to zip it up

but I think people are completely deluded on how they look when they are wearing a parka or big coat themselves.

jeaux90 · 18/09/2026 13:15

Mokel · 18/09/2026 13:00

Could someone recommend a long (not ankle long) thick coat with a hood, pockets (seen many coats without these) for me 5ft 8, size 20 and got bloaty belly

Look for the merrel long puffer coat. Mine is amazing and warm but it’s for sub zero rather than wet, it’s only shower proof. You can often find them on Vinted and eBay. If you want new then Columbia do a long version. Tonnes of long puffers on Atos etc but if you want warm you need Down in it. Also the craghoppers one is down from 200 to 140 on Blacks site right now.

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 18/09/2026 13:23

They are so hated because their purpose is to change in - from the sea or any outside body of water I guess.
on one hand, would you walk from your car to Tesco in a wetsuit just because it was raining? Or wear a dressing gown out and about because it’s a little chilly?
on the other - Uggs were originally made for surfers to pop on after getting out the sea, and they’ve evolved.

I do think it’s possible to get an actual coat for around the same price point that does the same thing

TeaIsLovely · 18/09/2026 13:24

Morninginesa · 18/09/2026 13:01

Would you say something like that around your kids out of interest? @TeaIsLovely

I have one child. The other one I lost. So you can go back in your box now. Cheerio.

Namechangingregularly · 18/09/2026 13:25

BaffledAndBemusedToo · 18/09/2026 09:03

Dryrobes are like Crocs - ugly, but have totally smashed their design brief and are incredibly efficient at their assigned role. I have one, am aware of the stigma if you are not actually within 10 feet of a body of water, and wear it anyway because it’s bloody brilliant at keeping you warm and dry. They are so snug, the warm snuggly feeling it gives you kind of acts as a shield against any disapproving looks. You simply don’t care 🤣 Go for it, you won’t regret it.

Well you have just sold it to me! I’m off to find one now

JustinOtherdad · 18/09/2026 13:33

You will also need a Jaecoo with a TentBox on the roof.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 18/09/2026 13:33

justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:47

Oh I’m aware they’re ugly, I’m not too bothered by that as I would only really be wearing it on my commute. I just can’t find a decent winter coat that is long, warm, dry and doesn’t cost £300

I'm currently looking for a coat with the same sort of qualities. I live on the coast in Cumbria, so very windy, wet and cold in the autumn and winter! My husband and both (adult) kids have dry robes but they use them for swimming in the sea. They're not waterproof (I acknowledge that the one you've posted says it is though) but also the design of them means they're very "flappy" and walking in the wind can be quite difficult so I wouldn't consider it from that point of view. One that I am seriously considering is The Windermere from Cotton Traders. Reduced to £70 or £80 depending on the length. Waterproof, long and slightly padded.

Morninginesa · 18/09/2026 13:49

TeaIsLovely · 18/09/2026 13:24

I have one child. The other one I lost. So you can go back in your box now. Cheerio.

Doesn’t answer my question

Would you?

Failedcrunchymum · 18/09/2026 13:59

I also recommend Mountain Warehouse, it was the only place I found an affordable, warm, truly waterproof coat for winter. I actually buy a lot of stuff from there and never regretted any of it.

AgathaDanbury · 18/09/2026 14:31

I think you should get one and my logic is as follows: People still carry on wearing them even though they look unwieldy and they know about the 'wanker' reputation, so surely they must work?

SapphireSeptember · 18/09/2026 14:38

I've got a Regatta coat that is long and cosy with a hood. Can't remember what it was called though! Despite being a Goth, I got one in cream, because of walking to and from work in the dark and having to cross a busy road with no traffic lights.

bottomlypotts7 · 18/09/2026 15:03

Haven’t rtft but if you’re not bothered about what it looks like and only care about being warm and dry then why are you worrying if it’s wanky or not? Who cares? If it’s practical for you then go for it! Personally I quite like the Regatta one and to my untrained eye it just looks like a winter coat at first glance. Unlike the actual ones that are completely emblazoned with ‘dry robe’ all over them.

JaniieJones · 18/09/2026 15:06

So many waterproof coats to choose from, dry robes are too big and flappy. Go out in the driving rain and it'll be billowing about like a parachute.

Neighbourmystery · 18/09/2026 15:19

TeaIsLovely · 18/09/2026 12:57

they’re twatty ugly things - I have family and friends in Cornwall who wouldn’t be seen dead in them. It’s bad enough seeing holiday makers wearing them paired up
with Crocs.

Why do they care though if people want to be warm and dry?

Dr13Hadley · 18/09/2026 15:36

liftkick · 18/09/2026 08:52

I just couldn’t get on board with the dry robe, I’ve got a Sea Salt Janelle which while still quite MN mum-esque at least nips in the waist so I feel less like a sack of potatoes while being warm and dry.

I’ve got one of these too. Brilliant for standing in the rain watching the kids footy matches. Massive fleece lined pockets too!

theneighbourgotmycake · 18/09/2026 15:40

JaniieJones · 18/09/2026 15:06

So many waterproof coats to choose from, dry robes are too big and flappy. Go out in the driving rain and it'll be billowing about like a parachute.

they're not though. Big they are, but they are heavy and long enough so they are not flappy at all.

Nursemumma92 · 18/09/2026 15:51

If you feel happy with it then go for it. I'm also in the south west and they are great for keeping warm and dry in the autumn/winter weather!

JaniieJones · 18/09/2026 15:59

theneighbourgotmycake · 18/09/2026 15:40

they're not though. Big they are, but they are heavy and long enough so they are not flappy at all.

They billow on everyone I've seen wearing one.

It's not about how daft they look either it's the practicalities. If you want to shove one on after surfing or swimming before changing and dashing to your car fine, dog walking in the wind not so much. Loads of waterproof coats more suitable imo.

FenellaFancyFudge · 18/09/2026 16:07

I had a seasalt Janelle for years, which was great if a bit dull in colour (it was medium dark blue). And then I discovered the existence of the dryrobe back in 2020... I have the camo green with the hot pink fleece on the inside. It's the best coat I've ever had, hands down. I realised very quickly that no other coat would get a look in so I gave away the Janelle and pretty much every other coat I own apart from some faux fur coats I wear for formal wear or parties. I layer up with a packable down jacket with no hood when it is very cold.

I couldn't give one flying f* about what other people think. The coat is warm, long, waterproof, excellent hood and huge pockets. I am looking for another dryrobe now as I've lost weight so I need to sell my Medium size one and get a Small.

Get the coat that does the job for you OP! Everyone else can go swivel.