I’m so fed up of being the only person who proactively plans in my house. My DH will always pick the kids up, take them to school etc but it’s all very reactive. If I’m not home (at work or out) unless I tell my teen son and DH to remember X at X time, they inevitably forget. I feel as if I am the only person who plans - meals, holidays, clubs etc. if there is a form to fill in, it only happens if I do it or remind someone else several times to do it. For context, I work more than full time in a serious job plus running my own business so I’m not a stay at home mum with lots of spare time. I end up doing it because I don’t want the kids to miss out but I’m resentful and stressed. Today I was as at a conference all day. Despite putting teen’s sports club in the diary and texting him to remind him of time, he was late because both him and DH forgot. What can I do to stop me being the only one who remembers stuff?